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    I can not understand how high contact clubs do not get shut down. For the dancers - how do you feel about men touching your breasts? I personally think it is unsanitary and GROSS! (and i dont think im being a prude) I know of clubs that allow more to go on...(i never believed this shit actually happened until i came to a brothel like club) BIG MISTAKE .and I just do not understand the girls that do these kind of things. (hand jobs, blow jobs, sex etc) I would think you could diseases just from a guy handling your breasts.....what about everything else?? What do girls charge for these things?? I hope you at least use condoms!!!!!! If a guy is sucking on your tits imagine how many elses tits hes sucked on also. EWWWW how can a club like this not get shut down???? I know this is not a topic that alot of people are truthful about...but i really am curious to understand why people prostitute themselves? It really makes it harder for the cleaner girls to make any money because when we wont sit on someones face or give them head they wont even tip us.

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    First, please work, on your choices of adverbs when asking questions so that u don't come off the wrong way, the phrase"you dancers" is not very nice sounding as if evry1 on this board engages in sexual activity in the club, except you of course. Next, i worked at a club that went from sugar to shit. It was nice and clean, and then little by little girls statred pushing the boundaries. In time word spread that one could get away with this and that at X club, thats how. The managers pockets obviously got padded 2 let this kinda stuff go on. I was hurt b/c this place was like a home 2 many girls. It's still a home 2 me, I simply will not work here nemore. This club had the most expensive dances in the city and were not hard to get at any time no matter what a girl looked like. A girl could go in and do 10 dances thats $600. So even if u had a bad nght and only did 3 or 4 dances u had $180 or $240. Great money, no hard work at all.
    If a girl had a problem the club could solve it. It was close knit and warm, once u were in u were in unless u did something to the contrary. Firings and hirings were given without hard feelings. A girl might get fired from door girl, go back to dancing, and be the day shift bartender three weeks later, all at the same club. No matter what the job, u wanted 2 remain in the club with your family.
    Well, if my fine ass is tryin to sell $60 dances and miss thing is selling her pretty ass, really, selling her ass for a little bit more or the $60 dance price, why pay me for stimulation when u can get penetration from a comparably looking girl? Then, the only girls left were either hustling their ass off to sell dances or fucking like rabbits in the VIP. If out of thirty girls at least twenty are giving more then us ten were feeling hurt in the pocket. Upper end multiple hundred dollar nights became simple reminisces that started off with the words" u remember when'.
    And thats how it happened at my first club. Eventually it was shut down, but not b/c of that. It was shut down b/c of some aggravations with a particular city council man and a stolen credit card. Guess what, opened back up a few weeks later. On the up and up, and really lots of good customers to get it things started all over again. I was really happy and went back 2 work a few days. I did leave though and go back 2 my other club. Well, a few months and the club backslid and went back 2 where it was before. Usdd to be pretty decent club filled half and half with dancers and whores trying to hard to get not even half the money that used 2 be available in this club.
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    Being a dancer who shuns high contact myself....

    1. The definition of prostitution is a matter of semantics and opinion. What you are declaring to be prostitution may not legally be classified as prostitution in a given locality, or it may not be construed as prostituion by the individuals participating.

    2. Define "disease". Germs can be spread by allowing a man to touch or suck your breasts, but the biggest germ hazard in this field is touching MONEY. The male hand and mouth is a lot cleaner and less germ ridden than any paper currency. STDs on the other hand would be extremely difficult to spread in this manner, unless - for example - somebody bit you hard enough to break the skin. Even then, I doubt it would be all that likely.

    3. High contact does not always mean performing oral sex, intercourse, or hand jobs. As with anything else in this business, what is considered "high contact" in one area may be considered "normal" in another. I started out stripping in an area where allowing a customer to give you a quick, light, "buddy" hug would be considered high mileage. I doubt allowing someone to give me a light hug around the shoulders qualifies as a sexual activity.

    4. If you find this so repulsive, and do not engage in such activities, why do you care what these girls charge? Generally speaking, I would think they would be lacking in intelligence if they didn't charge enough to cover their bail and legal fees when / if they are caught. Such being the case, and assuming that many DO get caught, I'd imagine that they are not coming out much further ahead in the game than yourself.

    5. As for the fact that if a guy sucks on a dancers tits, he's probably done so to many other women... well, I can safely ask the same question about pretty much any guy I have dated long enough to have intimate relations... as can almost any other dancer, I think. And I can also safely say that most of the guys I have known have had the breasts of many women in their mouths, over the course of their lives. So are you saying that these girls should be concerned because it is the a CUSTOMER'S mouth, not just any old male? Because I think most customers are just any old male. Or are you saying that they should be concerned that a man has sucked on another woman's breasts before theirs? Because if so, then most of us should probably be very concerned about anyone we may choose to marry. Or are you saying they should be concerned that he sucked on another DANCER'S tits? Well, that being the case, maybe you need to think about the fact that most dancers are women, which means you would be implying that the female breast is something unhealthy and unsanitary... I don't think you really want to pursue any of these routes.

    6. Many of these clubs DO get shut down. And those that don't are usually sbject to their fair share of raids and busts. But the thing to remember is that this is one of the benefits clubs garner from the whole independent contractor label - they can claim a girl committed illegal acts without their knowledge or consent. That's why in many localities, it is the girl who gets busted, fined, and jailed.

    7. Funny. I don't prostitute myself, and I can't think of any point in time when I have had trouble making money that competed with a girl who performed extras. But perhaps that's because I target customers who are looking for something a lot cleaner while still spending money. And I can really turn on the mojo, which counts for a lot. If you are having so much trouble, then either you aren't trying hard enough to be clean and competitive, or you need to find another club or locality to work.

    Due to your apparently intense feelings and opinions on the matter, perhaps you should go to the following link and read through all the old threads. It would be right up your alley:
    http://www.exclusivetvlnet.com/dancer/
    You should meet some like-minded individuals there. Perhaps you can all get together and work on saving the stripping world, while the rest of us worry about conducting ourselves in a manner that we individually and personally find morally acceptable. Which, in my case, means refusing to offer high-contact - in case you missed that.

    McCain

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    "can't touch this", with the extremely rare nymphomaniacal exception, no dancer WANTS to give "high mileage" or "extras" for the sheer fun of it. The reason that girls do wind up giving "high mileage" and "extras" is money, pure and simple. In many cities it's not a matter of choice any more. Perhaps you'll understand this better when the economy in your own city gets so bad that if a dancer doesn't start doing "high mileage" and "extras" when all the other dancers are offering it, she'll walk out of the club after 8 hours with about $40-$50 in her pocket after tipping out.

    I try not to judge the "good or bad" of doing extras, because I realize that many girls have kids to feed and bills to pay and without extras their chances of doing this have already disappeared in some cities. On the other hand, I do NOT do extras myself, out of personal conviction, and would quit the business rather than be forced into extras versus starvation. That's easy for me to say, since I have a college degree and could easily be doing other things to earn money, an option many 'extras' girls do not have. But I do reserve the right to be pissed off at girls who start to introduce extras into "clean" clubs, which ruins business for the rest of us and which puts us at risk of being busted right along with her!

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    Default Re: High contact clubs

    Cant' touch this:

    The reason many of these clubs don't get shut down is because they make generous contributions to the local politicians and police depts. This works if the local govt is liberal, but I can't see this happening in areas where conservative Republicans control the legislation.
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    Hey :-)

    If you have such an aversion to "high mileage" esp. concerning a customer (male or female) touching/grabbing a dancer's breasts.... then I would highly recommend that you do NOT work on the Gold Coast .... at the very least.

    I know Melbourne has no contact private dances only because of the law.

    Here on the Gold Coast... it is the "norm" for a guy to buy a $50 15 minute private dance and expect to be able to grab/touch the dancer from above the waist (except in Santa Fe Gold and Bad Girls where it is called "guided touching" and even then most girls won't allow the customer to touch for $50).

    What is frowned upon here on the Coast is any girl that allows guys to fondle her private parts (anus and/or vagina) as well as do excessive grinding etc.. that's what is considered high mileage (aka nasty).

    If any dancer offers sex.. she is usually fired by the club or found out by liquior licensing (and hence fined and got a record).

    A good majority of the time tho' the dancers on the Coast here are just that... if a dancer does decide she wants to do "extras" then they are to do it OUTSIDE the club (organise it outside the club) and keep it to themself sort of thing. It does happen however mainly outside the club.


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    houston is a republican town in a republican state


    yall know where i am going with this so all i will say is extras gallor
    The sex was so good that even the neighbors had a cigarette
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    Sounds like it may be time for you to think about another job, or another club if possible. And not all clubs are like that. Not all dancers are like that. Crap like that has moved into the clubs, thats reality. We are strippers. Take off our clothes and dance to a song. Not much more than that should go on, unless you do lap dances, and VIP's. Thats all fine. These clubs we work in are not "blow job clubs" or Sucking off clubs." They are still called strip clubs! And that crap needs to stay out of them. We as dancers try to keep our clubs a nice atmosphere. I don't want it moving in my club. Maybe it has. But if i see it, call me a Tattle tale....Pamela

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    can't touch this,

    In Louisville, the high contact clubs don't get busted because the PD wants prostitution indoors where the gentle folk won't see it.

    Z

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    Default Aussievee,

    isn't prostitution legal in Australia? Just asking.

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    I would think that a dancer would be more concerned about a guys hands groping them, than the guys mouth on their breasts, when it comes to germs. All things considered the majority of guys do not wash their hands after using the restroom.

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