I'm sorry, I know most of this has been covered elswhere on the site, but I have some questions.
I've only been dancing a week, and I'm not making money (for those of you who read my other posts, I decided not to switch clubs afterall). I'm getting some dances, mostly from guys curious about the new girl. I know the immediate response is "keep going", but I'm not even making back my house fee, and I don't know how long I can keep going. (house is $100, plus $5 tip to the bartender, and $36 when I can't get the guys to buy me drinks)
So there's my background, here are my questions:
Should I tell guys I'm new, or will I do better if I don't?
I work dayshift, and most of the guys are regulars. Is there hope? (I can work the night shift, but it would be difficult for me.)
What do I say? I know I have to talk for a while, and I do well with that, but when it comes time to ask for a dance, most of the lines I've read on here won't work in my club. "Can I dance for you now before it gets busy?" It doesn't get busy on my shift. "Let's go back to the VIP room, so we can have more privacy" Well, you're the only guy here, so this is as private as that. Arg!
What can I say to keep a conversation going with someone who answers with one syllable? So far I have "have you been in here before? Are you from around here? what do you do? and what do you do for fun?" But sometimes we get through those in 15 seconds, and I know its too early to ask for a dance, but I will because I can't think of anything else to say.
I think I do a decent stage show, though I need to work in a few more moves, but my lapdances are lacking. I try to watch the other girls, but they give me dirty looks when I'm too obvious watching them lapdance. any tips?
I'm sorry there's so much here.Our club is pretty slow right now, and most of the income is generated by regulars. I haven't had much luck generating repeat dances, and I'm scared to death the "new girl" appeal will wear off and I won't have any regulars.
I enjoy the work, but I need to make some money doing it. I'm going to be really sad if I go through my savings and have to quit because I can't afford house anymore.
Thank you so much for listening.



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