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    I decided to start my first day back to work this New Year with a new outfit, everything crispy white from thong-heels. I did my usual 2 songs on stage and then proceeded around the bar to collect tips. I approached a regular customer, that never gets dances from me but tips generously on stage $5,$10 sometimes $20. He said Happy New Year and you look great. I said Happy New Year and good to see you. He went on to say it's good to see someone who invests in the way she looks and not always wear the same tired outfits. He went on to name at least 4 girls who always wear the same outfits usually 2, 3 days in a row. I know because I work 5-6 days a week and can identify a girl for a customer by him describing what she is wearing. I really felt great that this guy noticed my attempt to always wear something new and exciting, investing in me. I really didn't think guys noticed but Ladies they DO :o

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    Hi Tori, so right they notice, i have bought several different outfits and started wearing them some time ago and the compliments were flying all around me. I usually wear red, white, blue, light colours look great on stage. But i do have a thing for black with the hair. And the smallest change was brought up by several customers. I wore a style i normally don't just to up my earnings. Hair, earings, shoes clothing! You know what else they really notice too! (me being a stage dancer,) when you change your dance routine to something "so not you"!! They go ga-ga. It's like you are a newbie with loads of experience. Guys like change. I agree with you sooo much! Thanks for sharing. Pamela

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    He went on to name at least 4 girls who always wear the same outfits usually 2, 3 days in a row. I know because I work 5-6 days a week and can identify a girl for a customer by him describing what she is wearing.
    Tori
    This customer is spending to much time at the club!!!

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    Nah guest,
    we love the faithful guys who spend time with us. I see the same guys there everytime i work. And when i am not there i hear they are! It can be addicting to some. Some guys spend their weeks pay in a club. I see it, its great! They drive new nice cars so they are managing their money well, to some it's just play cash!
    Pamela

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    Guest,

    I work at a club that has plenty of regulars, not all of them buy dances, some only stop in for a drink on their way home from work and others stop by for a bite to eat. The club has a great atmosphere and employees that have been around for 5+ years.

    This particular guy stops in a couple of days a week but only gets dances on Mon. because thats when his favorite is there. The other two days he stops in for about a half hour one maybe two drinks tips all the ladies generously then off. I can appreciate a guy like this instead of a guy that comes in everyday just taking up space at the bar looking as if he has no idea what the hell is going on. This guy is always given a warm welcome upon entering the club, maybe thats why he comes around as much and hats off to him for being so generous to all the ladies. I would definitely love to see 10 more just like him in the club on a daily basis.

    Tori

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    Guys do notice he polished well coordinated girls. The girls who have bottoms that coordinate wih their dress girls whose shoes always mtch thei outfits, and girls whose nails are always done.

    When i was selling shoes at clubs to dancers they seemed have one pair of shoes that they wore with EVERYTHING and would only buy another pair if the heel broke. I worked at one club with a girl who had patched up a rippedshoe with silver duct tape. she said she was only dancing for 2 more months and didn't want to waste money on costumes or shoes. Thn the girls who wear ivory shoes with white or black.

    I agree, your appearance and "polish" is everything. When i stayed in the dorm with other girls while working Midwest bookings I washed my costumes out each night as usual and lots of girls wanted to know why. Because the stink like smoke and sweat.

    Having a decent variety of coordinating costumes and shoes is VITAL. A girl should be able to work a 5-6 day week and not have to repeat themselves and EVERY girl should have a pair of Black, white, and clear shoes.

    Guys notice and they WILL spend their money on the classy polished looking girlswith good personalities.

    Tori, since you are in the cosume and soe business, I bet you always knock em' dead.

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    I agree completely! There is nothing worse than watching a girl wear the same dingy white dress every time she is dancing! You know it is bad when the customers comment on it. Everyone that work with thinks I am nuts but I change my costume after every stage performance.

    Same with the washing of the costumes, the cigarette smell that gets in them is gross. I learned quickly that anything with feathers as trim is a no-no. I have a robe that lives at my club because my husband can't stand the way it smells. I come into my house literally stripping in the laundry room and heading straight to the shower. Ok so I can't type today!

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    Girls don't wash their outfits after wearing them? :o

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    I hate when guys just come to a strip club to have a drink or eat or watch sports. They could have a drink at a regular, they could have a bite to eat at burger king, and watch sports at there friends house. Guy like that just want to look at the girls for free.

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    Have you guys ever noticed in your clubs that some girls who haven't washed their T-backs use a baby wipe to wipe the part of it that goes up their butt? :o

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    Guest,

    I work at a club that has plenty of regulars, not all of them buy dances, some only stop in for a drink on their way home from work and others stop by for a bite to eat. The club has a great atmosphere and employees that have been around for 5+ years.

    This particular guy stops in a couple of days a week but only gets dances on Mon. because thats when his favorite is there. The other two days he stops in for about a half hour one maybe two drinks tips all the ladies generously then off. .... I would definitely love to see 10 more just like him in the club on a daily basis.

    Tori
    Dont most dancers hate guys who come in several times a week, and not spend money on the girls? Yeah the guy spends money on the club (drinks, food, etc.), but you guys get nothing from that. What's the saying... oh yeah, you don't work for free.

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    I hate when guys just come to a strip club to have a drink or eat or watch sports. They could have a drink at a regular, they could have a bite to eat at burger king, and watch sports at there friends house. Guy like that just want to look at the girls for free.
    And the food at Burger King is cheaper! When I head to the strip club, I'm there to see the ladies.
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    Dont most dancers hate guys who come in several times a week, and not spend money on the girls? Yeah the guy spends money on the club (drinks, food, etc.), but you guys get nothing from that. What's the saying... oh yeah, you don't work for free.
    Some clubs make it easy. Hooters is supposed to be reasonable food with good eye candy, right? I can get lunch at Hooters for, say, $9. I can get lunch at a strip club close by Hooters for $5, and the girls are wearing less clothes. Now, I do go up to stages and tip even as I eat lunch, because if you're in the club, you pay the dues.

    But I'm just saying sometimes it's easy for a guy to want to go in there and be cheap. That's what the club offers. But also from the dancer's standpoint, it is presumably increasing the traffic to get in a few more paying customers than they might otherwise have.

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    Agreed. When we have guys hanging and watching th TV, i don't really think it's so bad. You never know when a guy is going to strike up a conversation with you and then the ball starts rolling from there. Some guys are shy, even when they are together at times. And may want to feel the club out for a few night/weeks. Any guy who comes through the door can be a potential customer. I watch them closely for any different activity that signals a position for me to move in and meet them/him. Pamela

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    LOL Dr. Burger King have the 99 cent menu.

    Pamela your right. But I had some guys that would sit up close to the stage and watch me and other dancers perform. But not tip a single dancer.

    I hate asking guys for tips or dances. I think that why guys like to tip me cause dont bother them.

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    Ry,

    If you reread my post about that one particular guy you will notice it says that he does not get dances from me but, he indeed gives me at least $15-20 in stage tips during his stay. I usually work 4-1 am and he comes in the earlier part of my shift when only the bar stage is open and that is where everybody sits. So pretty much no freebies. Sorry.

    At this club all customers know or will be politely told the dancers here are performing for you they dance 2 songs on stage, then go around the bar and do a quick dance in front of you, at that point most guys show their appreciation by tipping.

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    But I had some guys that would sit up close to the stage and watch me and other dancers perform. But not tip a single dancer.
    THAT'S a different matter than sitting back at the table, and I agree, Tini. A guy has no business sitting at the stage if he doesn't have some money sitting in front of him on the rail. That is so annoying.

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    Oh yes TiNi, i do agree with you about stage dancing, and some guys get up as close as they can, just to watch and walk away after your songs are over. And pretty much like Tori said in her posting, we have staff that will (at times,) back some people off, then a guy/guys will speak up and ask questions to me, and pay abit. The others they will just go back to the table. They are looking for a lap, probably. And just wanted to see a free stage show up close. Gotta hate that. I try to turn tables on them by, telling them i will do --------on stage. And then point to my leg with garter or g-string. Sometimes that will work. And Jason agrees, and hes a customer. Gotta love it!
    Pamela

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    >>"Have you guys ever noticed in your clubs that some girls who haven't washed their T-backs use a baby wipe to wipe the part of it that goes up their butt?"

    eeeeeeeeeeeeek!!! that's the most repulsive thing i've ever heard! WHAT are these girls thinking?

    i always launder all my costumes. so what if i have to spend a lot on dry cleaning for those things that i can't just throw in the washer? it's just gross to work in an outfit you worked in before and didn't clean. it's bad enough that girls can be so unconcerned with their appearance that they wear the same thing over and over again or don't match all the parts of their outfit, ignore their hair, nails, accessories, makeup... but to wear something again without cleaning it.... ICK!

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    To what tina said, yes I have seen that and its icky. We have a sink in the back and a couple of house blowdryers.
    What makes these girls think that a baby wipe will remove crust from a bottom and that that will take the smell away too. I always volunteer to share my dove bodywash so they can wash it and they say well, no i can jus wipe it out. Ever notice these are the same ones who put their stuff in people's face.
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    Okay, now that I'm THOROUGHLY grossed out
    lol...
    I literally take my dress/gstring into the shower with me and hand wash it 3 or 4 times and hang it to dry. It's better on the fabric and I feel like I can get it as clean as I want!

    Tini- we had a LOT of those customers last night! the ones that sit up by the stage and no tips! finally one of the girls got very annoyed and bent down in the middle of the song and said, "hey, why don't you guys move to another table and let those guys who are tipping us move up here?" Needless to say, they were embarrassed, and finally left after being in the club for 3 hours sans tips!
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    Have you guys ever noticed in your clubs that some girls who haven't washed their T-backs use a baby wipe to wipe the part of it that goes up their butt? :o
    Oh my god thats just NASTY
    I havent noticed that though...if i ever do, i will think of this thread and laugh to myself in disgust lol

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