Melonie hun, these ladies on this board are adults, and make their own desicions. I tell my story. I have not asked one lady to come into my area and make what i make. I am giving advice. Don't concern yourself with what i post, please. See what it has done. I am not offended, at all. What alot of girls need is both sides of the job to look at. Good and bad. I have worked far too hard to get where i am at. Now i want to share some nice advice with others. They are just like me a woman. I am no better. I made all this happen. And anyone who puts there mind to it and does not give up can 'probably' do it too. My intentions for all the dancers who write are to be honest. I can't tell them they will make it 100%. But i will not tell them they are going to fail if they try. It's about dancing! Some want to break into it. All they have to do is go to the other guidlines posted here by the site, and the story is pretty much the same. Just guide lines. Tips. Advice. Dancers make up thier own minds. I don't persuade anyone. I tell my life as it happens. I love dancing! I want to share. Cheer someone on for making the first step! I do not expect other girls would work and make the money i do. I never said you can bring home 700 a night too. Some probably make alot more. I have bad nights. I give advice from 'my life.' I want to cheer other dancers on. The world is not a bad place. It's fine. (at times,) I have not mislead anyone. Or gave false hopes, i don't feel. Others are happy with the job too.
Boy i can't seem to explain what i was doing enough. The only word is: Advice!!!! Please don't worry about my advice. I wont EVER tell anyone to make a move to my town. I am a big girl, and know what i am saying here. Location, location! And building a clientel that i had years of work to do. And being negative may very well make a great dancer walk away from the job too, and never know, because she never tried. Yes friends! Melonie please don't have challenges with me hun. Let it go. I was willing to along time ago. We all have a conscience....i fight mine all the time. The dancers are fine, i don't belive they need a babysitter, if one did she should not be on this board ! LolPamela


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