Hello,
I'm curious how dancers deal witht the following predicament. I have found difficulty between maintaining the fantasy of availability, without actually coming across as available. There have been a number of customers who have asked me for my number, to date me, to take me out for dinner, etc. Yes, there have been those customers that have asked the above with the sole intention of fucking me. However, I have also met a number of customers who just appear to be lonely.
I come across as very approachable, easy to talk to, laid back, and "girl-next-door." A lot of men feel very comfortable with me very quickly...which leads to a number of "I'm so lonely" stories.
I am there to make money, but at the same time, I don't want to take advantage of any man's lonliness or insecurities. I have never given my number out, and I also say that I have a boyfriend (which isn't a lie). I tend to feel pretty badly and guilty after taking a lot of money from these types of men. But there is a part of me that realizes that I can get a lot of money from these types of men as well, and at times, try to milk it for all its worth....leaving me with feelings of guilt.
Has anyone else come across this predicament? If so, how do you deal with it? Maybe I'm too nice by giving a shit, but I do.







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