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    Default Ladies, what attracts you to a customer?

    I asked the guys and learned alot from them. I was wondering, and hoping to learn myself what attracts alot of you ladies to a certain type of person in the club. And how do you approach him/them? How do you handle rejection? And how far would you go to keep a guy interested?
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    Default Re: Ladies, what attracts you to a customer?

    Pamela, are you writing a book? If not, you should. You have alot of good information to share.

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    Default Re: Ladies, what attracts you to a customer?

    Thanks Missy, i just want to learn more as one can never know it all. I am a dancer and love dancers! I have picked up many tips from other ladies on the board. Anything to better improve ones skills! Who better to ask?? No book. Information i think we all can learn from. Just tips.
    Thanks again.....Pamela

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    Default Re: Ladies, what attracts you to a customer?

    i prefer to approach a guy by himself
    i find groups of guys intimidating, it gives them a reason to be assholes...plus im scared their going to critique me when i walk away ..i'm usually pretty friendly..'where are u from' because the majority of guys are from somewhere else... smile smile smile...i try not to whine if it's slow...i love it when it's slow anyway...i usually try to give a deal for the first song...gotta get them in there somehow..if they say no...smile smile smile...have a great day/night...if they say maybe later...i try and make it back...u'd be surprised at how many guys will go later...after liquid courage...i find humor goes a long way as well..i try and make their day so to speak...telllthem some jokes ...make them laugh
    i cant tell you how many guys have said 'i was having a shitty day but u really made my day' that really makes me feel like i've done a good job and i know he'll come back
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    Default Re: Ladies, what attracts you to a customer?

    I too usually go for the ones by themselves or in a group of 3 or less. The bigger the group, the more I am intimidated by them. I prefer to approach bigger groups of guys with another dancer so that I don't have to try and give everyone my time.

    I'm also wary of couples as most do not buy dances, I've found. Alot like to sit back and watch. If anything, they like to chat with dancers (the wife/female partner is curious).

    As for groups of girls... it isn't that hard to tell lesbians (where you will get some $$ from) from straight ones.

    Generally speaking, I go for the individual customer, then small groups then the large groups.


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    I tend to prefer older men, drinking something other than cheap domestic beer, and with something more pleasant than a scowling expression! Young guys are fun sometimes, but I still prefer the older ones overall - they usually have more to say and know better how to treat women.

    I have had to change my customer targeting criteria a little since moving to Puerto Rico, though. Alot of young guys really spend money here, instead of being broke/cheap like in so many other places! I also find that Puerto Ricans love spending money in general - they love to shop, party and have a good time, and even if they don't really have much money, they will spend it ALL on something they like.

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    Default Re: Ladies, what attracts you to a customer?

    I'll go for any customer who shows interest in me on stage and/or tips me well on stage. Other than that I go for the guys that usually spend money on me. Pretty much any older guy in a sweater, artsy looking guys... whatever. But then sometimes someone hasn't showed any interest in me and they don't look like the people who normally buy from me but something in me just says "them" and it's usually right. I tend to stick to individuals or small groups. I love lesbians and most couples.

    How I approach them depends on the customer - again I just listen to my intuition. I can be wild, shy, refined, feline, or just the embodiment of sex, and something in me usually tells me what to be with whoever I'm approaching.

    How far I'll go to get/keep a customer depends on the club and how much business is in there. In some clubs you can really just walk around and sell dance after dance, in which case if someone doesn't like me I just move on. In other clubs there aren't as many customers, but maybe the customers have more money and you spend more time talking them into a champagne room or whatever. In those clubs I let my feelings set the limit - at a certain point, the sale just isn't worth it anymore, and for me that's an emotional thing more than a definable physical thing. And that's where I stop.

    If someone says no, I'll either say "that's okay, I love you anyways" and give them a hug and move on, or I'll say "okay, have a good time" or if they say their waiting for another girl I'll say "oh, she's so (fun, sweet, cute, whatever) I know you'll have a good time with her."

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    I would say for me many things. First thing i notice about a guy is his posture towards the crowd, is he facing us all or more away with closed arms. Second for me is "does he look like he is having a good enough time for me to appraoch him." I would say that first impression usually does not fail. A man who looks like he wants fun can be easy to spot. I approach just about anyone who comes in sooner or later. And rejection...well i say ok fine, i will give you space and come see you again later, while keeping my eye on the tough ones most of the time i am working. BUT, at times that "come get me look" has mislead me. :-/ Pamela

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    Default Re: Ladies, what attracts you to a customer?

    I will approach just about anyone in the club, so it's probably more a question of what doesn't attract me - that sort of thing being obvious drunkeness or creepiness. I will approach guys that look like they're having fun, guys that look shy, solo guys and guys in groups. My ideal customer is the one that smiles and is fun to talk to, though. And the guy that smiles while I'm dancing definitely gets the best effort.

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    Default Re: Ladies, what attracts you to a customer?

    The first thing that attracts me to someone's table is whether or not they are watching what I do on stage. A lot of the time when I'm on stage I will notice that many guys are busy: playing pool, talking, or just staring at their laps. Sometimes I think they are shy, or sometimes I think they have just been to too many clubs and the novelty has worn off. Many of the cusomers in my bar are there almost everyday of the week.
    The second thing is a little harder to explain. It's a kind of vibe I get. The way a customer feels is what attracts me to them. It's weird but there's almost a change in air pressure around a person sometimes. Some guys give off a friendly and inviting vibe and others give off a vibe that's really different. I can feel it in the pit of my stomach....there's just something creepy about them.
    Definitely guys who are non-creepy attract me to their table.
    Basically that's it though. There's no other factors. Dress, hairstlye, grooming......really doesn't play a part for me. You can never tell just by looking at someone how much they have in their wallet and how much of it they will spend on you. As long as they seem somewhat interested and they are not creepy, I will approach anyone.

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    Default Re: Ladies, what attracts you to a customer?

    I'll basically approach every club customer once. I do tend to devote more attention to customers who exhibit some maturity and intelligence. I really don't let myself get faked out by expensive clothes or suits and ties or outward signs of money. There have been many occasions where a guy with jeans and messy hair turned out to be a very big spender, whereas some guys who outwardly appeared to be affluent were cheap assholes when it came to tipping or buying dances. I also tend to devote less attention to guys 21 and under, simply because I feel guilty taking their "MacDonalds money"!

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    Default Re: Ladies, what attracts you to a customer?

    There have been many occasions where a guy with jeans and messy hair turned out to be a very big spender, whereas some guys who outwardly appeared to be affluent were cheap assholes when it came to tipping or buying dances.
    Boy, is that ever true. One of the best tippers I've danced for recently was wearing overalls and a gimme cap!
    And definitely the guy that is more mature and interesting to talk to gets more attention. The guy that asks me a million personal questions right off the bat ("What's your real name? Do you have kids? What does your man think about you doing this? How much money do you make? Are those real?") will chase me away as quickly as you can say "I think I'm on stage soon".

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