Leon i understand where you are coming from. I lost a BF of 4 years because he said pretty much the same words to me. "buying dances seemed unfaithful to him." He did not want my money either, he did not want me putting myself in danger from guys following me home, since that has happened a few times. I was aware of my surroundings however and drove to a police station. They get the hint. And have also talked on my cell to the police while driving with a guy following me from the club. Now i have a friend take me and always pick me up. Me as a dancer....i do understand how guys feel who love women who dance, and the men who don't care for our jobs as well. I lived it. My take on the subject. Pamela, still wishing you happiness!