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    Hey All,
    I've been working in a pretty ghetto club in DC for about 6 weeks. I make OK money, but the other girls are making hundreds more for doing things in the club with customers. For example, we don't have VIP rooms or anything, but when they sit with customers, they let them finger them or feel them up, or sometimes they go to a hotel with them, etc., and management looks the other way. Does that happen in your clubs too? Have any of you guys done it? Cuz I've read in a book that it's common, but then again, what does a book know? Your comments are appreciated.
    Much love, Lola (aka- Debi)
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    I'd never try to "feel anyone up" just sitting around with them - well, or any other time, I hope - and would be quite surprised if a dancer offered to meet me outside the club for extracurricular income. That's not why I'm in the club.

    Not to say it doesn't happen. Just not at the places I go to, I guess.

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    Find a new club as that one does not have a future.

    As an upper white collar male customer I frequent mostly higher end "gentleman’s clubs" and I am not shy about spending.
    I have been surprised in the last two-three years at the number of open solicitations and phone numbers that I am offered with offers of everything from dating, and companionship, to girls that are looking for someone to take care of them.
    That said, I have never had a dancer attempt to be openly sexual inside the club with me and if they were I would leave immediately.
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    Yeah, Lolita, I would look for a club where you can avoid that sort of thing - I also can't believe girls out-and-out offer it, too - where's your leverage to earn more money? You can't very well expect a customer to continue spending money if everything's offered upfront anyways.
    Also, new guys to a club may be shocked of repelled by a strange girl's offer if they just came in to look at some pretty faces and boobies.

    At my club guys do not finger or feel up the dancers. They might get a nice feel if I sit on their laps, but they're certainly not getting extended groping.
    It's different everywhere, though I can't imagine a circumstance in which I would let a stange guy stick his hand in my crotch (barring him being Michael Peca).

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    I would find another club as soon as possible. Sooner or later the club is going to have some problems and you don't want to be there when it happens.

    I am pretty sure that things of that nature happens in some clubs but, those usually are the ones here one year and gone the next.

    Take Care,
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    Do you want to be a dancer in this place when, not if, the cops bust it? I sure don't want to be a customer when the cops bust it.

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    I went to college in DC, and although I didn't dance back then I recall, Camelot was the nicest club in town. I've also heard that in Arlington the Crystal City Restaurant is good when you get regulars.

    If you don't mind me asking, where do you work now, so I can avoid it when I come to town.
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    Yes, I am DYING to know which club this is...............
    I propose a toast - to my self control.... I see you crawling, helpless, on the floor.......
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    Lolita, if you're a '9' or a '10' I'd start checking out the best show clubs in town immediately. If. like myself, you're an '8' or less, welcome to "dancing 2003".

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    This is not an unusual phenomenon. the clubs in Houston texas are th plusheset and mot upscale you will ever visit and hand jobs, blow jobs, and full service occur in he private roms and VIP areas and club management is totally aware of it. A dacer I workd with gave a blow job to a vice cop and is still at the club.

    In memphis TN, extras are normal and the black clubs there havea lot of "sistahs" walking up to a potential customer to ask if he wants company with one arm around hisshoulder and her fre hand massaging his dick.

    Go to this site www.aspd.net, click on Forums, scroll down the page to Houston TX, and then to Houston Strip clubs. Read a lot of the comments from the members about their "activities in the club.

    Even if you leave the black club and go elsewhere, the white club patrons want extras too, they just aren't as jivey in asking for them.

    As a black dancer myself I briefly worked at a few black clubs years ago and that is not where the money is at dependant upon sad to say how european a black dancers looks are. If a girl has a more ethnocentic look, the black club is the only place she can compete for the dollars, but if she i somewhat articulate and has more of a Vivica Fox look or one similar to Bob Barkers beauty Claudia on Price is Right, and is outgoing and articulate, she can give the white dancers at a better whiteclub a good run fo the money.

    Once you do a good self evaluation, you will know where you belong. Too many of our people with low self esteem seem to think that the only way they can make $$ is to give up the ass for cheap. My fiance was hecking out a club for me inrural South dakota when a sister approached him and within 5 minutes of conversation asked him if he wanted to hook up with her after work for $100 and flapped her pierced tongue at him. that gives all blacks a bad name when you stoop to selling your ass instead of just good dances.



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    :o *sigh* I worked at a club in Ohio, and we had two gorgeous dancers. One girl was only 18, she literally could have been an exotic model of some kind....Hawaiian + Japanese + Caucasion. BUT, the $400(on a bad night) she was pulling in wasn't enough. Her and the other girl (also Hawaiian) would do private parties. One of these parties entailed (how do I know? I saw a tape of the events) the girls drunkenly stripping for about 10-15 guys, then letting the guys snort coke off their pussies. Then they made out with each other, and eventually one girl screwed 2 guys while the other got trained by like 5.

    Payment for the nights activities???? One girl got $200. The other girl, nothing.

    I have never worked at a club this shit did not go on at. At least here in Ohio...side work, or just being extra friendly is how the girls make their real money, get boobs paid for, get new clothes, cars, cell phones, nails done, hair done, babysitter paid for.....I think you get the idea.

    Did I mention that the customers from my story were the manager's friends????

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    I would definitely say stay away from private parties where they encourage the dancers to do outrageous things..I recently was asked to do a private party, the guy who asked me told me..."what really makes money is girl on girl shows..." I thought that was normal, then he said what REALLY makes money is CUCUMBER SHOWS and shit like that....I was not down with it and think things like that are slightly unclassy to say the least....So I stay away from private parties!!
    Dignity is about showing self respect and having quiet self esteem

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    In this business,I've always known of girls who do stuff outside the club....The sad thing is if they would stop doing it IN the clubs,we would all make more money for doing less and customers would not expect girls to act like prostitutes instead of strippers.

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    Now, this is an old thread...

    IT'S ALIIIIIIIIIIVE!!!!!

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