First, my BF has been taking care of me and all the bills since I quit dancing when i first got fat.
I lost some weight now and the money is tight here, so he has been complaining that I haven't been working.
But he has not made it easy for me to continue my weighloss successfully because every couple of weeks he brings home not one- but two 1/2 gallons of ice cream to sit in the freezer.
I am the kind of person who CANNOT have this shit near me or I cave in. Just like an alcoholic who is trying to stay sober, the first step is rid yourself of any people, places or things that reinforce the problem. Tonight he bought two ice creams AGAIN, when I worked hard this week and 'just' took off another couple of pounds. Why does he have to get two?? What is he trying to do, undermine my progress in a way??
Usually I end up having ice cream with him- and then the next day he's complaining that I haven't worked. When i mean complain, i mean threatening my security by throwing me out and evicting himself out of this apartment since he says he cannot afford this cheap $725 rent!! (that's another rant) I have asked him nicley to not bring home any ice cream but he doesn't think it is fair to him that he can't have goodies in the freezer for himself.
When he bought the ice creams tonight, I asked him why he got two. His answer was that he didn't know if i wanted to be 'bad' and he didn't want to go back out to get me some if i did want to be bad since he was having his ice cream.
Now, he buys me all the 'diet food' i need, but he brings home ice cream a lot and i end up cheating because i cannot handle it in the house! I ask myself why he needs to bring home so much and it sits in the freezer!!
I ask myself why he can't do me the favor and support me with my weightloss. Say he brings home ice cream for himself only, he will get a half gallon and he'll have only 1 bowl of it a night- but then it sits in the freezer and I cannot control myself around it sadly enough and he knows it! I've asked him to get a small Haggen Daaz or something so he could finish it up in one night, but he feels like that is not fair to him and wants to be comfortable in his own house and still brings home half gallons. (half gallons are cheaper; sometimes he brings home two half gallons only because you get the sale price when you buy two at a time!!)
I'm not sure if I am wrong for asking him to cease buying it, but if i want to lose and work- this is what I need to do; not to have it anywhere near me. I don't know why he just HAS to buy ice cream and keep it in the house when he knows that i am trying to prepare myself for work.
~N



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We have so much junk food around. I just don't care, I wont eat it, I convinced myself it taste nasty
Go to a GNC store and read the lable for Exenadrine EFX If you can take it then I suggest it. I lost quite a bit, Stacker is also very good.



I can't restrain myself when its in my face either. I don't keep any junk food in the house. (Ok, maybe a little chocolate.) I do not have a solution for you. I am single!!!

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