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    I'm a very attractive girl, but I'm a little shy when it comes to my kitty. I've always been confident with the rest of my body but I feel I'm somewhat larger in that area than other girls. Maybe just some tips on how to be more confident with this part of my body. ??? I'm getting into nude modeling so this is going to be kind of important.

    I know that a little patch of hair can sometimes make this area look smaller, but I've had permanent hair removal done and I'm a baldy forever! Just got tired of the razor burn. I plan to have labiaplasty done but I'm still saving for it.

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    Have you looked at a lot of vulvas? I would recommend doing so. There is such a huge variety in appearences. Maybe you feel abnormal. Maybe if you saw many others like you or very different from you, you would feel better. Women's privates labia are all different shapes, sizes, textures, and colors. Have you heard of the book (photos) Femalia by (Jodi Blank or Joni Blank I think)? It is cool. just pictures of pussies. All races, sizes, etc. Some shaved, some not. Some pierced. Interesting. Go to some nude clubs and see how much actually shows on stage. Maybe a club where you wouldn't be spreading on stage would make you feel more comfortable.

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    I'm a very attractive girl, but I'm a little shy when it comes to my kitty. I've always been confident with the rest of my body but I feel I'm somewhat larger in that area than other girls. Maybe just some tips on how to be more confident with this part of my body. ??? I want to work at an all nude club that is known for the $$$. But I want to be comfortable bottomless before I audition.

    I know that a little patch of hair can sometimes make this area look smaller, but I've had permanent hair removal done and I'm a baldy forever! Just got tired of the razor burn. I plan to have labiaplasty done but I'm still saving for it.

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    I think the bald look is hot! have you watched porn or read mags to see what pretty pussies look like?or do you just have a complex about yours without any thing to compare it to?
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    They are like beautiful flowers, no two alike, and that's the way it should be.

    Some are pretty pert little buds, and some are beautiful bold blossoms.

    Before you go changing anything, please consider that some might like the appearance of your flower just as it is...
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    I am very self conscious of mine, but I have had so many men, old boyfreinds and cstomers tell me they love it! Just something to consider. No 2 are alike. that's why they love 'em!!!!!!!
    It's better to be looked over, than overlooked.

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    I SOOOO AGREE!! They are like *snowflakes* no two alike!!

    I personally think a pussy with no petals ODD, and I wonder what happened that the girl did not develop in this area? Was it a hormone thing? Makes me puzzle...

    Then you see women with all her parts, its SO SEXY!

    I know girls that had the labiaplasty done, they seem happy and I wonder why....?

    My ex girlfriend had a healthy muffin, and I LOVED it. I have also dated women that have next to nothing...and further fueling the confusion their clits seemed to be related in this area, meaning so tiny you wonder if she has one, or in fact inverted....strange these pussies that never fully "blossomed" as was mentioned by Djoser, lol good analogy!

    Love your pussy!!!! You won't be the only one!!!!!

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    Please do not alter your pussy!
    They are all pretty and personally I like large long labia just like Leigh said it looks odd when there is nothing there.
    When I am with a girl for the first time and I haven't seen her naked before I love opening her legs and finding a sexy fully developed pussy with beautiful full inner labia. More to kiss and lick and suck and...... and..... and......... Get the point?
    I have very full lips and never had a problem showing it off.
    Its so sexy girl please don't change it!
    Hey Leigh wanna compare???????

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    Aww sweetie i'm sure its all in your head.

    Like eveyone already said, women come in all shapes and sizes, and actually I think most of us have "developed" lips... or at least I do

    And as far as working at the club goes, they'll probably be of great use to you, lots of guys (and girls ) prefer it.

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    The more developed the lips the better the orgasm!!!! Remember that, i can pull mine out far! I love it. It hits the spot every time.

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    Damn Raven, you naughty girl, flirtin online heh heh!!! xo

    Whatta wild topic this one is!
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    When I got my hood pierced, It was a little embarassing. He said sit on the table lean back and pull your legs up towards you and apart. So there I am open wide and he says, You have the perfect amount down there. You can have any piercing you like. So I asked him i guess you have seen them all eh? He said that he HAS seen them all and that he turns girls away all the time because they have nothing outside. All inside and hidden. They want inner labias done, but they have no inner labia.
    So be proud, it seems that more is better. I agree much better.
    Pamela, you are so right it makes for a much better time.
    Leigh, sorry if I offended you!! LOL wink

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    Soo.. ahh.. umm... Gee what great Baseball weather we are having huh?

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    I guess it's just that I look at so many men's magazines that are airbrushed. Like playboy for instance. They make every girl look so perfect down there. I know that's not really how most of them look, but it does make me feel less confident with mine.

    Thanks so much for all the help. You've all given me a confidence boost! It's really helping. I spent some time last night looking at sites with artistic nudes. I found some that didn't have everything touched up down there.


    Thanks everyone!

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    Anais' post reminds me of a good time we were having at Lollipops in Daytona. Another girl and I were wringing the money out of some race fans in for a weekend. The schtick went like this:
    Me: I have a vulva (Volvo)
    She: I have an outtie (Audi)
    Then, we both flash our kitties at them. The car guys loved it.

    FYI, VA Girl, a friend of mine had hers tucked, and she lost some areas of sensation, and has never gotten it back--it's been two years now. There are a lot of little nerves down there...

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    Raven? Offended, LORD NO!

    Tittilated? HELL YA!

    heh heh, excuse me Miss Raven, is anyone sitting there? No? Would ya like some company sugar? Heh heh...

    xo

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    Wow I feel so left out, I don't have much for labia at all. Some people have told me I kind of look like a little girl down there

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    Wow I feel so left out, I don't have much for labia at all. Some people have told me I kind of look like a little girl down there
    I would hazard a guess that as long as you look like a girl down there, no one will have a problem with it.

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    I have 2 pretty little rings in each of my labia minora (not majora - ouch!) and they are so discreet that unless I am dancing on the couch (not allowed in UK) they would never notice.

    I look forward to doing nude stage shows so I can really show them off!

    Talking of which, does anyone lube up before doing a nude stage show? I heard about this from one of the managers of Spearmint Rhino who is american.
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    I think we are all so different, I will quote a radio commercial that I heard,
    "Big or small we like em all! "
    And umm Leigh there will always be a seat open for you as well as something else that will open too!

    Love your pussies ladies!

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    WOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!



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    Love your pussies ladies!

    As Bob Barker says - Please don’t forget to get them spayed or neutered.

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    As far as the air brushed Playboy pusses, it's a world of diffrence between what that girl's cookie looks like when she wakes up to after it has had make up applied, been posed and the lighting set just right, and yes, on top off all that it's airbrushed. just reitterating what everyone else is saying, If you want the surgery for yourself, then by all means do what makes you feel the best, but as for worrying what others think; no matter how you are put together down there it is beautiful, powerful, and sexy as hell

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    It is interesting to observe how Playboy--which at one time had a reputation for pushing the boundaries of sexual freedom, and avowedly helped women become more powerful in the free and open expression of their sexuality--began airbrushing away all traces of labia somewhere in the late eighties or early nineties, if the collection of old issues I inherited from my newlywed client is any indication.

    Many of these women were given generous growths of thick, bushy black pubic hair, to avoid having to actually show what a real woman looks like. I noticed this when I found the occasional picture they forgot to touch up.

    Somewhere around the time that the Reagan-era conservatism swept the nation, and Penthouse and Playboy both were permanently removed from the shelves of 7-11 stores, due to the threat of embarassing protests by the Moral Majority, both these magazines drastically curtailed their ever more increasingly frank depiction of women's nudity.

    In recent years, both magazines have become much less fearful, it seems, especially Penthouse, which now depicts full penetration. Playboy still seems prone to removing any frightening aspects of women's sexuality, though of late they seem to have at least outgrown their phobia for labia.
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    They have? I think Playboy is incredibly hypocritical in this regard; I can understand that they don't want to be a "gynecological" magazine, but they go to great effort to hide the fact that women even have labia. In light of the fact that most of their models are lightly thatched these days it seems silly how paranoid they are when it comes to external female genitalia. Between overly discrete posing and judicious use of soft focus and airbrush, you'd think these women were Barbi dolls. Which in retrospect is probably what Hef wants, I think he is incredibly afraid of women and female sexuality; he probably prefers them to look like asexual toys.

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    Funny thing people's opinion's are .... The girl at my club with the largest Labia and is very self-conscious about it, is by far the overall biggest money maker on my stage. Where her Labia is there for everyone to see, she doesn't hustle lapdance's well, she doesn't care for them but her stage money is awesome. I would have a hard time believing that having a stereotypical, media brainwashed, perfect cooch is really all that advantageous on the stage.

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