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    Recently, I have noticed that my BF has lost all interest in intimate contact. We have been together 8 months. In the past month we have been been together twice, maybe. He met me at a normal dance club, but he always knew I was a dancer. We have lived together 6 months.

    I don't think this is normal. I know I don't like it in the least. He is full of excuses and I am giving up trying.

    Is this normal for dancers? What happened? Any personal experience with this?

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    Yes experience close to what you are going through. A Split because of my job choices.
    My best advice is...It's time to talk.
    Good luck,
    Pamela

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    I know exactly what you're talking about. My current boyfriend hasn't wanted to have sex for more than 6 months. We still do it occasionally, but only at my insistence. He blaims it on my bitchiness and claims he can't get into the mood when I've been bitchy within the past few days. Even though I've explained it, he doesn't believe that there is a direct correlation between my being sexually unsatisfied and me being bitchy.

    His excuse is different than what my ex's have used. In a strange sort of way I believe him, too, but it doesn't make it any easier. With other boyfriends they stopped wanting sex because they were getting it elsewhere.

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    Yup, that's just it. I think after awhile lethargy happens. I am pursuing him less and less, and my level of desire in general is dropping. Could even be affecting work! I do know that I am not stuck in this relationship. I have tried explaining things to him too, that maybe I would be more responsive to him if I knew that there was the prescence of pure, raw lust in him.

    I require a lot of sex I guess. These days i would be happy with once a week. It's probable that I will be leaving him soon. Guys are great, but boyfriends suck.




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    I had that same problem..my ex bf totally wasn't interested. He made up tons of excuses and finally told me that the tumor in his leg was spreading up to his fun parts...

    He just said that he felt skeevy all the time with the doctors poking him and such. Plus though we both know that cancer ISNT contagous he just didnt want his "infected" parts touching mine. It sucked...I never knew I would miss sex that much..cuddling is great but sometime you just want the old rough heave ho.

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