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    Hi ladies! I'm just in need of a little moral support. I'm very excited about my upcoming BA, but it's now only 8 days away and I'm getting really nervous. All the doubts that I've heard from anyone else (that I thought I'd avoid) are welling up in me and I'm getting uptight as hell! Am I going too big? Will they look good? Should I go through with it? Will it hurt my money? Will I be disappointed? Etc etc etc. I'm getting between 625 and 700 cc's, and I'm confident in my doc and my choice, but I can't help feeling nervous! This is a permanent change after all! Oh god I've already paid and everything - I don't want to get scared and feel like chickening out now! Help! How do you deal with the anxiety!?

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    I'm not a lady (duh) but you'll be fine! Us guys are with you!



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    It will be the best decision you've ever made! You just wait and see. Anxiety is to be expected.
    Keeping buisy helped my anxiety.

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    I had only same day jitters and that was because I hate the idea of "being put to sleep" but deep breathing and knowing that I had done the research, calculated risks, and had no chest helped ease my own anxiety. You'll do fine. You've spent the time in the research, the preparation and this is last minute jitters....most I know have them. Better to have the anxiety then think that "they'll be perfect, no scarring and no pain" like some crazy girls I have met

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    Thanks guys I am feeling better today. The anxiety comes and goes. It doesn't help that so many people keep telling me I don't need it, I'll look top-heavy, they might be too big, they won't look as nice as my real ones, etc. It's funny, all the American girls at work ate excited for me and keep asking when is the date, and the Latinas are curious but keep saying I shouldn't do it. I have alot of customers now who say they like me for being naturally curvy, but I also have plenty who can't wait to see the result. Aaaaaahhh, I just want to get it over with already so I can start the recovery!

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    Bridgette
    People told me the same things. "Why are you gonna get those things. You look perfect the way you are. It's better to be natural." Yada Yada Yada...

    Then i got the implants and my income quadrupled!

    Went from an A to full D.

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    once you have them, it's amazing how quickly you get used to the new size. 3 months from now you'll be wishing you went for 1000cc ! Remember to remind your plastic surgeon on the day of the surgery that there's "income potential" at stake, and too big is better than too small!

    I can also testify that my income potential went WAY up once my implants grew to DDD territory. My own theory is that some guys hate implants, but many guys love implants. The implant haters don't seem to care too much about actual cup size, but the implant lovers almost all seem to feel that the bigger they are the better (and the more likely they are to spend private dance money to get a close-up look/feel).

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    Best wishes, Bridgette...I am thinking of you and will be sending you happy, healthy vibes for your surgery. I hope you have a great experience.

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    Let the doctor worry, that's what you are paying him for! Just concentrate on being a good patient and following orders, taking care of yourself, etc. You will be fine. Remember the reasons you have for wanting the surgery and recite those to yourself. Breast Wishes!

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    I haven't been through a BA, but it's only natural to feel anxious before a big change! I would think about how much fun you'll have playing with your big new boobs and maybe go get yourself an outfit to wear.
    On a side note, I have heard girls at work tell others not to get 'em, and I have to say - your body is your playground, and you should do as you please with it.
    I wish you all the best!

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    On a side note, I have heard girls at work tell others not to get 'em
    I wish you all the best!
    This isn't surprising. Once you discover how much your earning power will increase after getting implants, you probably won't want other dancers in the club "horning in" on your big boob customers! By any chance, were the dancers telling others at work not to get implants pretty well endowed themselves, by some sheer stroke of coincidence ?

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    Oh Yeah, I always get those guys that say they don't like fake breasts. Then 2 secs later they are buying dances with a boob job girl. That's what I've noticed a million times. I've finally quit believing them so I'm saving up for my own pair! Be sure to tell us every detail about your experience so that boob-job hopefuls like myself will know what to expect.

    And I'm sure you'll love 'em. Every girl I've known pre and post boob-job has come back happier and more self confident after having them done.

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    Congratulations! Just make sure that you have someone to drive you around and definately have someone stay with you for the first few days. You won't be able to open bottles of water etc.... My surgery was probably a little different from yours though. I went over the muscle and through the nipples, with a reduction on the right side. Your doctor will give you plenty of medication. I did not have any extreme pain. It does feel a little weird at first having two sacs of saline solution inside of your body. It's kind of like the first time wearing a tampon or contact lenses or even a bra. You will get used to it quickly. Yes, guys do love strippers with big boobs. They don't go to strip clubs to see someone who looks like their wife or their girlfriend. Strippers with the "stripper look" do make more $$$$ - even in a bad economy!!
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    How are you feeling Bridgette? I'm assuming you're home resting now?


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    Here’s an update on Bridgette:
    I had dinner with her the night before her surgery; she was understandably nervous but seemed to relax by the end of the night.
    Her surgery went very well and she was back to her old self within 3 days; well not exactly her old self as she has two new friends LOL
    I have spoken to her several times over the last 2 weeks and she wants everyone to know her “twins” look great. She is returning to San Juan tomorrow and can’t wait to go to her club and show off her new assets.
    I’m sure she’ll be posting soon. She said she is going to post some before and after pics in the gallery. I can’t wait to see them.
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    Hey, that's great. Hope she's doing well and I'm also dyin' to see those pictures as well.



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    This isn't surprising. Once you discover how much your earning power will increase after getting implants, you probably won't want other dancers in the club "horning in" on your big boob customers! By any chance, were the dancers telling others at work not to get implants pretty well endowed themselves, by some sheer stroke of coincidence ?
    Well, the girls who were telling me this at work were mainly the small-breasted Latinas. But then they all project heavy competitive vibes my way, so I'm sure they're just worried about my new competitive edge The girls with boob jobs and the ones who are naturally bigger all told me to go for it and that I'd be really glad I did. They're right!

    Anyway, yes I'm back now. Just got home this afternoon. I'll be posting details in a new thread, and I'm thinking of writing an article on my experience. They really look great! I got Mentor smooth round saline, 625cc overs, nipple incision. I had a really good experience with the doc, surgery, nurses, staff, recovery, everything. I have already taken a few post-op pics, and will be taking more as time progresses. I am now 11 days post-op, so I don't have many pics yet. Also, I have already got plans in the works to do a catalog shoot for a lady in the states who does outfits, feature costumes and custom work (probably in June), so after that I'll have some really nice pics to post in the gallery! Woohoo! Oh, and the new bra size is a very full 36DD (from a 36C). Doc said I didn't have enough room to justify going all the way to 700 this time, even though he was leaning toward 700 in the pre-op visits. That's fine with me - I'll still have the biggest boobs in the club and when I have my pms boob swelling they likely WILL be DDD during that time.

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    I had the same experience with guys telling me they liked me natural then spending all their $$$ on girls with implants. They all said don't do it and they all spent WAAAY more $$$ on me when I had them done!! Hypocrites. I only went from a B to a D (350ccs) over the muscle and many guys can't tell they are implants. They have earned me a lot of money and I love them! :-D

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    Quote Originally Posted by Justine76 View Post
    I had the same experience with guys telling me they liked me natural then spending all their $$$ on girls with implants. They all said don't do it and they all spent WAAAY more $$$ on me when I had them done!! Hypocrites. I only went from a B to a D (350ccs) over the muscle and many guys can't tell they are implants. They have earned me a lot of money and I love them! :-D
    OLLLLDDD thread alert! 5 years wow!

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    Quote Originally Posted by austinatalie View Post
    OLLLLDDD thread alert! 5 years wow!
    LOL. I was like 'wow a lot of people have pre-ba jitters tonight, haha'

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    I was just thinking, didn't Bridgette get her boobs done like yonks ago?



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    WOW someone ACCIDENTALLY posted Bridgette's first boob job post!


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