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    Default Traveling- some questions.

    I am considering traveling to a different club periodically. I like my club and my co-workers, but the money isn't that great, to be honest. Here are two weeks from this month.

    Sun- $75
    Mon- $65
    Tue- $301
    Wed- $40
    Thu- $55
    Fri- $165
    Sat- $35 (No, I am not joking. These are the actual numbers)

    Total for week of 10/5-10/11= $736

    Week 2
    Tue- $106
    Wed- $235
    Thu- $59
    Fri- $124
    Sat- $301

    Total for week= $825

    Frankly, if it weren't for the stage then I wouldn't have made half that. Stage has always been my bread-and-butter; lately the stage is what keeps me out of the poorhouse. I've done some digging and it isn't me. One can check the number of VIPs done by each girl on a list kept by the VIP room, and only our big diva is averaging more than three dances a night (at $20 per dance for the dancer). All of the nearby clubs are reporting the same slow business.

    I can live on this sort of money, so I'm not hurting financially. It's not too expensive to live here and I am quite frugal. But for various reasons, I need a bit more. I had breast cancer four years back and my main goal from being a dancer is to pay for reconstructive surgery. My savings account is pathetic and the holidays are atrocious in these clubs (in other words, it's going to get worse!).

    Give me some advice, please, on how to travel and which clubs to go to. I live in Jacksonville, Fl. I am very tiny, a mere five feet tall and 96 lbs. My face is perfection; without trying to be conceited, I can say that I am the best looking girl in the club. I have big blue eyes and long red hair (very straight, not the slightest curl to it). My body is not perfection, however. If I had to put numbers to it, my face is a 10 and my body a 7. I have a toned, slender body with a very nice ass and no loose skin, stretch marks or flab. I do not go topless, however. Period, no exceptions. As previously mentioned, I had breast cancer and a partial mastectomy to remove the cancer (and they weren't that big to start with). I wear inserts so that no one knows; I look like a B-cup who coyly won't remove her top. Regardless, I have been told (often) that I should be working at the Gold Club, which is quite picky on what sort of girl they hire.

    My "hustle" is acceptable but not the top of the game. I've only been dancing for five months and haven't quite learned the trick of it. My stage is fantastic- I would even call it mind-blowing. If there are customers in "just to tip", then I guarantee their dollars are mine. My social skills are excellent and I am intelligent. I'm not a druggie and I rarely drink. I am on time to work, always finish my shift, am well-groomed and do not hang out in the dressing room. I have a letter of reccomendation from my manager, who says that he would have no problems if he only had twenty more girls like me.

    I have only worked in one club, and it is a high-contact club. I don't, and never will, give extras. My club is one of the rougher, dirtier clubs and I am known as the "prissy girl" (in affection; the girls respect my decisions). I don't give out my real name, phone number, won't take off my top, won't give extras and won't allow the guys to touch. We were raided just two weeks ago, while I was at work, and I was the only girl not arrested. I do cooperate with the high-contact, though. In my club, it's astonishing that I make money without allowing or giving extras or taking off my top. Refusing contact would be pushing it.

    If I travel, I would have to restrict it to a few days at most and I would have to be certain I could make excellent money. I have two little girls (toddlers) and my babysitter would need to know that she will be paid well to keep them for a few days at a time.

    Does anyone have recommendations for me?
    He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

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    Default Re: Traveling- some questions.

    I can't really help you on the traveling part, but since you mentioned something about the hustling part, which, in my opinion, is the most important, I wanted to mention something about that. I've been doing the audio tapes thing in the car on the way to work and while there is nothing written on our business specifically, there is SO much out there on sales in general....way more than I've had time to listen to. They have been very helpful.

    But anyway, I agree it'd be worth your while to travel to another club. I wish I could help you more there, but I'm not familiar with your area

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    Default Re: Traveling- some questions.

    Lilth,I live in florida,I worked bikini clubs for 6 years before I started traveling and doing show clubs,there are a few bikini clubs in ft.myers,I dont know how far that is from you but I worked there in 2001 or 2 I cant remember,I only stayed two days,I worked lookers one night ,but left at 10 with 450,I worked at babes or foxy ladys the next,(not sure exactly wich one it was) and made 900,so Iam sure it would be better than what you are making now,my friend came too and she made more than me,if you want to know personals about each plce pm me.

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    Default Re: Traveling- some questions.

    Lilith, I think every where in Florida has been slow. Now that it's November it should pick up. I'm not too happy about my club either money wise considering I'm the best looking there (honestly). I work in Daytona Beach and have considered going to Cocoa Beach. I'm told the money is consistently good there. I feel for you girl! I don't have kids but I do know how hard it is to travel. I hate it. But you gotta do what you gotta do! I travel an hour every time I work. I know that's not too much but it still sucks. I was thinking of traveling to Ft. Lauderdale soon though. Let me know if you have any questions. I'd love to be a help.
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    Default Re: Traveling- some questions.

    Emily,

    What tapes are you talking about? I'm interested!
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    Default Re: Traveling- some questions.

    Try 25 Sales Secrets of Highly Successful Salespeople by Stephan Schiffman or Getting to Yes (can't remember who did it)

    You can download them right off the internet at sites like audible.com. You can burn them to CD or put them on an MP3 player and listent to them over and over. One sales thing I downloaded (can't remember what it was...sorry!) said that the one thing he saw that set the successful salespeople from the mediocre was the drive to learn more in their cars....that they had about 50 books on tape in the cars. I can't imagine that....thank god for the ipod...you can get so much on one of those!

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