How do you guys overcame shyness, or when you first time had to take your clothes off , not looking at the mirror but first time around public. If you can , to share the experience..?How did you feel and how did you feel about your body ?
How do you guys overcame shyness, or when you first time had to take your clothes off , not looking at the mirror but first time around public. If you can , to share the experience..?How did you feel and how did you feel about your body ?
Most people would rather be certain they're miserable, than risk being happy.
The first time I danced, was at a club where a friend of mine already danced. I watched her a few nights. Then tried it. It was not at all difficult, at least for me.
I have always loved my body and been totally aware of my sexuality. I just let it all start flowing out. It seemed to work very well. I felt empowered, like i was in control.
Awsome feeling. But I am a bit of an exhibitionist and very open-minded. So nudity and sexuality are one thing that I am 200% confident and comfortable with.
A friend of mine who pratically makes speaches for a living once told me that he still gets butterflies in his stomach right before he speaks. I think it's the same with dancing. If you're normally a shy person, as I am, you're going to feel that every time. The way I overcome it if by reminding myself of successes and by keep telling myself that this shift will be even better.
Dancing is wonderful training for girls, it's the first way you learn to guess what a man is going to do before he does it. ~Christopher Morley, Kitty Foyle



I simply love when a new girl start's at my club. My girl's go into mother mode. They all primp her, advise her and build up her confidence. I always start new girl's on a slow weeknight so there isn't much stress, getting nekkid in front of 5 - 10 guy's is alittle easier then 70 - 80. If a girl seem's to have too much anxiety I will have her go out to a designated area of the stage that is empty and have a few of my girl's there to tip her, so she can dance for them to get the feel of it. I never unleash a new girl on my stage alone ( I usually have 2 girl's on stage at a time anyway ). Like I stated before in other thread's I prefer to train new girl's from scratch and feel we do a great job if it in my club.
I have one rather odd observation to add though. From my experience, I have seen some of the socially shiest girl's imaginable, I'm talking like Adrian in the Rocky movie's type, that have the most amazing poise and confidence naked on stage in front of a room full of stranger's. It's like they get to be someone different on stage and they let all there shield's down and go for it. Maybe they get the acceptance they feel they lack outside the industry. Everyone want's to be popular in some way and I think some of them find it safely here. There are accually girl's that dance more for the attention and secondly for the money.





My little tip is if you feel like you have a bigger body than some of the other dancer (not fat.. just a bigger build overall).... try and not dance with a dancer that is smaller/petite.
I'm talking about on stage here.. btw..
Other things to be aware of...
try and dance with a dancer of similiar height and build or at least with another dancer you can dance WITH not just "next to"
;-)
There are many things you can do to overcome shyness... affirmations, visulations, breathing techniques, Bach Flower Remedies (Flower Essences), etc.... just try and find the one that works for you :-)
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Thank you, i ve been reading and learning a lot in here , I know I am going to start with better attitutude and knowledge
Most people would rather be certain they're miserable, than risk being happy.
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