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    I do not attend strip clubs as much as I used to but I was contemplating going more over the next week or so before Christmas. Last year I made plans to specifically go before Christmas because I knew that many of the girls would be working before the holiday to make extra money and there would be many of the types of ladies I like to spend time with but my conscience told me that I was exploiting the situation and taking advantage of ladies who were only trying to make more money for the holidays so I decided not to go. Part of me says I am taking advantage of the situation and the other part says go and have a good time with the sexy type of ladies you like because despite what your conscience says you are helping them achieve their goal to make extra money for the holidays and they would be okay with it. Need some input on this please ASAP......Very confused on what to do :-/


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    BB

    p.s. I am a sucker for a bubble butt. She would make good money off me for the holidays

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    BB, you sound very conflicted about this. Let me give the simplest advice I've ever given - if you want to go, GO!

    If there is exploitation going on (and I would argue that there is not, at least not on the level you are talking about), it is highly debatable about who's exploiting who. A service is being provided; take advantage of the opportunity. Smoke 'em if you got 'em!

    Man, I wish my problems were so easily solved.

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    I don't see any exploitation. You're the customer, so buy dances from the type of woman that you find attractive. I call it smart if you visit a strip club at a time when there is more of “your” type of dancers. It's hardly exploitation.

    And “your” dancer may be the dancer that only a few others are buying dances from. If that’s the case, you will probably make her happy. Your happy, she’s happy—that’s good business.

    Really, I don't see why you're even concerned about this.

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    Go ahead,
    your there to have a good time, they are there to make money. no harm done
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    GO and spend your money and make some girls day..she will have less to worry about with the holidays coming up if she is making some $

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    I'm having a lot of trouble understanding your conflict. Do you avoid any kind of shopping during the holidays because buying anything is exploiting the owner or salesperson in their need to make money? ??? ??? ???
    Your point is duly noted. Unfortunately my conscience does not allow me the luxury of viewing this situation with that type of impartiality. Your shopping comparison is a much more impersonal scenario from my point of view but I do appreciate any and all input. Thanx

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    BB, I don't see that dancers will ever be less than happy if you are giving them money, ESPECIALLY during the Christmas season, when more regular patrons are spending time with (and money on) their families.

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    There's no reason to feel like you're exploiting the dancers, unless of course, as someone else already stated, you're going to squeeze extras out of girls who might not ordinarily do them because they're desperate for holiday money. If you want to go get some dances, by all means, go get the dances! The girls will appreciate it. If you don't want to feel guilty for 'exploiting' them, don't ask for extras, just be happy with a good ol' lapdance.

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    Gawd--BB--as nike says "just do it!"

    the end!

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    There is nothing wrong with what you are talking about doing, It's just being smart about a situation, using there motivation of making money and using it to help out yourself and the dancer. Think about it this way do you think the ladies that are giving you dances during the holiday feel bad about taking the money that you would usually spend on your family and friends for christmas? Hell no they wouldn't feel bad. Thats why you are going to the club is to have good dances and if you have found a way to exploite it than feel free to do so. Dancers would not think twice about the things they do or say to you to get that extra dollar so don't feel like you are doing anything wrong.

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    Ludamite--if a guy spends money that he would normally spend on friends and family, then HE is a moron...budget is key here...and if i do smell another 'troll', which I DO...you make it sound like it is less than symbiotic(good for both parties), then you are the fool...and we do think about the downfalls of dumb bozos who come blow their paychecks at the expense of their families! But this is THEIR problem, not ours pal.

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    BB, your post took me back almost 25 years when I came home for the holidays one year. A group of old high school buddies and I went out together to do our Christmas shopping. Before we headed back to our home town we stopped at a strip club for a few beers and dances. We were surprised to find on of the fellows we had known in high school working as an assistant manager. His first words when he saw us were something like, "It's so nice to see the guys from home come to the city to help out the waifs and orphans." They were actually college kids and young mothers trying to scrape together money for the holidays, of course. They appreciated our cash and we all had a terrific time. I understand wrestling with certain issues and having a highly developed sense of conscience. The bottom line for me, is that if I'm going out to have a good time (not asking for sex acts goes without saying) it doesn't matter what time of year it is. People can become desperate for money at any time. Treat the dancers with respect and hold your head up!

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    winter2003- In no way was i implying that i have anything negetive to say about the strippers nor was i implying that i am one of those bozos as you put it that spends all there money that would go to there family on strippers. You act as if all the money that the dancer makes during the holidays is going to go to presents when its not. Just like you put other things aside to go enjoy yourself at a club. This is all i was trying to point out, is that the dancer is not concerning themselves with what you are putting aside for them so don't bother yourself with the reason they are working. Because i don't think they will work any harder to pay for presents then they will to support there family or school or drug habit whatever they are doing it for is there reason and should not make you feel guilty for you giving them money, because you are still giving it to them right. Overall i am saying with no bad will towards anyone is they will do what it takes to get more money out of you, so you should do what it takes to get better dances from them.

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    [santa] ho ho ho

    Its okay to be a little selfish.
    Never take life seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyway.

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    BB [glow=red,2,300]go[/glow] and enjoy yourself
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