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    The topic was brought up on the blue site about us guys who think we are regulars.

    I wanted the ladies opinions on when you would consider a guy a regular. Is it the frequency of visits, the amount spent, a combination of that? Does he only have to come to see only you?

    Your input is appreciated [oogle]
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    A regular to me is someone who frequents the club at least once a week, you have a "history", good repore and he buys couch dances/drinks/sample dances from either one or many girls. Reconizable, familiar face that is a good conversationalist as well as a decent spender; that is my assesment of a "regular".

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    buying dances is the distinguinshing factor between a good regular and a bad regular, to us.

    Lots of guys come in there to nurse their beers all the time. Actually, I jsut call them "losers"

    There is also a difference between "my regulars" and "my customers"...my customers are infrequent visitors, but they are there just for me.

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    There are club regulars and there are dancers' regulars. Club regulars are those who frequent a particular club and spend money on various girls, not any in particular. Dancers' regulars are those who only go to the club to see and spend money on certain girl(s). I would say most guys are either club regulars or a hybrid of club/dancer regular. To be a regular of either type, you must come in at least twice a month to spend money and be familiar either to the specific dancers you see or in the club in general. The amount of money spent is irrelevant - it's the frequency and the fact that money is spent on dancers, not just nursing a beer or two to watch for free. The guys who come in everyday and only nurse a drink and don't tip or buy dances are just barflies, and that is my *kindest* word for them.

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    To me, a regular is a guy who makes it a point to come to the club and makes it a point to see me.

    He may come in once a week or once a month, but he comes whenever he can. He may gets dances from other girls when he's here, but he makes it a point to get some from me.
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    A regular to me is the guy that always spent time with me while in the club. As you probably know, i did not do ld's, so if he wanted one he would get a dance some place else. That was fine.
    I would do a nasty dance on stage for him only, (he knew it) and we would hit VIP for an intimate conversation, and i would sit on a customers lap. My regulars that is.

    Yea, they come to see me, but can get what i don't offer from another. Then come hang with me again. Aot of guys have more than one ATF. AS we have more than one regular.

    Pamela

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    Aot of guys have more than one ATF. AS we have more than one regular.

    Pamela
    More than one ATF, you caught me. Hope the others dont find out about each other.

    It is funny that you say the last part, because I have had ladies get mad because I got a dance with someone else (I still got some from them that night). My response was always, "You dont just dance for me, why should I only get dances from you". Is that a wrong attitude to have?
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    Regulars - always an interesting topic. These are gentlemen (or ladies) who spend take time to talk/dance with a special girl of their choice. This does not mean the person must be loyal (I mean we are not married) or that the person is obsessed. There is nothing wrong with the concept except for that I feel to call someone your regular is disrespectful to that particular customer. One very big point of advice to dancers - never, ever let any customer hear you refer to anyone as your regular. This detracts from the fantasy and makes you look bad. It's stereotyping in my opinion.

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    Yea, they come to see me, but can get what i don't offer from another. Then come hang with me again. Aot of guys have more than one ATF. AS we have more than one regular.

    Pamela
    Hi, Pam. Not me bud. Ive only had one real ATF and that was my Indy girl back in the day. Lots of favs, regulars and flockettes since then but only one ATF. Point taken though that we customers can have lots of girls we like to hang out with and dancers can have lots of regulars as well. Its all good.

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    i would say a combination of both ...
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    ... One very big point of advice to dancers - never, ever let any customer hear you refer to anyone as your regular. ....
    Are you saying not to let me hear you call me a regular, or not to mention that the other guy over there is a regular?

    I admit I dont like to be called someone's regular (sounds like she is trying to keep everyone else away).
    Quote Originally Posted by Chuck
    Remember HC, "NO" only means "NO" when she says it..... LMAO

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    I am a club regular. I have known some of the dancers at the clubs I frequend for almost 10 years..... :-/

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    I am a club regular. I have known some of the dancers at the clubs I frequend for almost 10 years..... :-/
    Dont get me wrong, I am a regular at a few clubs. I even have my favorites (right Savannah_Smiles), but I dont like how some ladies treat the 'regulars'. They think I can only spend on my fav and dont even stop by or give me a chance. (I started this about 5 years ago)
    Quote Originally Posted by Chuck
    Remember HC, "NO" only means "NO" when she says it..... LMAO

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    Seriously guys because i don't know. If your ATF. is not working and you go in for a dance, is there not another kinda ATF. who is the back up girl. Do you guys only have just 1, period.

    Or if you danced with another, would your ATF. get real pissed ?
    I know yours did happy_camper.

    But see i did not do ld's so that made it easier for me, and they can go get a ld from another. They always came back for a wild stage show, or a VIP naughty chat! Of course i sat on a guys lap, but no ld.

    Pamela

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    .. If your ATF. is not working and you go in for a dance, is there not another kinda ATF. who is the back up girl. Do you guys only have just 1, period.

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    I dont normally go into the club where my ATF works when she isnt there, although I do still have fun on those occasions. Sometimes it works out better because the others are not afraid to stop by and chat more often (and will dance for me). I also go to another club where I just have sort of favorites, but not 'just one' there. Not sure if that answers your question, but in my mind I have 1 ATF and lots of others that I like.
    Quote Originally Posted by Chuck
    Remember HC, "NO" only means "NO" when she says it..... LMAO

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    A regular = someone who comes in the club more than twice a week. The bartenders have known him by name for years and the dancers have changed three times or four already. He knows all the dancers now and all the dancers before and where they are now and when he walks in -the girls all say hello ------- . There not afraid to ask him to go to there car and get or go to the store and get or to go get at all. He helps bounce when it happens to be needed at the time and even rubs tired feet. That is a regular to me. It's not the money, that is a regular only to one girl. If he follows her from club to club he is her regular.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WI.Belle link=board=8;threadid=3917;start=msg56762#msg56762 date=1071736114
    ... It's not the money....
    I like that. Does anyone else agree?
    Quote Originally Posted by Chuck
    Remember HC, "NO" only means "NO" when she says it..... LMAO

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