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    Default Dancer tricks or Standard operating procedures

    Thought I try a post on dancer operating procedures, and tips.

    1. The dancer is never alone or not with a customer.
    ATF was never alone at the bar... well maybe at the start of a shift. She tried to have a stable of safe harbors or regulars who would tip her the minimum $5 on stage or at least would buy her a drink. Might be other girls sitting with the guy in the group.

    2. As a customer I needed to go to the restroom once.
    I excused myself politely and noticed a strange look in her eye. When I returned to the table she had disappeared. She did return after a stage set
    and a couple of rounds of thank yous and dances.
    She said, "I can never be seated at a table alone,
    and you left. It looks bad. I kidded her about this once at dinner when I went to the restroom and returned and she was still there at the restaurant table.
    I learned to go to the bathroom after her stage sets when she was doing dances and thanking guys after stage sets.

    3. Always go around the room and thank each guy who tipped you on stage. Not only is it polite, but
    may get you more dances. This should be requried at all clubs. (What do you think?)

    4. Find a way to break into a group of guys and sit
    down. You more than likely will get at least one dance from each of them. (this is where the stage dance and thnak you is of help)

    5. Smile and make eye contact when you are on stage.
    Take the time to get the tips in your garter (if that is allowed in your city) and talk briefly with the guy.
    Sometimnes he'll tell you he wants to see you at his table.

    6. Always know who the other dancers are who are
    being hired into the bachelor party rooms.

    7. Always know who the other dancer is in a
    "double" VIP room gig is so you don't wind up doing something or getting in a dispute with your guy.

    What do you think?



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    Excellent advice! I always took the time to thank a guy 1on1!!!! Makes the whole scene more personal, and they like being talked to directly. I would bend down and crawl up to those who wanted to hand me money directly. Those that tossed $$ on stage, i usually could not see.
    But i would let that money lay there until i was done onvstage. IT makes one look greedy to stop dancing and scarf up money laid on stage. Just my opinion.

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    Sounds like the makings of confusion.
    1 If it is kind of rude to interrupt a dancer talking to someone
    2 If dancers are never supposed to be alone
    How do the involved 2 people meet except by chance or needing to get a third party?

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    6. at the club I work at this would translate into "Know which dancers do stage shows for Bucks and Birthday boys". Stage shows are where the Buck or Birthday boy (or a party member who is willing) is taken up on stage and the dancer then over a period of 2-3 songs... does a topless show for him involving shaving cream and water.

    Personally, I love doing them. It allows me to get wet and put on a performance

    7. Are you referring to "extras" in relation to this one? ???


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    Great discussion. Yeah Ausie Vie. Seemed to be important to know which dancers had limits
    and obeyed house rules, and which ones did more.

    Otherwise she got pressure from the VIP guy she was with why he wasn't getting what the other guy was getting. The double VIP gig was generally a good deal as it made the time go faster she said and more of a party atmosphere. "Woo hoo."

    The bachelor party things were more structured
    ending with the on stage humilation of the bachelor.
    However they had mid size party roooms so same thing you needed to know which girls you were with.

    Had the thing where a dancer could not refuse a drink form the customer, but they could order red bull
    or soda water instead.

    I don't think alot of guys understand that a
    really professional dancer can't just be alone at a table waiting for them or seem to be alone at anytime for that matter. Even if the customers a sparse... they have to be in a party mood or look like they are having fun.

    Great discussion.

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    Default Re: Dancer tricks or Standard operating procedures

    Monty, if I want a particular girl to join me I always invite her to do so when I tip her on stage or when she circulates after her dance for tips or thank you's. Or if there's no opportunity to do those, ask a waitress to send her over.
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    Default Re:Dancer tricks or Standard operating procedures

    Good idea.... never thought of this before but maybe thanking the people who actually got up and tipped you...not necesarily the ones that were already sitting at the stage. Obviously they saw something they liked. Gotta try this at work tomorrow.

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    Default Re:Dancer tricks or Standard operating procedures

    #3 I sometimes see that happen, I think that's a nice thing to do.

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    Default Re:Dancer tricks or Standard operating procedures

    Quote Originally Posted by Niceguy link=board=8;threadid=3923;start=msg45608#msg45608 date=1069553333

    3. Always go around the room and thank each guy who tipped you on stage. Not only is it polite, but
    may get you more dances. This should be requried at all clubs. (What do you think?)

    5. Smile and make eye contact when you are on stage.
    Take the time to get the tips in your garter (if that is allowed in your city) and talk briefly with the guy.
    Sometimnes he'll tell you he wants to see you at his table.

    All the tips you posted are excellent advice. I most definitely agree with #3 and #5. In my last club, I always took the time after my set to go around to each customer and thank them personally and sincerely (that is of course, unless they were occupied with another dancer). And, they truly appreciated it.

    Great advice once again



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    Thanks. Some more things ATF did is to get me to buy her a drink and make sure to leave it
    on the table when she did stage sets with a dancer straw. Customers got red stirring sticks and dancers got white straws. Also leaving the digs or a lighter were helpful as they
    helped me ward off other dancers who werrn 't in our group.
    The thanking customers after a stage set is a must and makes the stage show
    a better ad to get private dances.

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    I would warn any dancer to NEVER leave your drink and come back to it later. It does not matter if a customer you have known for a very long time is watching it for you. I had a long time customer slip something in my drink once and it resulted in some very traumatic events that I'd rather not go into but I'm sure you can get the hint. Please, please!!! ALWAYS keep your drink with you and if you must leave it, toss it. You can get another drink after your set is through.

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    Smile and be courteous. What used to be called "common courtesy" is anything but common these days, if you are courteous you will stand out from the crowd. Also, don't promise anything you don't intend to deliver. If you don't like to be touched, say so up front. Don't mislead the customer. Be honest and you'll have lots of regulars.
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    There are some markets and clubs where you woluldn't leave your drink with a customer.
    I wouldn't be in attendance at those clubs, and ATF wouldn't dance there. At this club
    bar procedure was to mark dancers drinks with dancer straws (which were white) and cutomer straws were red. The waitresses and bartenders did this as a club procedure.
    While they didn't hustle you for drinks, getting cutomers to buy drinks was certainly a profit center for everybody. Like wolves marking their hunting ground, dancers would leave their drinks with white straws with good customers or cutomers that they were betting on
    getting them to spend more money. While you could buy your way out of a stage set, this was discouraged by management unless you were in VIP room with an active customer. You were then excempt from stage dances. As you were expected to do your rotation, you could easily lose your position with a potential good customer (while you were on one of the four stages) to another dancer if you didn't mark your territory. Club was in a good area with 4-700,000 homes and and office market near it. Also tened to throw out customers who misbehaved, and didn't let guys at night in with torn jeans and dirty shirts.
    Had to be a sport shirt. (Early shift had alot of trades people and a different code.)

    So the drink marked with a white straw was a club policy. If your territory was "staked out"
    using the policy you could c omplain to management and they'd ask the waitresses and floor management and the interloper dancer was usually warned off. I guess what I'm saying that marking your territory was in the dancers interest. Also gave her a "safe" place to sit down while coming back from dances at tables or stage sets. Not all dancers smoke but alot of them used the cigs and lighter gambit... but the club WANTED the customer to buy the girl a drink and mark the territory.

    There is alot of discussion on board as a cutomer on what to do with a dancer who asks
    "wanna dance?" when you are already occupied or busy with somebody else. The white straw thing was helpful because you could as a regular say, "Hey Brittany... Dion is with me already... see?"

    So anyway this was just another operating procedure that I thought was helpful.

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    My ATF always left her drink, cigarettes and stuff with me too when she had to go on stage. But this was a small locals club, I wouldn't advise doing that in most clubs either.

    BTW, one of the things that really annoys me is when I buy a dancer a drink and she doesn't bother to sit with me to finish it. You can bet that's the last time I'll ever buy her anything.
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    I make it a point to thank those who I think apprieciated my show. However I am the one getting naked and sweating up there, let us not forget I am working. Therefore, if you come to see me and are having a good time I think it is for you to thank me also and I just don't mean money-a good "nice job" and "thanks" turns me on to you too, remember......you have lots of girls to choose from but I also have lots of patrons to choose from as well.
    It is allowed at my club to couple lapdance and share two dancers with one patron. I don't choose to do these things, not because I think there bad, hell, I don't care. I just feel wierd rubbing on women so I just choose not to. Really thats what a guy wants to see when he invites two girls into the lapdance area anyway, right? wrong? Maybe most of the time then. We don't have the VIP room so I don't have to worry yet about that.

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    Well, no matter how much I "trust" someone...I will NOT drink the same thing after it has been out of my sight for any amount of time. There are just too many things that can go wrong. Maybe my guy wouldn't do anything, but he could have left to go to the bathroom and left the glasses on the table (my glass is screaming dancer glass) and someone slips something into it. I'd rather finish it off and then get another afterwards...just safer.

    And, just cuz you're in a safe city and a nice club, doesn't mean that you won't get some perverted scuzz ass doing something stupid. Never get over-confident or lax.

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    The thank you for stage tips. is in the final analysis, a sales tool to help the dancer sell more dances at tables. Probably would work for lap dances also. I agree that if there are no tips from guys for stage shows, it doesn't make much sense.
    However in clubs in which the stage shows are rewarded by gusy with stage tips,
    especially guys who walk up from their table tyo the the stage to tip in the garter,
    remembering who the bigger tippers are makes sense.

    In a big club its hard to find them sometimes when you get off from your stage set.

    You come by thank them and hug them or whatever is local practice. Gives them a reason to talk to you and a reason for you to sit by them if you think that is a good idea. Good way to break into a table of two or three guys also.

    Whatgever you think, or whatever you believe about who is thanking who
    and for what, it gives you the dancer opportunity to meet the guys in a more graceful enterance. Isn't that worth something?

    It worked for the girls i saw do it. It is up to you of course. Don't be guided by club and local practice. Club and local practice may be wrong.

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    As this is a Saturday afternoon and everybody is going to work or clubbing, I thought I would bring this one on dancer operating tips and procedures back from Jan. where it was receeding rapidly. What I thought was my masterpiece, the prepaying dances is like a gasoline prepay appears to have disppeared or been incinerated.

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    "There are some markets and clubs where you woluldn't leave your drink with a customer."

    Yeah, it's called ALL OF THEM.

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    Default Re: Dancer tricks or Standard operating procedures

    I think operating tips and being a lady sometimes work together. So I've brought
    back operating tip thread from the dust bin of history. Of course I think its a great thread...

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