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    Default Question from a SC virgin

    So here's my issue. I'm a true 1 or 100 drinker (I can have one drink and enjoy it, but if I have another I'll have 100). So I'm not going to have an alcoholic drink at a club - water or diet soda is going to be it.

    I've read (here I think, maybe other places online) that dancers sometimes try to estimate if a customer will be willing to spend real money based on what type of drink the guy's buying. Since I'm perfectly willing to drop significant money for the right dancers (not talking 'extras' here), I want to know if there's a way to keep dancers from assuming I won't. I know there are other factors (I've lurked and done my homework), but is the cheap drink/soda/water thing a trump that overrules the rest?

    I was actually considering telling the waitress the deal and paying her for full price drinks (let her keep the difference as an extra tip) so she'd tell the dancers I'm not a cheap b*st*rd. Does that sound completely insane? Not necessary? Does anyone have suggestions?

    PS If regional differences matter, I'm in Mass, but air dances seem pointless so I'm going to be in a club in RI...
    Funny, God isn't an intolerant bigot. Wonder why so many of His followers are...

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    Sometimes I opt for the "no alcohol or low alchohol" evenings and have never really noticed a difference in the way the dancers treated me.

    Recently the cops around the SC I like to go to have cracked down on drivers who have been drinking so I'm really cautious about that. Tip the dancers on stage and/or tell the waitresses you would like a dance from a particular girl (tip the waitress, of course) and the dancer won't care whether you are drinking water or booze.

    At least that's the way it seems here in the midwest.

    By the way, Captain, congrats on knowing yourself and your decision not to get shit-faced drunk in public. More people should learn that trick! I would bet not one dancer on this site likes a slobbering drunk and it makes the drive home safer for all of us.

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    I mainly work days so it's not uncommon to see guy with cokes and non-alcholic drinks. A lot of guys don't want to go back to work or to the SO and take a chance that someone might smell alcohol on them and wonder where they've been.

    Personally in estimating what a guy might be willing to spend, I go by his looks. Dress nice, tip welll, act more or less like a gentleman and the girls should flock to you.
    Dancing is wonderful training for girls, it's the first way you learn to guess what a man is going to do before he does it. ~Christopher Morley, Kitty Foyle

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    If you tip well and buy dances you'll be fine. The water/coke thing only scares us off when you are one of those guys who wants to sit and watch for free for hours on end. If the girls see you're not one of those they'll be happy to sit with you.

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    Great. Thanks, folks. I'm sure all will be fine now.
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    I don't drink and ladies seem to take comfort knowing they do not have to deal with a drunk guy barfing on them. Plus a lot of people are just nicer sober. I live an hour away from where I go and bottled water is a more common drink than mixed drinks. Course it still costs $4 for 59 cents worth of water. :o

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    Default Re: Question from a SC virgin

    All good news. Thanks to all who answered.

    Meanwhile, I'm sitting here trying to figure out why a guy wouldn't make sure he was neat, presentable, and clean (and not smelly, sheesh) before going to a place full of beautiful women. Bizarre. :-/

    Oh well, there are some odd people in the world, apparently including some who will pass up the opportunity to get close to a gorgeous, sexy woman just because it'll cost them a few bucks. Wackos, each and every one of them...
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    Default Re: Question from a SC virgin

    yeah, I don't buy much aclohol at clubs, I would rather spend my money on the dancers. most of the time when I buy drinks it is for the dancer I am with, and I will get non-acloholic if they want, but I want to spend my money on the dancers, there are a lot of cheaper ways to go if I just want to get drunk......

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    Default Re: Question from a SC virgin

    Dancer: "So why aren't you drinking?"
    Me: "More Money To Spend On You! How about a dance?"


    I don't drink at clubs and while I felt that I've gotten discriminatory treatment some places, I've never felt what was in my drink glass was the problem.

    If you want good treatment, you just need to speak a dancers language --> [$20] [$20] [$20]

    Money talks, not alcohol. If a dancer is making judgement of you over what you're drinking, she's in the wrong line of work. So put some dinero up on the rail and enjoy your soda.
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    The patron's drink of choice is only one of many factors that determine if you will approach him. We look at the variables, process, and make a split second decision.

    What girls warn each other about is that guy who sits right by the stage, nurses a coke in the non-alcohol shaped glass (thanks for the heads up bartenders) and makes sure to avoid any and all eye contact with girls coming by.

    If you want attention, actually look that the faces of the girls on stage, smile, make eye contact, they will be trying to connect with you. Once you choose the one you like, let HER know you are interested. Don't play the "let me see how hard you can beg me for a lap" dance game that we are forced to undignifiably play.
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    I usually drink non-alcoholic beer in strip clubs. I got in that habit because I used to go to a nude no-alcohol place to see my ATF and now I find I prefer it. I like the taste and don't have to worry about getting crazy or driving home. Also with the dark bottle the waitress can never tell whether it's full or empty so they don't bug you as much. I've even been known to take the bottle into the men's room and fill it with water - not because I'm cheap but because I just didn't want any more. But I never thought that there might be a side benefit - from more than 2 feet away nobody can tell it's not a real beer. But I really don't think most girls care one way or the other.
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