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    OK...I'm truly perplexed and would prefer that replies be from the opposite sex...(that's women for those of you in Rancho Cucamonga).

    Most of the clubs I visit frequently are in Vegas. Olympic Gardens, Crazy Horse Too.....and oh yeah...I'll admit it the Palomino Club. Why I don't go to the Cheetah...I don't know. Maybe it's the decor. *L* I dress well. No jeans...no Speedo's ... usually slacks and a sport shirt and I smell good.

    Of course I'm there for a bit more than just the stage show but I always tip the girls on stage when I'm "ringside" and I don't travel with the "boys" because I want to be with the girls.

    So...here's the question. I buy a lap dance or two and always get roped "unwillingly of course ..*L*" into spending some time in the darker or more private areas of the club. This may or may not be the first time with this girl....but...if things go well and they usually do...there comes a time in her performance that she might lean forward get real close and let her breasts rub up against my manly chest and then travel further north to gently brush my lips. OK....now...you should know that I have great self control and am at most times a gentleman.

    Have I lost my mind? What should I be thinking and is this some form of signal or just a preview of the devious torture this woman wants to put me through?

    Help!

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    Please don't lick. It's not very fun or clean to be licked by 50 guys in a night.

    If your dancer lets you lick her, then I'm assuming you're not the only one. You'd be licking the slobber off her from how many guys before you?

    Davey, we're supposed to tease you.

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    If i were a guy and a dancer put her tits all over my face, i would think she wants me to do something about it. Lick, suck whatever. Of course, i would also be thinking she always does this with every guy and wants more money. Part of her hustle. Or she just likes doing it. Why not mention it to her....Seriously.

    I have seen it done. And guys who actually feel uncomfortable it seemed and did nothing, but raise his hands in the air, i guess to show they are not touching.

    Some dancers have their own thing going, i would guess it's all part of her hustle for more money. Alot of them do it around here, and NOT supposed too.

    Pamela


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    I would tell you not to lick any stranger's body part that might have been licked by another stranger right before you, but since that doesn't seem to be a concern, stick your tongue out when she gets close to putting her boobs in your face. If she backs up, put that thing back in your mouth.

    I'll get my breasts close to a guy's face, but if he opens his mouth or sticks out his tongue, I'm backing off.

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    I HATE when guys do that! I have to run to the back to sanatize! I don't know why they're brushing their lips against yours though... that's asking for it? Maybe you're really hot? Tee hee
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    Bella........if you're going to brush your lips against mine....all bets are off.

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    Don't ever lick! During a dance I will put my boobs very close to your face, it's all part of the tease. As soon as a guy tries to slobber on me, my boobs move to the next zip-code and remain so for the rest of the dance.

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    Mariah - EXACTLY
    Davey - *blush*
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Thats just nasty!! keep your tounge to yourself!!

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    Don't ever lick! During a dance I will put my boobs very close to your face, it's all part of the tease. As soon as a guy tries to slobber on me, my boobs move to the next zip-code and remain so for the rest of the dance.
    Word. Boldface my own.

    A few tips from a dancer whom the bouncers have nicknamed "Slugger". It's a show, not an invitation for more (if it is an invitation, then just wonder how many men have been there before).

    If you violate the no touching rules, then I move my treasures away or move your offending parts away from my treasures. That is your first warning. If you do it again, I kindly remind you that this is only a show, not an interactive prelude to more. That is your second warning. A persistent (third attempt) violation earns a bitchy "I SAID..." preceeding the earlier statement.

    A fourth attempt earns you a bitchslap and a mark under the plaque titled "Slugger's Hall of Shame" which the bar keeps gleefully current. Anything involving teeth wins a "Go straight to Bitchslap- Do not pass go". Winning the dubious honor of being forcibly reminded by Slugger that this is only a show also gets you tossed out.

    As Slugger is fond of saying, "Keep your hands, lips, teeth and tongue to yourself. Just sit back and enjoy the ride of your life."
    He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

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    Oh yeah...you're tough!

    Ugh....but if you read the question correctly, it is she who has initiated the touching by brushing her nipple against my lips. It is not I who darted a lizard tongue out halfway across the room to engage that little protruding anatomical feature.

    So your little scenario describing what you would do if I violated the which the no touching rule which again you're assuming has been established in this case....just doesn't apply here. Try reading and understanding the question before jumping to conclusions and displaying your repressed anger at men. *L*

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    Oh....btw....you sound like you're from Panama City Beach. *L*

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    Not to lick.. That's the Answer!

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    Oh yeah...you're tough!

    Ugh....but if you read the question correctly, it is she who has initiated the touching by brushing her nipple against my lips. It is not I who darted a lizard tongue out halfway across the room to engage that little protruding anatomical feature.

    So your little scenario describing what you would do if I violated the which the no touching rule which again you're assuming has been established in this case....just doesn't apply here. Try reading and understanding the question before jumping to conclusions and displaying your repressed anger at men. *L*
    *snortgiggle*

    Let me get this straight. I don't give you carte blanche to lick every temptress you come across, and this proves I am repressing anger?

    Don't give me that "she started it" malarkey. Were you unaware that you were in a strip club? Did you perhaps leave out crucial information, like that this actually took place in a singles bar? No?

    Then you knew damned good and well that it was naught but a tease. If you want more, then either hit the dirty streets in town or get a girlfriend. Don't go to a strip club for a tease and then act like you deserve more.

    Speaking of repression, I think someone has misogynistic tendencies. First you go to strip clubs and say "She touched me, so all bets are off and I can do what I want! Wheeeeee!" Then you think that slapping someone who had three warnings is "angry at men in general" (because, of course, there is no other possible reason to strike at someone).


    Each and every one of us, including fellow customers, has made abundantly clear that licking is not the proper behaviour of a gentleman nor the course of prudence. Methinks you asked a question to which you already knew the answer, and now you doth protest too much.
    He who fights with monsters might take care lest he thereby become a monster. And if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche

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    So what about ear lobes ? She is nibbling on your ears, and pinching your nipples. Then between songs, her ear is on your lips and you give it a little dry bite. [nono] Then the other ear comes in, then the neck, then she's mixing in pursed lip kisses.

    What is this type of behavior suggesting ? Is she acting sensual to get more dances, or just getting a little carried away ?

    I have no problem controlling my behavior, but I sometimes wonder about her's. And yes, I have reminded dancers on many occasions what is acceptable behavior on their part.

    So why do some dancers cross the line with customers? ???

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    Davey, I have a story to tell you that a co-worker recently shared that I found so disgustingly hilarious I got a stitch in my side from laughing. She told me that she was lap dancing for a guy and that she had clearly told him "keep your hands to your side and your tongue in your mouth."

    It wasn't going that great as she had to repeatedly bat his hands off of her. Then she turned around, backside facing him, bent over grabbing her ankles giving him a great ass shot. Dammit if his lizard tongue didn't dart out and lick her ass cheek!

    She told me she allowed him to keep slobbering on her ass cheek and the whole time she was screaming in her head, "you stupid mother fucker I just had sex doggy style with my boyfriend right before work and let him cum all over my ass." She even charged him extra for the dance.

    Morale of the story? Don't lick.


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    Davey, davey, davey...hmmmm. i stopped myself from reading this until now FIGURING it would be just as it looked. sad. it is a tease, a tease for most, and unless the gal is inebreated most likely does NOT want your 'tongueing' [shameful]! think of this too...okay, we walk around on a floor that has been barfed on whized on, god knows what on...then we take those shoes to stage and guess what? the stage goo sticks to us! yummers! now try thinking about licking that floor, mmmm bet you can just taste the years of abuse the floors have endured. why don't you just throw your food on the mall floor or something of that nature and enjoy licking that up, pretty damn similar!~ this is why us gals will leave stage, wipe-off then return to do dances for the most part, but if its busy...or she's busy...just look at your shoes there pal, and think of all those glorious germs! if you are into that sort of thing, well i wasted my time. but COME ON, do not come on a lady's forum with such ludicrous questions! please, what kind of response did you expect? ooooh please ,please mister-i-don't-know come and slobber me' s good! LOL [trip]

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    Winter....to tell the truth I thought this was the place to ask this type of question. No matter what Lilith may believe.....I have no problem finding a "girl friend". But frankly there are times that I don't want to be involved.

    I like being single along with all of the perks that go with it. I go to clubs for CASUAL conversation with the opposite sex and yes....to get a bit of sexual tease. This situation with the nipple in the face has happened so many times that it seems like it's in every dancers routine.

    Now....Lilith may be dancing in some dirty little backwater in Florida just off the bayou....but that's not the places I frequent....unless you're talking my Army Aviation days at Fort Rucker Ala. She may treat her customers in the way she describes. She may very well set limits and tell her customers what they are. I really haven't found that to be the case often.

    Most everything depends on the club and the girl. Let me just say this. There are clubs in Nevada where the girls would probably be disappointed if you didn't touch them........and yes it's a lady's forum.....but this sections I believe is devoted to the customers that come see those ladies. What better place to ask....then here?

    I am well aware that clubs aren't the cleanest of places and neither are some of the girls that work there. **L** But if in the environment that I frequent this is a regular occurance....well....DUH! Why are you sticking it in my mouth in the first place????? Just a blockhead question I know....*LOL*


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    i would think the brother site might be better for this type of question. that's just my opinion. you can read, so you know now that the MAJORITY of ladys do NOT like...and really, think about what sapphire said too...i just always thought "Gross, i roll all over that nasty stage, germs, germs, germs!"--and i do not lick myself! i think perhaps i shan't speak for others, but look at what the ladys did reply as a whole...you make your own conclusion....BEST advice-TALK to INDIVIDUAL girl...so there is no misunderstanding either way. i found that men and women communicate quite differently at times. observing my grandparents feud for a couple of hours over saying the EXACT same thing, just in a different way, = no connection. even though the were in actuality agreeing. just READ what the ladys wrote back, because as you stated, YOU posed this question here. and do think about all those germs, gross!

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    I agree with the rest of the ladies here, do not lick the dancers. There is no reason for you to be licking anyone. Keep your hands to the side, your tongue in your mouth, and behave. This will probably lead to more "mileage" anyway. I know that the more a guy pushes it with me, the more and more I back off. If a girls wants you to do anything like lick or touch, she'll say something. I have a girl who always reminds me that I am more than welcome to rub on her thighs, breasts and behind. When a dancer wants more contact from you (which I can't imagine is very often) she'll let you know.

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    I don't have a problem with Davey asking his question here. I think it is a good place for him to ask it. I don't think the blue site is a good place. He is obviously looking for the ladies opinions. There are a few ladies on the blue site, but a lot more over here.

    Also, all he was doing is asking. He never said that he does lick the girls. I think it is a perfectly reasonable and understandable question. It is easy for us dancers to automatically get on the defensive when we read something. I know I do. That's because we have to always be on the defense against men at work. Read his question again and try to look at it from his POV. He asked if it is okay to lick a girls nipple when she sticks it to his mouth. Common sense says why would she put it there if she didn't want it licked? And the fact is some girls don't mind or even like it. We don't as we have stated. I am guilty of putting my breasts up next to the face and close to the lips. It's the art of "tease". So I let Davey know how I feel. I don't think his intention was to get us riled up or to make us mad. He just asked a simple question.

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    [beat] Glad you asked first, now you'll know not to do it. PS Are you hot Davey? lol sorry
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    Winter: Yes...I know...men and women do have a problem with word definition. Now...if I had wanted a man's point of view I might have asked it elsewhere. But what do I care what a man might say? It's not a man's nipple. *L* There's quite a few ladies here so I thought might as well get some insight to a woman's psyche.

    Kobi.... Thanks for so clearly capturing what the purpose and meaning of my post was. As stated....I have never failed to keep my resolve and in spite of all of those luscious temptations place before me, have managed to keep my tongue behind my teeth. *g* It hasn't been easy because you are right....common sense might dictate a different course of action. Then of course, after a few drinks and beauty in my eye...how much of that is left? *L*

    tranquil_waters... I've never failed to act like a gentleman and treat the woman I was with as a lady. Her limits are what I'm bound by but if they're too rigid well.....why buy an air dance? To tip at the stage is cheaper if that's what I want. Oh...and I'm not too sure how to answer that question of yours....uhhh...*L* Hot is such a relative term. Let's just say, I think I could make your water boil. *L* BTW....did I mention that I'm humble as well?

    Amber....I'm shocked...just shocked that you'd resort to that method to beguile us men. *L* But I give you a lot of points for being brave enough to admit that you'd use all of your charms to further confuse the living daylights out of us. (men)

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    The gist of all of this is that most dancers do not want you to slobber all over them in any fashion, and any close proximity of their nipples and other such things are meant as a tease - which is part of the experience of SC-going. It is a tease only and not an invitation. If you are not sure of this, it is always better to err on the side of caution and assume it is only the Tease. Going by that, you do not lick.

    If a dancer goes beyond that, and lets your chomp away with glee upon her mammaries, then its a very good bet she does this on a regular basis with who knows how many customers. Thus, even if she instigates it, and would allow you to lick her like a Charms Blowpop, you are definitely receiving the gifts left by every previous guy she danced for that night. It is highly, highly unlikely that she picked only you out of all the customers to receive What is Behind Door Number 3. Armed with that knowledge, then, unless you like a vast array of potential communicable pathogens, it is only prudent to not lick, even if the Green Light has been flashed, and Central Command has given you the go.

    Can't think of much more to say on this subject. Good luck.

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    "DOH" WHAT WAS THE QUESTION?
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