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    hey, I know that the question of customer dancer realationships has been asked to death but I have a more specific question.

    Do any of you ever get turnded on while doing a vip dance, I know that we do, and I have had a couple times when I thought the dancer was getting into it to. but I wasn't sure if that was true or if she was a very good actor.

    so, if you have ever really gotten into a dance, could you share your stories with us so we know that it could be a two way street, somtimes.

    also, do you all have any suggestions on how us customers could make the dance more enjoyable for you, (without getting us or you in trouble that is),
    I kind of like to please. I find that I enjoy the experence MUCH more if I know that the dancer is enjoying it too.

    thanks.

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    Yes, so long as the guy isn't all graby and I can get lost in my own little world. If I'm always trying to dodge his hands, it's not enjoyable.
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    Yes, so long as the guy isn't all graby and I can get lost in my own little world. If I'm always trying to dodge his hands, it's not enjoyable.
    the one time that I am pretty sure that I turned a dancer on was one time a Platinum plus. there it is just tip out, not per song in the vip room. there was this one dancer that I massaged her back and breathed hotly on her neck during the dance. she got goosebumbs all over when I breathed on the back of her neck (I had permission beforehand). by the end of the dance she melted in my embrase. after that she just wanted me to hold her for a few songs (which she didn't accept a tip for), so we spent 20 minutes with her stradling me with my one arm wrapped around her while I stroked the back of her neck and her hair with my other hand. she almost fell asleep. which I felt honored that she was that relaxed around me.

    the other time was, uh lets just say that she liked the way I used my fingers (this was a "wash your hands afterwords dance." and kept encorging me untill she had to ask me to stop so she could run to the little girls room. she also like for me to massage her back and her calfs and if it was chilly in the club she would snuggle in my lap.


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    I think it happens sometimes. Most of my experieinces tend toward just having fun and enjoying each others company. There have been a few times when the dancer has acted aroused a la "When Harry met Sally." There has only been one time when I was with one of my favorites where she was really getting into it. When had spent almost the entire time in the VIP area talking and laughing and enjoying each other's company. She started dancing and after a few songs it was very obvious she was turned on, when halfway through a song she excused herself. Could have been nothing, but that night it felt like it was a little more. Ended up seeing her outside the club a few times but nothing ever came of it.

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    I get into my own little sensual sex goddess world sometimes, and then the song ends and I look down and it's like "OMG, there's a man underneath me!" even though I was looking in his eyes the whole time. It's like I hypnotise myself or something.

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    I can relate Lena. It's not a turn on for me. I did not do lap dances, but i would sit on laps and talk. And then do stage. So i guess it would be harder for me to get turned on anyway. Still i can't see it happening for me with a ld. I do private shows now, and they get pretty crazy. Not once did/do i get turned on.

    I will save that part, it all starts in my mind. I'm in a whole other 'mode'.

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    Where do you two dance again?
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    If I can trust the customer and he has asked me what I like (I'm a very sensual person - I like touch)... I will close my eyes and allow myself to, for the moment, just enjoy the feeling.

    ONLY if I can trust the customer (he has proved himself to be trust-worthy). The touch can be anything from a good massage (I don't mind them and WILL let you know when I'm enjoying it), to a nice cuddle/hug, to how you caress or touch my body.

    My club is two way contact - everywhere except "betwen the legs" (or close to it), between the butt cheeks and NO MOUTH CONTACT.

    Other times I like to just have a good decent conversation and that itself can be a turn on.



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    Default Re: is it ever real, as in a turn on.

    Yes, I have gotten turned on doing a VIP a couple of times. Both times it was with a really cool guy who let me do my thing totally and it was like wow! I will also admit that when I did two girl shows with my best friend, we both got totally turned on and the shows weren't really an act. But the guys were just watching.

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    The only thing that turns me on is that fat stack of cash in your pocket! That's all I really think about when I dance and how I can take more of your money. Were really really good actresses. Trust me
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    Sure I got turned on... it was only with gorgeous guys ages 21-26 who weren't trying to grab left and right.

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    I haven't ever in 9yrs. Some girls do. However, it's safe to assume a dance is just a dance.
    My Q is what's up with customers who "want to make it good for me"? Tip extra and don't maul me, that'll make it awesome!
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    Default Re: is it ever real, as in a turn on.

    My Q is what's up with customers who "want to make it good for me"? Tip extra and don't maul me, that'll make it awesome!

    Truer words were never spoken.

    Sometimes guys just love to ask me "what I'm thinking" when I'm dancing.

    I'm thinking.... which moves have I done out of my repetiore and which ones do I have left? Alllllrighty, moving on to the stretch and wiggle... now touch the floor... whoops, don't fall... play with the g-string, smile big... oops, not that big, dammit... mental note: brush after drinking red wine... okay, now straddle... play with his hair... ewwww, went a little overboard on the hair gel there, pal...

    You get the point. This is really what I'm thinking for the average guy. It differs if he's a regular, more along the lines of wracking my brain for creativity and a little "oomph" to the dance, and trying to recall all the little tidbits he's told me so that I can flatter him with remembering our prior discussions. If the guy's being an asshat, then my thoughts are not fit to air in polite company.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl link=board=8;threadid=3932;start=msg45802#msg45802 date=1067557595
    If I can trust the customer and he has asked me what I like (I'm a very sensual person - I like touch)... I will close my eyes and allow myself to, for the moment, just enjoy the feeling.

    ONLY if I can trust the customer (he has proved himself to be trust-worthy). The touch can be anything from a good massage (I don't mind them and WILL let you know when I'm enjoying it), to a nice cuddle/hug, to how you caress or touch my body.

    My club is two way contact - everywhere except "betwen the legs" (or close to it), between the butt cheeks and NO MOUTH CONTACT.
    I must agree wholeheartedly with GoldCoast here. I also enjoy touch, and since the rules at my club are much the same as her's...well, I really enjoy it when the guy's going for the sensual light touch across my legs and arms and such. And, for some men, it makes for a much more enjoyable dance when they know the girl's really into it.
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    Dancers are not robots. Of course one time out of a hundred, they'll get turned on.

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    From personal experience, working in clubs where lap dancing tends to include grinding, I often do find it a turn on. What can I say, it's just a highly stimulating thing to do and I'd rather just go with it and enjoy. (Naughty naughty me ) But -and it's been said before - it's not exciting having to repeatedly remind the guy what he can't do. I'm always happy to receive a good massage and actually prefer some physical contact (on not so private places).

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    I get turned on all the time....but that's because I'm a chronic masterbator and cannot stop toucing myself all the time (boys, this does NOT mean touching the kitty necessarily......

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    tip good and be polite and do not nkeep trying to touch me or saying pervy things- if i fancy you thheres no bigger turn off than a grope or slutty pet name
    sometimes you do but vvv rarley- at the end of the day youre working - professionals you know

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena link=board=8;threadid=3932;start=msg45799#msg45799 date=1066996259
    I get into my own little sensual sex goddess world sometimes, and then the song ends and I look down and it's like "OMG, there's a man underneath me!" even though I was looking in his eyes the whole time. It's like I hypnotise myself or something.

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    EXACTLY the same for me

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine link=board=8;threadid=3932;start=msg82114#msg82114 date=1078726937
    I get turned on all the time....but that's because I'm a chronic masterbator and cannot stop toucing myself all the time
    LOL katrine...i play w myself all the time, if i didnt i'd go fucking crazy!!

    if he's exceptionally good -looking AND we have some sort of chemistry, i.e. our personalities click, then yeah, i get really turned on. but this only happened twice...with the same guy...

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    I always get turned on, to the point of being wet. If the customer is not attractive to me, I just imagine someone who is attractive as I dance. I also get lost in the music and the mood, and "wake up" when the song is over. I have to change g-strings several times a night.... What can I say? I'm just a highly sexual female.

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    one thing I have noticed is that while I like touching, it is more of the Massageing, caressing kind. I only enjoy it if I think that the dancer is getting somthing from it. that is why for me, I like to rub, or breath hottly, ( this is garanteed to gett goosebumps every time) on the back of her neck. also I will mosty rub her back when she is facing away or, the sides of her hips when she is the other way.... as for other things, if she dosn't have to pay the establishment per song for the fantasy room, I will ask if we can go back one song early and cuddle..... I have found that a lot you like the non, agressive contact of this. I have gotten the gambit from just sitting at my side and leaning against me to, staddleing me and wraping there arms around my neck..... but even this is more relaxing than arousing for me....... to bad they are picking about dancers doing that in the club itself, it is to me a nice way to relax both of us....

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    So many times I can barely force myself to take their money. I am very grateful for all men's interest in me but there are some fellas that just make it extra-special.

    Sometimes I will be dancing for a guy and I will look in his eyes and suddenly it just clicks and I know it: I want this man. I totally forget that I am at work. I totally forget that I am going to have to pay the house for every dance I comp.

    Or maybe I remember but I don't care. Car insurance be damned! Who needs car insurance anyway?

    With eyes like that, and a bulging dick like that he doesn't need money! Hell, I'd pay to fuck him!

    Yeah. It happens all the time. Just the hazards of the job I guess.

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    More often I enjoy my customers, some of them are adorable. Since we do grinding that is occasionally arousing, but usually pretty fleeting arousal. But the whole moaning and such is probably fake. in my opinion.

    Sometimes caressing is good, and nice, but I don&#039;t like when it&#039;s really obvious the guy is just seeing "how far he can go." Thing is, you can pretty obviously tell <i> I&#039;m </i> not enjoying myself, that I&#039;m getting uncomfortable, but this is the type of guy that doesn&#039;t care.
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