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    What's the best way to call a dancer to your table? With and without your wife?
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    It's just like calling a waitress to your table but much easier. Dancers do not get paid an hourly wage. We work on 100% commission and most clubs require dancers to pay an upfront fee. We love it when we don't have to go through the hassle of hustling to make a sale. All you have to do is call her over and say I would like a dance or my wife would like a dance. The dancer will take care of everything else.
    But please don't call a dancer to your table if you don't plan on buying a dance. That is an extremely annoying waste of our time.
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    Make eye contact, and she should come. If not, send a waitress for her, or give her a nice tip on stage and ask her to stop by your table later.

    Depending on the club, be ready to buy a drink or dance when she gets there.

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    Eye contact in a very busy club may not be quite enough. Try smiling and patting an empty chair if she walks by. If she is unavailable at that moment (on her way to VIP or stage) then just mention that you'll save the seat for her and would like to discuss a dance. If you tip her on stage, tell her you would like her to visit your table and then point out where you are sitting! It is so annoying, from a dancer's viewpoint, to wander the bar looking for the guy in the red shirt.

    Pet peeve: asking a dancer to your table or putting an arm around her when you don't plan on spending money. Naturally this isn't what the OP had in mind, but it drives me batty. Doing either, in clubspeak, means that you find her appealing and want to conduct business.
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    When I receive a good tip on stage I usually always stop by the table for a chat and a dance. Try that. Eye contact is a must if you don't tip on stage.
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    Even a "Hey blondie!" is fine with me as long as I'm being called over for a dance. Most girls are happy to be called to a table, it saves us time on having to ask every guy.

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    Default Re: Calling a dancer to your table

    Make eye contact, and she should come. If not, send a waitress for her, or give her a nice tip on stage and ask her to stop by your table later.

    Depending on the club, be ready to buy a drink or dance when she gets there.

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    Default Re: Calling a dancer to your table

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    But please don't call a dancer to your table if you don't plan on buying a dance. That is an extremely annoying waste of our time.
    Oh, Amen! AMEN! This Friday I had a young couple tell me when I was onstage to come and visit them after my set. They were very nice and sociable, but when I asked if they would like a lapdance or joint lapdance, they said -- "Oh, no." I asked why they wanted me to come over if they didn't want a dance. They replied they thought I was pretty and looked nice. That don't pay the bills, sweethearts.

    I seem to get a lot of business from couples. Usually the husband comes to the stage, tips me a few bucks, and says something to the effect of, "I/My Wife/We find you very attractive. Can you do a table dance after your songs?" That always works for me!
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    Default Re: Calling a dancer to your table

    When I receive a good tip on stage I usually always stop by the table for a chat and a dance. Try that. Eye contact is a must if you don't tip on stage.
    i have to agree eye contact to show you want me and a tip on stage helps me to know you would like me to come over

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    Hmmmm....I love the fact that your clubs all have tipping stages but some UK clubs are still behind on that concept.
    If the stage looks non-tippable, just tip anyway guys! We'll get the hint!
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    Default Re: Calling a dancer to your table

    What's the best way to call a dancer to your table? With and without your wife?

    Without your wife is the best way to call a dancer to your table.

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    If the club is really busy and I'm afraid I might lose my seat or with friends and don't want to get up I'll ask waitress to send a lady over. Tip the waitress a little extra for the service and you tend to get 'better' drinks in the process as well.

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    Default Re: Calling a dancer to your table

    I have found that out sad. lol
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    Default Re: Calling a dancer to your table

    Right on Brooklyn. I was in a club not long ago (Erotic Cafe - see my review on TUSCL) where the stage was within the bar so there was no opportunity to tip during the dance. Anyway this lady just blew me away, probably as attractive a dancer as I've ever seen in a club. So I just gave her eye contact and a smile her whole time dancing. As soon as she was done she came right over. And off we went to the VIP room - wow! I've been back. And not for the last time either.
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