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    Default Dancers hell with it I'm going to ask!

    I have read a lot of this site and have not ran into this question yet so here it goes.
    What do dancers think or do when a guy springs wood? It happens I'm sure I'm not the only guy that it happens to. What do most dancers do? When it happens to me I say something about it. Sorry I can't help it. I'm only human. I do not ejaculate I just pitch a tent. One dancer told me "that is how I know I'm doing my job" is that how most dancers feel? I'M NOT TRING TO BE SICK OR RUDE OR GET MY JOLLIES OFF I REALLY WANT TO KNOW. I'm an adult asking for an adult reply please. I have learned so much on this site and will take it to heart the next time I go to a club. I really enjoy lap dances and strip clubs for the "escape from my hectic life" feel, not for the feel of a dancer rubbing my hard on. I'm scared to death the dancer is going to think I'm one of them guys who are just getting a free feel.( That is what I see most dancers think after reading half of this site that men here just to get a cheap feel). It does not happen every dance just the ones that the dancer makes feel real and I get lost in the moment.

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    Honestly, I expect it, and if I can't tell that he has a hard on, then I feel like I'm doing something wrong. Sometimes you just can't tell though because of what they are wearing or their body type (okay, I'll just say it, extremely overweight men are hard to tell). And if its a no contact club, then you probably can't tell. When I'm not sure if he's aroused then I feel like something is wrong with me. I think most dancers expect to turn you on.

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    I'm glad you think this way, Kobi. I'm sure many, if not most dancers don't give dog doodoo about whether or not a guy "pitches a tent" or get aroused by the presence of a naked or near naked lady dancing in front of him. They just want remuneration ($$$).



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    He better spring wood! Otherwise, I'm not doing something right. The key is to keep him just there, and not spurting.

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    Default Re: Dancers hell with it I'm going to ask!

    Kobi ,Zofia
    Thank you

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    All dancers expect it. I think it is so sweet that you are concerned that we might be offended. Customers like you are so rare. Please stay sweet; we need more guys like you.
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    Thank you livenudegirlsunite. Your industry needs more dancers like you
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    Word. If I can't tell his dimensions, then I worry that I am not doing anything for him. Best advice I received when I first started dancing was "You get paid for a hard-on. Bigger the hard-on, more money you make."
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    Default Re: Dancers hell with it I'm going to ask!

    as long as you dont bust a nut on me or my clothes(thats gross) then everythig is ok i mean what is the use of a lapdance if you can't get aroused
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    I work in upscale clubs,so I get payed for mostly conversation and my looks ,not giving a guy a hard on,would I mind if he gets one?I could care less,as long as he is not saying vulgar things to me ,or trying to rub it on me,dont get me wrong I have worked in lite contact clubs,but my goal was not to give a guy a hard on,but I do give a nice sensual dance,with more emphasis on eye contact and soft touching on the guys face and arms,if you get a hard on fine,just dont be vulgar about it,I prefer to pretend it isnt there.

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    I used to feel that way too. I was so scared that I would offend them by having an erection. but I was also afraid that a wan't well endowed, (that is what happens when you are only 21 and all your experence comes from watching porn ). I used to not get even table dances because of that. but then one time a dancer set me straight. she was so nice that I had to get a dance from her and from here stage show I thought she would do that much contact. I was wrong she did her thing but hadn't brushed againt my crotch but had me going pretty good. than she brushed her leg (I thought accidently :o) against it and I got all flusterd and tryed to appologise. she laughed and said that us dancers expect that and to prove it she sat on my lap so it went right between her cheeks and started moving up and down untill I had to ask her to stop so I wouldn't make a mess. then i appologiesed again and she said, "heh, don't worry about it, I bet you enjoyed that dance a lot" I had to admit that I had never had a better dance, and I tipped her extra.

    it was a real eye opener... and compared to what I have expenenced since then at clubs, it was almost quaint.....

    I have also found out that my lenght is perfectly satifactory but I won't go into that....

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    I, personally, get very offended when they don't!!!
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    Wow, I'm kind of surprised by some of the responses here. It kind of takes the right stimulation to make that happen for some of us, so I guess that explains that "are you okay?" "Am I doing something wrong?" expression I get sometimes.

    Don't get upset girls! Sometimes we're tired, sometimes its the clothes we're wearing, sometimes our minds are someplace else. If we continue to buy dances, you must be doing something right!

    A certain involuntary medical procedure done on me as an infant certainly hasn't helped things either. (And I'm not even Jewish). Possible Urinary tract infection prevented? Yeah sure Mom and Dad. Thanks a lot.

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    Don't get upset girls! Sometimes we're tired, sometimes its the clothes we're wearing, sometimes our minds are someplace else.

    Or medication. I was on something that reduced the sex drive as a side effect when I went into a club once. I got a couple of dances from one girl and every so often she would reach down and check it out. Of course, I had nothing going on down there because the medication made it difficult to get wood. After a few reach-downs and feeling nothing, she just started directly rubbing on it frantically. I was embarrassed. I didn't know if she thinking, "What the hell is wrong with you?", or if she was thinking, "You don't like me?"

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    You guys are so funny explaining why you might not get hard when getting a dance.
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    Actually I know they like it. It's just like Kobi said, she wouldn't feel like she did her job otherwise.

    And I kind of like the naughty little smile that comes to their faces when they know it has happened. It's the "I got you" sort of smile. Especially if it took her awhile to get it there.

    I sometimes like to play the resistance game with dancers and make them work a bit. If a girl's doing her job, hell shes going to get wood. If she doesn't like it, she shouldn't be doing LDs.

    About the only thing I don't like is after fifteen dances of pure tease to calm the boy down, so you can walk away.

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    C'mon man.

    Of course, the whole point of a lap dance is arousal.

    How can you go to a club, then ask such a question ?

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    I'm with the other ladies here in that I feel like I'm not doing something right if I don't get a reaction
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    Default Re: Dancers hell with it I'm going to ask!

    Hey big_gun the question was- "What do dancers THINK when a guy gets a hard on. The question was not "whats the point of a lap dance"?.

    Again thanks ladys for the replys.
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    If I don't feel a hard on, then I will change the technique for that particular gentleman, because I feel that I am doing something wrong.


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    I don't mind if a guy gets an erection but what I really hate is when they try and rub it against you or start doing mini pelvic thrusts!! I always tell men to sit with their bums against the back of the seat and not drawn forward for that reason. However, some of the other girls do the opposite (I think it's so they can tell if he get's hard!!!) so that they know they are doing things OK.

    Am I just being too sensitive? Does anyone know where I'm coming from with this?
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    Default Re: Dancers hell with it I'm going to ask!

    One of the clubs here have bed dances. I would think it would be hard not to tell if a guy would have a hard on or not lol.
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    I think it's sweet that guys worry about that. Any girl who is wierded out by wood probably wouldn't chose dancing as a career. Shoot I have a 22yr old BF, I don't think I've ever seen him without a hard-on(and we live together! )LOL!
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    As a customer I've found dancers and places to be all over the map on this kind of stuff no matter what practice or activity you're talking about. Something that's standard procedure in one place or with one girl will be considered offensive somewhere else or with someone else in the same place. There's really only 2 ways to find out - ask first or get a dance and see what happens. I always try to be polite but sometimes I still misread a dancer's wishes. I often ask a dancer in advance what her rules are. You'd be surprised how many will say something like "we're not supposed to do such and such but I don't care if you do as long as nobody's watching." That line usually ends up costing me a lot of money in the VIP room (lol).
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    WOOD IS GOOD!!!!!!

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