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    Default What is the preferred way to show money?

    In a club I carry my big notes in my wallet in my pocket and a medium sized fold of $1s and a couple of $5s in the middle in the palm of my hand as I move around. When I approach the stage I usually fold a $1 lengthwise and rest it on my arm for the dancers to see.

    I have seen other customers leave their money fold openly on the table in front of them or in an uneven stack.

    I am hesitant due to personal security issues of flashing any sort of money roll around openly, but realize that dancers see everything in a club. They are constantly studing every customer, where the other dancers are, analyzing every detail around them.

    If I display cash, then I am considered a serious customer. If I tip the bartender or the DJ a couple of times, I know I am being watched the whole time.

    I tried the open money on the table thing and was approached more times than usual for table dances.

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    Carried the 100's in a wallet. $5 bills in my left shirt pocket for dancers I knew, and mercy stage tips.n Carried $1 in my right pocket for stage tips and drink tips. Carried $10 bills
    in my right shirt picket for table dances. Carried $20 bills for buying ATF or others a drink and me a drink. Drinnks were $6-$9 depending on drink., so $20 covered two drinks and tip.
    (I always tip the waitresses I like as they are quite helpful)

    For some reason could never get $10 bills in change at almost any strip club, so would go to grocery store or bank and get change.

    I never leave money on table ... it will disappear. They'll either discover I'm good for the money or they may judge me that I'm not as I wear a Timex watch. (never had someone hold me up for a watch.) That judgement is the individuals problem... not mine.

    I use the pockets as a filing system because if I keep it in my hand it doesn't work for me.
    Also tend to need $1's as the night wears on for the ubiquitous mensroom attendant after 8 or 9 p.m. Yes indeed alot to think about as you are walking around a club.
    (The staff never has change when you want or need it either.)

    See discussion on checks and factoring (money charge) fees.

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    I don't think it's in your best interest to show how much money you have on you. Flashing large amounts will result in "Take him for all he's worth" mentality in the dancers. They will expect you to spend it if they see a stack of hundreds. You'd be better off not showing so you can choose to spend or not spend depending on how much you like the girl you are with. I'll admit, I can get greedy and pushy if I happen to see how much a guy has on him.

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    I can also get greedy when I see a wad of cash. I don't really think it's polite to flash money around in any situation. Plus, if I see the money and you only end up buying one dance with no tip. I'm stuck wondering what is wrong with me all night, I'm sure you wouldn't want to hurt a dancers feelings that way. Just keep your money a pleasant surprise for the dancer of your choice. When I go to strip clubs I keep stage money ($5's and $10's) in my pockets. Then my lap dance money ($20's, $50's, or $100's) safely in my wallet or purse.

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    I keep my $1's in my left shirt pocket, my $5's in my right shirt pocket unless I don't have a right shirt pocket, then I keep them in my right pants pocket. I keep my $10's and $20's in my left pants pocket. I keep my $100's in my left sock and larger bills in my right sock. Now if I'm wearing a shirt with no pockets, I keep my $1's and $5's in my right pants pocket and my $10's and $20's in my left pants pocket or is that my right rear pocket, I can never remember ???
    Then halfway through the night I switch them all around so no one will know exactly where I keep which denomination of bills. Including me
    So ladies, get me halfway through the night and your liable to get a $100 stage tip LMAO
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    I don't try and flash money around in the clubs.If I am with a dancer I know I will show what I have, but with other dancers they become too agressive about hustling and it becomes bothersome.

    I always keep my 100's in my money clip.That usually only comes out in the vip anyways.
    I keep 20's folded seperatley in one pocket for dances and juice. It makes it easy when you have to pay for dances plus tip and when I have to juice people.It also becomes handy to slip someone money very easilly and not have make it too noticable (....and yes, unfortnatley in clubs like Vegas ,everbody wants juice for everything)
    Then I keep small bills in the other for tips, including drinks, dances and stage tips.

    All this pretty much allows me to count money in my pocket.The hard part is keeping count of how much I spent when I'm drunk.....not to say I am one..........I think.

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    I think that it is more important to let the dancer that you are interested in know that you wish to buy a dance from her. That is done with body language and facial expressions. If you make eye contact, smile at her and make sure that your legs are not crossed chances are she will approach you. The most important thing to remember is that dancers are rejected all night long by lookie lou's who don't have enough money. Sometimes it can have a really negative affect on our self confidence for the night. If the dancer that you are interested in seems to be having one of those nights, simply do all of the above and wave her over. Remember we do not receive an hourly wage; we work on 100% commission. We need to make sales to make any money at all.
    When sitting at the stage definately take Jasons advice. That is definately the way to go.
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    Default Re: What is the preferred way to show money?

    PJ, they keep a record of the names of everyone who comes in.

    Money...

    If your at the stage it's nice if you have your tipping money out, in your hand or in front of you.

    If your at a table it's rather juvenile to have your money laying on the table.

    If you try to file your money away in more than two pockets and then can't locate the right bills because your drunk it's adorable and shows that you aren't used to handling much money.

    Most of my best customers will have ones and/or fives and tens in their pocket for tipping. They'll have their other money in a wallet or money clip and when they take it out to pay for the drink I'll catch a glimpse of the big bills.

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    God I hate guys who keep all their money stacked in front of them while I'm on stage. Sometimes they don't tip a song and I'll wonder if I'm supposed to take it all or take a dollar or just look at it. It pisses me off so bad!! Just put a couple ones in front of me and keep it up! I think that's the best way!
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    Default Re: What is the preferred way to show money?

    I keep the big bills in my wallet but have a stack of ones easily accessible in a coat pocket or have some in my hand. I'm always torn on whether to put some on the table or not. I have only smaller, neighborhood-type clubs around me, and often the dancers will chat amongst themselves or play video poker all night. I can't decide if having some money out sends the signal that I'm eager to tip when (if) they come by for a lap/table dance or if it's juvenile as Lena said?

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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Default Re: What is the preferred way to show money?

    Lestat,

    There are exceptions to all of my rules. :-)

    If the girls are playing video poker and ignoring you though I think you need to find a better club. Have you tried sending the waitress for the girl you want?

    Lena



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    Lestat,

    There are exceptions to all of my rules. :-)

    If the girls are playing video poker and ignoring you though I think you need to find a better club. Have you tried sending the waitress for the girl you want?

    Lena
    Lena, I was being kind when I described them as "small, neighborhood-type" clubs. "Dive" is the better term for most of the clubs around me. The waitress, if there is one, is often harder to track down than a dancer. They have their appeal though, and can be quite friendly at times. There is an upscale club in my area, but it's even worse (you need road flares and a copy of your 401k to get a dancer out of the dressing room), so I've only visited there twice. Also; to be fair, being shy (and probably having a frown on my face) doesn't exactly send them running to my table either, since I can be a difficult customer to try and start a conversation with, not that they try but once in fifty or so.

    I just find it strange that I have to work so hard to get them to my table so I can tip them. I'm not sure if all clubs work this way, but the ones here have each dancer go around the room after their stage set doing brief table dances (like $1-2 for 20 seconds or so), collecting tips for their stage performance, and asking for private dances. I certainly don't get a private dance form every girl, but I'm good for a few dollars to any girl that stops by, as many times as she wants to. Maybe I'll conduct an experiment on my next visit (1st hour money in pocket, 2nd hour a stack of ones on the table) to see which will receive more attention. Whew! Sure takes a lot of thought and hard work to relax.

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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Hmmm... so you go into a club, tip girls, buy dances, and they just *waste* a perfectly good customer? What's wrong with them? Where do you live? Maybe there's something in the water. You need to come to my club, I'll hustle you! Nicely, of course... :-)



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    Hmmm... so you go into a club, tip girls, buy dances, and they just *waste* a perfectly good customer? What's wrong with them? Where do you live? Maybe there's something in the water. You need to come to my club, I'll hustle you! Nicely, of course... :-)
    Aww shucks! :)
    Upstate NY, and I think they add Fluoride to the water. They say it's for our "teeth" but I know the truth! Y'know I could use some nice Hustlingtm and ATFtm treatment....hmmm, excuses to get me to Pittsburgh.....
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    omg, why is it so huge?!! lol lol

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    Eww, that's yucky. How much are they processing your water to put flouride in it? (omitting a mini-rant about water and government conspiracies LOL).

    Come to Pittsburgh, we've got good strippers and good water... and did I mention the Jaccuzzi? :-)

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    In response to this question , only one thing stuck out in my head. Please, please, PLEASE do NOT (if you are putting your money on the table) lay a 5 or higher on top so the girl dancing will work harder for you, and then give her a dollar!
    This is obnoxious and rude, and does nothing but aggravate a dancer.
    Where I work, it is actually appreciated when a customer puts his money on the table, because when I am on stage, I detest waiting for half of my song for some guy to get his money out of his pocket, flip through all of the bills, and finally get to the one he chooses to use to tip me. It wastes my time, and while I try to smile, I am usually gritting my teeth in annoyance. Of course, where I work, most of the money is made on stage (the reliable income, anyway).
    But I agree with keeping the big bills in your pocket. When a guy reaches into his pocket, I feel happy because I know I am getting a nice tip.
    There's my input!
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