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    It’s Saturday night; me, my wife and our friends all have the next day off. The plan is to talk our friends, a dating couple, in to heading up to the club for the evening. Turns out he’s playing poker with friends and doesn’t want to go out. Cool, she’s bored and we pick her up at the poker game. We’ve discussed going to the club before and the first thing she says is “I’ll go anywhere you want but I’m not going to the club,” she was adamant, darn, oh well. We head into this neighborhood bar and order drinks. The place is packed and there is some really atrocious karaoke going on. We slug down the drinks and head out to the car. During the discussion of what bar to hit next, she blurts out, “Ok I’ll go to the club but I’m only staying twenty minutes if I don’t like it.” Yes, this is starting to work out. Wildside Cabaret, here we come.!!

    Wildside is a smallish club out in the middle of nowhere, one stage, there’s a large VIP room adjoining the main room. $45 to get the three of us in if I recall correctly, it’s a membership/byob establishment. I’ve been here many times before but not in a year or so. I saw no one that I recognized from the past; I was a regular here a while back. We grab the last open table in the back. A couple of table changes later, the girl’s idea, and we’re sitting at the tip rail. Before this night is over we would pass over $180 in ones over to the other side of the tip rail. I’m supplying the girls with ones and they’re having a blast, we passed the 20-minute limit long ago. At some point I ask one of the dancers if I can get 3 girls for a triple lap dance for the three of us. She says, “sure pick out 2 other dancers and I’ll get back with you” she never did. Actually there were rarely any girls working the crowd, a lot of the time the only dancer in the room was the one on stage. On second thought I did see a few dancers sitting at the bar throughout the evening but it was clear over on the other side of the club kinda out of view. I only went over to the bar when I needed more ones. It appeared to me that when a girl wasn’t on stage she was giving a lap dance in the VIP room. Seems like they had more girls working in the past.

    Around midnight or 1:00am the poker player shows up, but not before missing his girlfriend get an on stage whipped cream and strawberry, lying on her back lap dance from two nude dancers. She’d commented earlier on how she really liked this one dancers outfit, a hot pink gown with a thong. To make that long story short I bought the outfit off the dancer with a lapdance for our friend for $120, I gave her a $20 tip. Our friend who didn’t even want to go a strip bar earlier in the evening has now shown her tits, been on stage flat on her back in a short skirt showing her panties to half the bar and was now in the ladies room putting on her new stripper outfit!!! She’d had a little too much to drink by that point, it was around 2:30am by then. One of the bouncers promptly told her to get out of her new stripper outfit and back in her regular clothes. Her boyfriend didn’t know what to think.

    We closed the club shortly thereafter at 3:00am. At closing a dancer from Jamaica, EbonyAllure, thanked me for tipping so generously at the stage, she gave me a card with a postal address for fan mail and she had a website address listed but it doesn’t come up. She seemed really nice and she was the only girl who approached us first all night and that was at closing. BTW she said she visits stripperweb.com

    All in all, we had a blast. I was a little surprised that more….err…. any girls didn’t try to sell us more dances the way we were throwing money around. Most of the time we had $5 in ones on the stage before each girl’s 1st song started. A lot of the younger guys who appeared to me like they didn’t have much money, looked at us like we were crazy, just floating the bills onto the stage. They were spending each dollar as if it were their last. Kinda felt like I’d have to get up really fast when a girl walked by and say, “excuse me Miss, are you doing lapdances tonight, I’d like to buy one please.” That’s pretty much what I did to buy the outfit and the dance for our friend. I came home with way more money than I’d planned on.

    What was wrong,…. was it us? Was it because I came with 2 girls? We were not misbehaving until the stripper outfit incident, quite the contrary actually. Was the club just too busy, understaffed??? Couldn’t tell you how many dancers were working or how many customers were there, anything would be a total guess.
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    A lot of dancers, including myself, would rather deal with customers that are by themselves. Not to mention you had not just one women with you but two. You youself mentioned one women didn't even want to be there untill she got liquored up. Even though you were tipping a lot on stage that does not proove to most dancers that you will be worth the time or the energy. One drunk customer is much easier to handle than three.

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    Please excuse my spelling on that last post. I'm a bit tired.

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    A lot of dancers, including myself, would rather deal with customers that are by themselves.
    Thanks for the reply Candice!! I wouldn't have thought of that but if I put myself in your shoes I'd be thinking the same way.
    You youself mentioned one women didn't even want to be there untill she got liquored up.
    Actually it was her decision that brought us to the club, my wife and I didn't even bring it up after leaving the neighborhood bar, she only had one drink before she said, "let's go" We were just out to have fun for the evening with a friend in a party kinda mode. This is a good friend and I/we respect her wishes.
    One drunk customer is much easier to handle than three.
    I'll not deny we all had a little too much to drink, with the exception of my wife, she switched to Dt. Coke but why would three drunk customers side by side on the same couch getting lapdances from three different dancers be any different. A bouncer is at the door of the VIP watching everything, we are a pretty meek trio not much of a threat from anyone of us. We just wanted to have maximum fun with no regard to the cost.

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    I would like to add that you said you were spending a lot of money at the stage? I would not be the stripper that comes over to the stage to take you guys back to VIP. The dancers who weren't chosen would be hell to deal with, and many clubs have a "no stage hustle" rule as well.

    In the future, if you would like to get girls to do dances for you slip the manager, bouncer, or waitress some cash to find you some dancers. Those staff members are usually not prohibited from approaching the stage to chat with customers. Or when you are ready for dances find a seat at a table away from the stage or at the bar, and girls will come out of the woodwork as you did spend a lot at the stage.

    I'm glad you had a fun night, and feel free to return again to more fun next time.


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    I'll tell you what, if there was a table with a woman drunk enough to try to put on a stripper's outfit that she'd just bought, I'd be steering pretty damn clear of them.

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    He he. Well, If y'all were tipping so much, I would've asked for a dance... But, I've never had the guts to offer a dance when there's a girl in the group. I dunno, something just makes me uneasy... I ALMOST did once... if you didn't see many girls on the floor maybe they were just understaffed that night. When that happens, it's pretty necessary to ask as soon as I get off the stage.
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    If the dancers were afraid to approach your party because of the drunkenness, that's understandable. I might even see their reason to avoid you because there were a couple of women in tow.

    But perhaps another reason you didn't have as good a time as you we're "banking" on was because you weren't aware of the rules of etiquette at that club in regards to setting up dances.

    Take the "no stage hustle" rule that Paris mentioned. I've been going to clubs long enough to know that rule is in effect in some clubs, and understand the reason behind it. Therefore, if I want dances I avoid sitting at the stage.

    But a lot of casual customers are not aware of this, and its not like they have a little placard on the stage explaining the matter. I've run into this sort of problem when going to new clubs (by myself and without a drop of booze mind you) simply because the tipping etiquette is different at those clubs than what I am used to back home.

    I've always wondered how many millions of dollars that could be spent in strip clubs aren't spent on account of such misunderstandings.
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    Interesting replys!!! We will try to do a repeat perfomance, as I said we all had a blast. My question is, should I post the sordid details of "Confessions of a Customer, Part Two" Does anyone care to hear the next chapter? Not sure when this might happen.

    Regarding the drunkeness, we weren't any more....or less drunk than any of the other customers who closed the bar that night. As I said, my wife switched to diet coke a few hours before closing. In defence of our friend who now has a new pink stripper outfit; she is coming out of a divorce after getting married at a very young age so I think she's sewing those "wild oats" that she never got a chance to sew.

    As I read the posts I'm thinking it was probably a combination of the factors mentioned, crouded club, a little understaffed, probably easier pickings for the girls elsewhere and the no stage hustle rule.

    Hey Bella, go for it!!! The worst that can happen is they tell you no.

    I was kinda worried about the replies I might get from this post being new here on stripperweb and not knowing you regulars but everyones been great!!! Really like this board As an aside, one of the benifits we always find of going to a strip bar are the are the "after effects," if you know what I mean. Now don't get the wrong idea, :o we went home together (me & my wife to our place),(them to their place).....but shall I say it sure got our blood flowing for the next 24hrs or so. I wonder how many wives who frown on hubby hitting the local club, get the best sex they've had in a while when he gets home, "WOW that was great, what got into you!!!" He wants to say....but can't.
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    Another thing about women in the clubs, lots of times women who are there to party with friends act cattily. They say stuff like, "Well she's not THAt hot". Then they want to compare themselves to the dancers, "I've got bigger boobs than her!"
    I don't like to feel like I'm in a competition.

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    Like someone else mentioned, there is often an intricate code of etiquette at strip clubs. The most voiced code in my club would be "One pair of tits to a table". Meaning that if there is already one pair of tits (a woman; fat men don't count) at that table then you stay away. A dancer is trying to work that table already; a girlfriend/wife might get jealous and then you'll make no money from either patron. As Mariah pointed out, some female patrons feel like they are the dancer's competition.

    Unless verbally invited, I myself would not have approached your party, regardless of how much money you were dropping. "Stage sitters" with women in the party are usually there just to whoop it up by tipping the stage.

    Next time I recommend seating yourselves at a table rather than the stage, and then your lady friends and yourself can select a dancer who tickles your fancy. Invite her over and take it from there. Maintaining a table for yourselves as well as tipping heavily on stage is the proper way to announce that you are "big spenders" looking to drop wads of cash.
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    Alot of dancers are shy about approaching tables with female customers. Alot of us are also very leary of drunken customers, especially drunken females - they can be particularly catty and nasty. Like Collette, I would steer way clear of a table with a drunken female trying on a stripper outfit that was just bought from a dancer. And as Paris mentioned, there is often a no-stage-hustle rule. It is a good suggestion to tip and ask your waitress or a manager / floor person to bring some girls or whatever girl(s) you like. They will happily oblige. Or just find a table away from stage, if any are available.

    However, I'm surprised the one girl you asked didn't come back though - I would have promptly asked what girls you liked or what was your type and brought 2 girls right over. I remember your previous thread about the possibility of visiting us down here in Puerto Rico - I would be more than happy to bring a couple or three of my work friends over to entertain you and yours at my club

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    Interesting hearing all that. My husband tells me that he loves when I'm there; the "wanna dance" factor is cut down to nearly nothing. It gives us the opportunity to pick our dancers. BTW - Judging by the pictures Bella you would certainly get the call. Too bad you're not in Vegas.

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    tell you what come to new york you'll have a blast !!!!....i personally have no problem approaching a customer when they are with female cause my so tends to use that when i'm with him the wont come over and bother me strategy ..... so therefore i have noo problem in appraoching you and i've come to find out that some females tip better than men... so hey!! [angel]
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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish
    Therefore, if I want dances I avoid sitting at the stage.

    I've always wondered how many millions of dollars that could be spent in strip clubs aren't spent on account of such misunderstandings.
    I think that any dancer who would deny her coworkers the chance to make hundreds of dollars so that she can get a measly couple of bucks on stage is a rude selfish bitch. If we were still living in the early 1980's and dancers only did stage, then I would understand the reason for a no stage hustle rule.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Candice
    One drunk customer is much easier to handle than three.
    LMFAO,I totally agree.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AmberLee
    Interesting hearing all that. My husband tells me that he loves when I'm there; the "wanna dance" factor is cut down to nearly nothing. It gives us the opportunity to pick our dancers. BTW - Judging by the pictures Bella you would certainly get the call. Too bad you're not in Vegas.
    Agreed. When I am with my wife at our favorite SC (almost always), the "wanna dance" girls almost always steer clear. This allows us to pick our favorite dancer, and make a special effort to get her to come over. Works great, as long as they are not too hesitant to approach couples--which does happen as well.
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    I just came across this post and had to say I LOVE dancing for women. Though I'm fully hetero, they normally smell better, are softer, and I don't mind them touching because they're normally have this reverent attitude towards dancers. But then, there's been some not so bueno women in the clubs too, but they luckily never want a dance

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    my guess would be because you had two women with you..........if your with a women or two it's up to you to ask a girl for a dance and some may or may not choose to dance for women...most of the times dancers won't ask if theres women at the table

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    My club gets alot of couples at it and I agree that I'm more hesitant to approach women because I've found that sometimes the women don't want to be there/are only their because they don't want their men their alone/ get jealous sometime during the convo or dance/ and alot of times it's the couples that really hastle me to leave with them. I love to dance for women, but they can be really cruel...

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