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    Please forgive me, if this doesn't belong here, but I would like to hear from the dancers point of view.

    I have been going to a club for the past 5 months, about twice a month. In that time I have become a regular to a dancer and in the last few months. Everytime I come to see her she spends the entire time with me (typically 3 to 5 hours) talking and dancing. Now I'm not complaining as she is the only reason I go to this club, but she does spend a lot of time with me when I know she could (and would) be making money dancing for others. I realize that this is her job and I kind of feel guilty that she is not making as much money as she could.

    Does a dancer feel that she has to spend all the time with their regulars so as not to offend him?

    I wouldn't mind if she danced for others, when I'm not getting dances and just came back to me when it's slow, which will happen during the course of the night. Keep in mind that when I do go I will spend $450-$600 (she will get $350-$500) on her and I do not want dances from anybody else.

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    Default Re: Wanted...Dancers point of view

    Just tell her. I know I like it when my regular is frank and honest with me by telling me he is not ready to purchase a private dance off me just yet and so I should go work.

    This allows me to know when my regular wants a private dance off me and it also lets me know that my regular isn't demanding alot from me... that he does understand I need to make $$$.

    That's what I reckon anyhow.


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    Default Re: Wanted...Dancers point of view

    You can tell her that you don't mind if she goes to work elsewhere and comes back to you, and that you want her to come back. But depending on the area and club, that 350-500 she gets from you may be enough to make her night. Most dancers in most places would be really happy with that, so I'm sure she doesn't mind spending her whole night with you.

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    Default Re: Wanted...Dancers point of view

    i totally agree with bridgette
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    I totally agree with Bridgette. I had a customer tonight that spent 2 hours with me in the VIP Lounge ($480) plus another $40 on the floor. When the dances were over he told me that he didn't want to stop me from making money so I didn't have to keep him company. I explained to him that I wasn't impressed by the attitudes of the customers presently in the club and would hang out with him for the next half hour or so that he was in the club. I had made $150 before he came so for a Tuesday night @2am when I still have 2 hours to go $670 wasn't bad at all

    I also think that he appreciated me not leaving him soon after dancing for him. I really appreciated him letting me know that he wanted me to continue making money and he understands the whole deal.

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    Default Re: Wanted...Dancers point of view

    If you feel awkward keeping her at your table when you're not having her dance, just say, "I'm just going to relax for a while, why don't you go make some more money/see if those guys want some dances and come back in twenty minutes?" That way if there's money to be made she'll have a shot at it. But to be honest, if she's enjoying hanging out with you and you're paying her well, why would she want or need to work the floor? Just let her know that you want her to do as well as she can and that you don't mind if she goes to dance for others in the club.

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    Being a new dancer, I know I have difficulty leaving a guy if he has just spent a lot of money on me. I appreciate it, and I guess I find it somewhat rude if I just dance and run off. But dancing is still a job, and eventually I have to leave. But I will agree, I love it when I am sitting with someone and they tell me to go make money or that they are not planning on buying dances really soon. It just makes everything less awkward for both parties.
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    Default Re: Wanted...Dancers point of view

    Have you told her you don't mind if she dances for others?
    also maybe she wants to spend the time with you.
    I have one guy that comes in,and when he is in I am with him.end of story.
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    Default Re: Wanted...Dancers point of view

    I have a customer who spends a lot of money on me. I enjoy talking to him, he's an interesting guy and i know he's not trying to get in my pants... well he could want to but he's not manipulative. During the dances, he plays with my hair and just has me sit on his lap. She may just enjoy your company or want to keep other dancers away. If a guy spent $600 on me, I'd keep him as happy as possible.
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