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    Chicago Guy, Tina is absolutely right. Your wanting to date a dancer is fine and great but we don't represent a single school of thought or personality. For some of us, being a dancer is ALL we have in common. Knowing that, some of us saw it as shallow.

    I believe that the best places to find a woman that you would like are places that reflect YOUR personal interests. Like at a game if you are a sportsfan or a bookstore if you reader. None of us go to work with the intent of finding a partner...some of us do anything to avoid even the thought of it. And while it works out like you want it sometimes, the odds aren't in your favor.

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    Chicago Guy, Tina is absolutely right. Your wanting to date a dancer is fine and great but we don't represent a single school of thought or personality.
    I stay away from the ones with multiple personalities.... there are a lot of those. [eek]

    P.S. that's only a half-joke!!!!

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    PJ,

    The Romeo impression for Juliette, complete with poetry is truly touching... especially over a mere Internet fart.

    -Sad-
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    The Night: Nights In White Satin - Moody Blues

    "Nights in white satin,
    Never reaching the end,
    Letters I've written,
    Never meaning to send.

    Beauty I'd always missed
    With these eyes before,
    Just what the truth is
    I can't say anymore.

    'Cause I love you,
    Yes, I love you,
    Oh, how, I love you...". etc etc.




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    Quiet John!

    All the girls were really impressed till you blew your cover.

    Now they will know that you are "just a singer in a rock and roll band".


    Now I will have to really write something for Julette.

    There once was a babe who's a stripper,
    And her saucey good looks made me grip her.
    Juliette called me crass and then kicked my dumb ass
    And now I think next time I will just tip her.


    Oh the beauty of the poetic word...
    Anyone with a memory should be very humble.

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    I can't believe I missed that ???, being an "old war story" myself.

    Boy, we sure can kill a thread....

    Is it ever real? Maybe to my dying day I won't know, having been taken to the brink of reality. I can only hope that some of it was and she just changed her mind. No Billy Joel here.

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    The woman that are dancing in these places have more focus and determination on one thing and one thing only...the dough ray me!

    So, is it ever real? It's as real as your $$$ sliding into her hot little hands.

    phx

    I wish it was at least real 1% of the time!

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    I went to a particular (upscale) strip club a few times with a friend of mine and he would always leave with strippers' numbers. He would also disappear to VIP for 30 or 45 minutes and return having spent $40 (2 dances). It was always baffling to me, but he claims to have stripper appeal. He is a good looking guy, but is not particularly wealthy. He goes to strip clubs like most guys go to bars- to meet women.

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    I don't think a club is a good place to meet a girlfriend.

    I have made friends with customers.we email all the time.if I wasn't with someone, I have met men I could of been intrested in.
    Most women just don't want to meet someone at work.

    I don't think it is right to say that dancers are only in it for the money.I could be doing any kind job.I choose this work.I wouldn't dance for someone I didn't like.just for the money.
    I am not the only one that always wears make up,hight heels and dresses the same out of work.
    Am I?

    You say psycho like it's a bad thing

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    The attraction may be real, after all, we are animalistic and hormonal creatures. The affection, however, must not revolve around the club, dancing or money in any way to be real. This is rare but has happened to me once in 11 years as opposed to hundreds of times being attracted to customers in that time frame.

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    As a dancer, I've met these guys that just have something about them that dancers find appealing. It's only certain guys that have game. I don't know how to explain it.

    It's something about self-confidence but not being stuck on yourself. Looks are good, but it's not necessary to be a 10. Well-dressed, flirtatious, someone that can talk to the girl and make her laugh, the eye contact, the smiles...all important. There is this one guy friend of mine who comes in my club sometimes and a couple of girls have come up to me asking me about him....and then end up going home with him that night. It's just sex though....I'm sure that is not what you guys want, so this advice is worthless.

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    do a search there was a topic somewhere buried in here where some of the dancers have met their a former/ current SO inside the club, and that is where they first met. Also it wasnt just related to hookups, long term relations ships as well. SO... yes it is real sometimes albeit very small. Now the question is do you have what it takes and can u hold up to challenge.
    whats a PL to do?

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