I was wondering why all the customer who insist on just tipping minimal always I repeat, always ask for extras? But the customers who with money out the ass most often than not ask for permission?
any feedback.
I was wondering why all the customer who insist on just tipping minimal always I repeat, always ask for extras? But the customers who with money out the ass most often than not ask for permission?
any feedback.



because most assholes are cheap to. but more honestly I think that some of these guys have issues with women in general and thing (mistakenly) that you all are easy targets.
It's that whole something for nothing theory. People are always looking for something for cheap or free in all aspects of life. I have found that a cheap customer who is always asking for extras, will usually get the idea eventually and cough up the dough, or stop asking and remain cheap, or stop comming in all together.
PUSSYCAT- It really comes down to RESPECT! Some
customers don't respect women in general and
dancers in particular. I personally NEVER do anything
with a dancer unless it is obviously "her idea"; OR
we've discussed things and have a clear mutual
understanding OR I've ASKED and she said YES!
In the skin biz, any customer with a little bit of
brains and a little bit of class is not going to expect
something for nothing. If and when it happens it is
your sad duty to educate them & "explain things"
Peace sister. Oh, BTW- Where do you work?
Scary thing is more and more there are girls willing to give "extras" for pennies and then of course these types of customers expect it from everyone. It got very frustrating for me before I quit dancing 2 months ago. It seemed like 8 out of 10 guys were wanting all kinds of things.
LYNN- To me - Mileage incl. extras is always up to the dancer. She has to charge what it's worth to HER and
to hell with what the other dancers may or may not be
doing. The best way to resist the "cheapening" of a
particular scene or club is to maintain YOUR rules;
YOUR boundaries and YOUR prices. Experienced
horndogs like myself KNOW that cheaper is almost
never better.
yeah, you don't have to do anything you don't want to do. That's one of the best perks of this job! If some guy is asking for something at a price that I think is unreasonable, I simply say "no". Or if just the offer itself is offensive, you are perfectly entitled to walk away and never speak to his dirty ass again.
It sucks that customers expect certain things that they are not allowed to have. I'm not just talkiing extras. But if a guy goes into a club where touching is allowed and comes into your club where it's not allowed, he may feel disappointed.
Anyway, there are plenty of guys that don't get off on disrespecting you so that you don't have to put up with the assholes.



Well Dancer,
It's either one or two things depending upon the variables of the club, and location.
It's usually because the guys who don't tip, and ask for extras aren't looking for a lap dance they are looking for [fill in the blank]. They are also on a limited budget, and are saving thier money to get [fill in the blank] from a nasty girl. That is thier way of making sure they have enough money on them to get what they want.
This is the logic they are going by:
"I'm not going to spend $300 on a nice girl in the Champange room and get no service, when I can spend it on a nasty girl and get full service"
Your best bet to make money off those types of customers is to find a nasty girl in the club and work out a deal, where if you refer her these types of customers, she pays you a fee.
It's can also be that these types of customers feel powerless and misrable in thier own lives outside the club, and this is thier way of getting back at people, they get a "Cheap Thrill" from the power trip of being able to abuse and degrade somebody who has to be nice to them. These types of customers aren't limited to the club they also love to make your life miserable when waiting tables too. I know I've dealt with these A-Holes before when I was a server. So don't take it personal when you encounter them, just think about how pathetic thier lives must be that the only way they can get any pleasure is to abuse somebody.
It's kind of sad really...
Thank You all for your opinoins and now that I think of it it all really depends on the dancer because I work at a club in long island new york and a lot of my co workers are giving head for 80 and fucking for who knows what where as a regular lap is 60. so to charge only 20 more than just the dance price is ridiculous. i mean i don't knock that hustle or that player but damn can yu make some money in the process. It's crazy becausse then for a reglar lap no one wants to pay that 60 when they can get 80 for "extra mileage"
I work in a peep show atmosphere where the dances are private and pretty much anything can go on.
Caveat: I work in a Northern Nevada club where the extras girls tend to take it outside the club and my overall work environment is pretty clean... Furthermore... this type of customer in my area is just basically too cheap to go to a brothel.
I smile, shake my head and tell them that I not only don't need their money, but they aren't even worth the time to trouble myself with their bad manners or lack of class... turn my back and go. Calmly. It kind of blows them away that in all actuality, I *don't* have to be nice to them! In fact, I don't have to pay any attention to them at all! I've had a couple of these jerks come back week after week to offer me money or gifts to apologize!!! I think my true calling might be a dominatrix. [evil] I guess these guys are in the category of wanting a challenge...."Cheap Thrill" from the power trip of being able to abuse and degrade somebody who has to be nice to them... just think about how pathetic thier lives must be that the only way they can get any pleasure is to abuse somebody.
I am sweet as pie otherwise or when people respectfully ask me if certain things are available (I mean, I am 20 minutes from where the brothels are so a tourist has a right to be confused). I just don't like that cheap attitude! At least do me the honor of offering a sum that isn't insulting.
Currently dancing at the Men's Club of Reno, NV
under the name of Veronica! I am a 2007 calendar girl for MCR, so message me if you want a calendar!
An enormous pet peeve with me is when a customer pays NOTHINg and then starts trying to paw away. They promise you money later. It happened more when I was younger, and they made me really uncomfortable. I think I am bitter about that. So if they even start touching anything but platonic areas without money...a tap on the ass means they will not talk to me at all.
Any more that that will get a man a heel in his crotch with my manager backing me up.
These days i get so fed up that I tell them "Put it away or I will cut it off" like I mean it. Maybe it will keep them from pulling that shit with someone else.
Awful Jackasses.
Juliette de Sade
The Texas Pin-up Stripteuse!
I've had customers just reach over and start grabbing my boobs before the song even started!!!! After I flung his hand off me he was like "baby, what's wrong". I told him not to touch me and the creep ended up buying only one dance (I shouldn't complain, I probably wouldn't have danced more if he asked). I really really really hate it when guys call me "baby" or refer to my breasts as "tits". As in, "baby let me see those tits". It's such an ugly word for something so beautiful. [cuss] [grr] [flaming]
If you think school is hard, try being stupid.
madgrad you had me laughing way, way, way out loud!!! i just adored the suggestion to "make a deal with said nasty girl...." that was really good...i'm afraid however if that were to happen she'd probably stick you in the gut!!!! LOL!!!





It's kinda like the morons who want to grab my boobs and butt, lick or kiss me on stage while tipping $1. What the hell is that?!?!?! Not only are they not allowed to grab me like that or slobber on me, but they're DAMN SURE not allowed to do it for a pissy little $1! I will shove the nasty paws and chops away along with the stupid $1 every time. I don't need the money that damn badly.
As for the rest, asking for this or that, I just walk away. Not worth the time or the breath.





[laughup]Long live Deja Vu! What if a guy gave you a $100.00 bill instead?Not only are they not allowed to grab me like that or slobber on me, but they're DAMN SURE not allowed to do it for a pissy little $1!![]()





Yeah Carlos, you can stop hiding under your new name. Your recent shift in attitude demonstrates a major chip on the shoulder. Next time remember to blame yourself when you overspend your budget at the local nudie dive.[laughup]Long live Deja Vu! What if a guy gave you a $100.00 bill instead?![]()
Furthermore, the rules I mentioned in my post are the CLUB's rules, not just mine, so no matter if a guy sticks a $100 or a $1 in my garter, he's not allowed to grab or lick me on stage! Please grow up now.





1. I've not hidden under my new name as much as you've always hid under yours; 2. I've never blamed others for my overspending; 3. I'm glad you clarified yourself as to your $1.00 remark. Greetings.
Yeah Carlos, you can stop hiding under your new name. Your recent shift in attitude demonstrates a major chip on the shoulder. Next time remember to blame yourself when you overspend your budget at the local nudie dive.
Furthermore, the rules I mentioned in my post are the CLUB's rules, not just mine, so no matter if a guy sticks a $100 or a $1 in my garter, he's not allowed to grab or lick me on stage! Please grow up now.
omg... that type of thing happened to me last night...It's kinda like the morons who want to grab my boobs and butt, lick or kiss me on stage while tipping $1. What the hell is that?!?!?! Not only are they not allowed to grab me like that or slobber on me, but they're DAMN SURE not allowed to do it for a pissy little $1! I will shove the nasty paws and chops away along with the stupid $1 every time. I don't need the money that damn badly.
As for the rest, asking for this or that, I just walk away. Not worth the time or the breath.
this totally bombed guy was like tipping me a dollar and kept trying to pull off my top... grab my ass... and "smell my pussy"... so gross... he totally ruined my set too...
he screamed the whole time "You have a pussy"
and i was so freaked out since it was my first night... and i was so embarrassed... so i walked over toward him and leaned over and yelled... "Yeah and so do you"... lol... he got so pissed and i didn't get any more $'s or groping...
xoxo,
heidi
....i did not design this game...i did not name the stakes...i just happen to like apples...and i am not afraid of snakes... -Ani Difranco





I hide under what name? Excuse me, but I've been known as Bridgette on the internet for YEARS. For obvious reasons, most of us don't use our real names on the internet - that is not hiding, that is using common sense. The reference I made about your 'name' was regarding your previous use of two seperate handles/accounts for posting here (hiding under a different name to make rude and/or unkind remarks), and now apparent total switching to this newer handle (which btw is so uncreatively glorifying a dive most people wouldn't be so proud to advertise for). Use of different handles on the same site and/or switching handles generally constitues hiding, especially when different handles are used to make unkind remarks. I have always posted under the same handle, no matter what I have to say. There are people here who've known me on the internet for years, always with the same name. I don't hide.1. I've not hidden under my new name as much as you've always hid under yours; 2. I've never blamed others for my overspending; 3. I'm glad you clarified yourself as to your $1.00 remark. Greetings.
Your recent attitude demonstrates a fair amount of bitterness that you seem to enjoy directing at me, which from what I know of you, seems to mean you may have some resentment toward the club I work in and the girls who work there (including me) because you couldn't control yourself there and overspent. Please, from now on, don't use comments I make regarding something that has nothing to do with you to vent your misplaced frustration.
I was emphasizing the $1 cheap molestors, because every single time in more than 8 years of dancing that a guy has tried to molest me on stage, he was only offering $1. Those who tip better don't behave so stupidly, without exception.
Heidi-- telling that guy he had a pu$$y too was hysterical! that is sooooo great, amen to the great come-backs!!!i bet his buddy's(if he had any) laughed about that!--pretty damn cool
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It's been my experience that the guy who will hand you a $100.00 bill for a tip isn't going to try to manhandle you with his paws and tongue.[laughup]Long live Deja Vu! What if a guy gave you a $100.00 bill instead?![]()





This I find hard to swallow but since you've been there I'll have to believe it.It's been my experience that the guy who will hand you a $100.00 bill for a tip isn't going to try to manhandle you with his paws and tongue.
It is true in my experience too.It's been my experience that the guy who will hand you a $100.00 bill for a tip isn't going to try to manhandle you with his paws and tongue.
Currently dancing at the Men's Club of Reno, NV
under the name of Veronica! I am a 2007 calendar girl for MCR, so message me if you want a calendar!
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