Wow... this is an old thread. LOL.
My answer to the query in the topic? Just like any other woman in any other job field.
Dur.





Wow... this is an old thread. LOL.
My answer to the query in the topic? Just like any other woman in any other job field.
Dur.
Number of times Rickrolled on stage: 6
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Marasmus ... "Ladies don't fart. They butt-laugh."
Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."
Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."
This is unfortunateOriginally Posted by Pamela
There are a lot of good guys who patronize the clubs who don't automatically "stereotype" dancers as being "drug addicted whores", and appreciate them more than just "sex objects". Sorting through all of these "custies" who have these genuine appreciations for the "dancer" is just as challenging as it is for a "custy'' sorting through all of the dancers (if this is ones agenda), if finding a "dancer" that sincerely appreciates and cares about him far more than just being an ATM. Lots of my platonic dancer "friends" have met a temporary SO OUTSIDE of the JOB, but the overwhelming majority of these "relationships?" took a downward spiral once the guys find out she was/is a "stripper"... Guess sometimes that the "regulars" have more appreciation, understanding, and respect for dancers than do guys who don't patronize the clubs?? and for that reason maybe it isn't a bad idea to date a "regular" or semi-regular so to speak, but that is a whole new topic.
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How do dancers find the right man........... you're asking the wrong person as I have not found the right man yet!I havn't been in a 'bf/gf' relationship in years. Now finding a lover is easy just finding a BOYFRIEND is harder.
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Yep. I broke her tho.Originally Posted by Mastridonicus
The ER doctor said she has tetra.. er.. turto.. um, a sore neck, due to "vigorous and prolonged oral sex in an unusual position." He had to know all the details too...
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On the internet.Through my blog, that's where I found mine.
Damn...that's kinda hot, in an unanticipated way.Yep. I broke her tho. The ER doctor said she has tetra.. er.. turto.. um, a sore neck, due to "vigorous and prolonged oral sex in an unusual position." He had to know all the details too...
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Lena....Moma always said kisses make it all better, never heard of it working the other way round though.
Hope she is well soon!!!
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It really sucks. She was wearing a neck brace and could barely turn her head. :-( Today I had a chiropractor friend work on her, and another person do energy work on her. She's a lot better (neck brace is off and she's functioning normally) but she still doesn't have a full range of motion.
I'm almost scared to ever have oral sex again. :-(

I'm sure you'll muster up the courage to give it another tryOriginally Posted by Lena
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I dated several dancers when I was younger. I was a touring musician and used to go to strip clubs after gigs. A lot of times the strip clubs were near the night clubs and the dancers would come and watch the bands between dances. Musicians and dancers have a lot in common.
One thing that I found out was that girls that were dancers were the same as girls that had other professions. They were different away from work, and they couldn't be stereotyped. They have their own unique personalities. They are individuals.
There is one thing that I did find about dating dancers that made it a little different from dating other girls, and that was that dancers were generally uninhibited about their bodies and usually more active in bed. I think the self confidence that allowed them to be nude in front of a lot of people gave them fewer hang ups with their partner. Seldf confidence is sexy!
Originally Posted by Lena
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Seriously tho, hope she's feeling better! Try not moving so much. CO posted a link in another thread about what apparatus you could purchase to limit such movement.
Mast!
People are not ruled by their memories.
Perhaps not what you want to hear but even if the guy was serious, his friends would react that way more for the wrong reasons... the assumptions would be:Originally Posted by Emily
1. she is a great looker with a great body.
2. that she has no inhibitions and
3. that you are not in a serious relationship.
As with all assumptions, none of the above may be true.
Well I actually was already dating my bf for a while before I started dancing. I have been dancing for about a year now. I guess I'm lucky enough to have a bf who understands that it's just my job and I do it purely for the money. I have explained to him that when I dance for those guys in the club, it's just for the fantasy of it, not reality. He supports me in all I do and I guess that's why I love him so much!




I'm not a dancer and never have danced (but I am thinking of it to save up money for my future) but with that said, I haven't been able to find a good man and I'm not a dancer. I just think, IMO, it's hard to find good men period whether you're a dancer or not. Most of the good ones are taken, at least that's what my experience has been. I think as a woman, the best thing you can do is be the best person you can possibly be, have good morals, treat people with dignity and respect, be honest with them, don't disceive them and when it's meant to be to find the right guy, it'll happen. But I sure wish it would happen now cuz I'm tired of waiting!![]()
Why should any woman need a good man? Sure it is nice to be in a relationship, but sometimes I wonder if the headache is worth it.
Now, don't get me wrong, I love my husband, and would willingly lay down my life for him. But, if something should happen to us a couple, I highly doubt that I would seek another relationship.
This is 2006, and women are happy to find booty calls or one night stands. No one cares about a woman being a virgin anymore. I make enough money to live quite comfortably. More and more women are making the majority of the financial decisions in the US and other western countries.
Dancers also have quite a lot of choice in potential mates. We are constantly hit on in and out of the club. I think it might actually be easier for a dancer to find a good fit in a relationship, than compared to a less attractive female. All kinds of guys hit on us, young and old, rich and poor, ugly or handsome.
There is the self confidence that dancers exude as well, that attracts more potential mates.
Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!
I suspect that anyone who wants to "date a stripper", no matter who enlightened their reason may sound, is going to be disappointed more often than not. The same for someone who set out with the sole intention of dating "a blonde" or "a race-car driver" or "someone who likes olives". You're looking at the category first, and not the person, which seems like the exact wrong way to start a relationship. If you're trying to make reality fit a fantasy, you're going to miss a lot of good stuff.
Speaking in general, as you have in the above quote, I can say "Believe me, men know this."Originally Posted by Paris
And they do the same.
Both my grandparents and those of that generation I have seen are dedicated to each other in ways that I can only imagine these days. Even my baby boomer parents who have definitely had relationship trouble still slop their way through to compromise and build the relationship.
But people of X and Y generation, we are the perfectionists. The always looking for the next better thing crowd.
I could go on, but you have explained it just as well.
I agree with you.





These things would not bother me as long as we were both honest about everything. Mama making all the money is cool with me, the other things are all part of the package. If you know what she does you have to accept it, if you don't it's just going to cause problems.
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy."
*clapclapclapclapclapclapclapclap*Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo
*standing ovation*
Reality is dating a woman who works as a dancer.
Fantasy is dating a stripper.
It's not the words typed down. It's what the words MEAN and say about the author.
People are not ruled by their memories.
the best guys for me are the ones that find themselves thinking, "I never thought I'd date a stripper."
Of course, I'm so lame that I'm almost an embarrassment to strippers. No hot tub cocaine orgies here.![]()
If a potential date does not like olives.... hasta la vista. It's a reliable litmus test for showing heathy and open desire. No joke.Originally Posted by xoxoGracexoxo
And Mast.... keeeeyyyyrist. Could you tone down the Anthony Robbins school for politically correctly dating strippers routine? My long forgotten bulemic urges are re-emerging. Forgive me... I'm not bulemic, I'm just a normal, average person that happens to compulsively puke after every meal as a means of weight control.
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Well, if it makes you feel like LESS of an embarassment, it is currently only 30 days until you get your boobies...Originally Posted by Emily
LOLOriginally Posted by contheboyalready
Is it cold up there, on that pedestal?![]()
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People are not ruled by their memories.
If it makes you feel any better I just looked at the "pussy" pics site and giggled.Originally Posted by Emily
I found my good man at the carnival!
Please don't lick me, it tickles..
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