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    would a dancer find it insulting if a customer requested a pose or two to incorporate into a dance?


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    What exactly do you mean?

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    If you mean what I think you mean, some might... I have been asked to turn around a certain way. As long as it's not gross or obscene, she's there to make you happy and to enjoy your experiance.
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    not anything obscene, I noticed that one girl knew salsa based on her footwork while stage dancing. but she did not do anykind of spins or salsa steps during the private dance (which would have been a bonus).

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    I don't mind special request either. If I can grant his wish in the best way i know how, the customer wight be even more happy to get a dance from me. It is smart to customize if they can keep their hands to themselves
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    my favorate specal requests in the vip room is if the club/dancer allows touching is just to have her sit on my lap and then we hold each other. this is so relaxing after a stressfull week. and I have noticed a lot of dancers like this sort of non threating/sexual contact. several of them have spent a lot of time with me at my table afterwards espsecally if I give her a massage, (feet are the favorate since they hurt so much at the end of a shift)

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    Damn, will you come visit me at my club?! That is the dream customer right there: a guy who pays you just to sit and relax with him and gives you a massage! Hey, come see me, will ya?!

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    Damn, will you come visit me at my club?! That is the dream customer right there: a guy who pays you just to sit and relax with him and gives you a massage! Hey, come see me, will ya?!
    I'd love to, If you weren't 1500 miles away....

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    Quote Originally Posted by k-i-t-t-y link=board=8;threadid=3972;start=msg46762#msg46762 date=1065158264
    Damn, will you come visit me at my club?! That is the dream customer right there: a guy who pays you just to sit and relax with him and gives you a massage! Hey, come see me, will ya?!
    I most heartedly agree with that!!! Need more guys that wanna treat us like people and not just pieces of meat.
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    Special requests are fine by me as long as they are not of the rub-my-pee-pee nature.

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    I dont mind when people ask me nicely.
    I do hate when I am dancing and someone says, "Turn around!!!" I feel like kickin them in the groin. lol
    If they say, "Can you turn around" then I dont mind. As long as they dont demand it.

    Hey visit me, damnit!!!! LOL
    I love customers who want to sit, relax and just massage or talk. Its when I can truly be me. LOL

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    I used to have a customer whose special request was that I step on his junk. He even grabbed my 8in heel and pushed it harder into his nuts! Hey, that was the ultimate in stress relieving dances for me! JK LOL!
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    The special requests can be iffy - Depending on the context of it and the way it's asked all depend on the reaction you're going to get. And if I'm already in a bad mood... Generally special requests on stage annoy me; let me do MY thing! But for a LD (provided it's not nasty) certain requests are ok, since I do a lot of different flips and such.
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    Hey Lexi: TURN AROUND!

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    Nah, probably not, though I agree with the general opinion of ask politely and nothing obscene.
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    I seldom make special requests. Why go to a club to relive the same old phantasy? Let the lovely who is dancing for you express herself. Explore from the dancer's perspective - not your own.

    As for k-i-t-t-y's comment earlier on, I have from time to time paid for dances that have just ended up being conversation. No dancing. No nudity. Just talk. Do you think guys are only interested in your looks?
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    I once had a guy pay me extra to go to the dressing room and put my jeans on to dance for him. Hell yeah! He just wanted to see me take my jeans off.

    I usually always wear knee-high boots and a few guys have asked me to take them off and I always do...a lot of guys are into feet and the boots really do cover up half my legs so I always oblige that.
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    As with "real world" sex, communication is the key to satisfaction. Why should a dancer have to "guess" what I like and don't like. If I communicate with her in a nice way....e.g. "I love it when you blow in my ear" or "I like it when you face towards me" I will be happy, and if I'm happy the dancer is earning $$ and she's happy.



    BTW, I also love to sit and talk and cuddle in the VIP. When a former ATF had a cold, I paid for two hours of VIP for her to get off the floor, covered her shoulders with my suit jacket, and had her lie back and relax for the entire time. Boy, the smiles I got the next time I came in. Too bad she graduated from school and got a job as a designer.

    Foot massage anyone?....I also do sore shoulders.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi link=board=8;threadid=3972;start=msg71195#msg71195 date=1076217789
    I dont mind when people ask me nicely.
    I do hate when I am dancing and someone says, "Turn around!!!" I feel like kickin them in the groin. lol



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    Quote Originally Posted by Cookie Monster link=board=8;threadid=3972;start=msg77302#msg77302 date=1077656775
    As with "real world" sex, communication is the key to satisfaction. Why should a dancer have to "guess" what I like and don&#039;t like. If I communicate with her in a nice way....e.g. "I love it when you blow in my ear" or "I like it when you face towards me" I will be happy, and if I&#039;m happy the dancer is earning $$ and she&#039;s happy.



    BTW, I also love to sit and talk and cuddle in the VIP. When a former ATF had a cold, I paid for two hours of VIP for her to get off the floor, covered her shoulders with my suit jacket, and had her lie back and relax for the entire time. Boy, the smiles I got the next time I came in. Too bad she graduated from school and got a job as a designer.

    Foot massage anyone?....I also do sore shoulders.

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    I agree with Big Red, too many dancers try too hard and it&#039;s uncomfortable. I love it when they just sit on my lap and cuddle. I once had a girl fall asleep on my lap in the VIP and I just sat and held her (maybe that&#039;s why I like small girls - lol), I loved it. It was more intimate than anything else a girl has ever done with me in a club.
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    hey christy.. i know where you work from your website.. Ive worked there before!!!

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    wow cookie.. good guy. Ive met a couple men like you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by francesca link=board=8;threadid=3972;start=msg77221#msg77221 date=1077639250
    I once had a guy pay me extra to go to the dressing room and put my jeans on to dance for him. Hell yeah! He just wanted to see me take my jeans off.
    Francesca...You just hit on my absolute favorite thing. To me there are very few things sexier than a topless girl in blue jeans. I think it&#039;s the "girl-next-door" quality that it provides.
    There have been a few times when I was able to arrange a lap dance with a girl just coming on shift in blue jeans and a t-shirt before she has had a chance to change. In another club I got a wonderful lap dance from one of the waitresses who was wearing blue jeans and a crop-top. These were truly memorable for me!!!
    I travel all over the country and the only club I have ever foung girls dancing in blue jeans is Mons Venus in Tampa. This is one of the top-rated clubs in the country and many of the girls walk around topless in blue jeans and also dance in jeans. If Mons is making a fortune doing it, I&#039;m surprised that other clubs don&#039;t give it a chance. I understand the difficulty of trying to remove tight jeans on stage, but WOW, is it ever SEXY.

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