"I think what Alanna meant is that she believes you wouldn't class a dancer as a "real" girlfriend."
thanks Tre, that was basically what i meant. Aja's question referred to actual "real" relationships between dancers and customers, not the club fantasy. therefore, Hob's use of the term "real" in his response to distinguish the difference between the dancer relationship and the girlfiend relationship that followed implies that he wouldn't classify the dancer as girlfriend material. if this is not what he believes, he should have referred to the "real girlfriend" as the "girlfriend."
"I went out and got a real girlfriend."
nooooo, you went out and got a girlfriend. you asked the dancer to engage in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with you, and she refused. therefore, she was never a girlfriend regardless of the possibility of you having knowledge of her intimate parts since that knowledge was gained solely through the dancer/customer relationship in which you paid her for services rendered in her capacity as a dancer.
for example: i have a doctor/patient relationship with my doctor just as you had a dancer/customer relationship with the dancer. if i asked my doctor to engage in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship and he refused, i would never have any reason to refer to him as my boyfriend, regardless of my doctor having knowledge of my intimate parts since that knowledge was gained solely through a doctor/patient relationship in which i paid him for services rendered in his capacity as a doctor.
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