OK. Let me take one more crack at this and then I will try and let it go.
A few quick responses:
Q Trying to date a stripper for the sake of dating a stripper is a bad idea. We are not novelty items.
A: I would not date somebody simply because of what they do. That assumes that all the IMPORTANT criteria are met, interest, attraction and respect.
Q: Just get lap dances like everyone else and buy your fake stripper love!
A: The funny thing is, that I am not a big patron of strip clubs. I went to Vegas, had a great time, and just started thinking on the subject. This is far from an obsession. More like seeing something shiny and being interested until the next shiny thing comes along. I happened across this forum and got sucked in. I find it, and you folks, interesting.
Q: Sorry about the way I'm writing this. This is built-up frustration from many men who see me for the superficial dancer side and it really makes me feel like a piece of meat. I like to think I'm more than that!
A: If I meet a stripper in her professional capacity, that is all she can be, if for no other reason than I could never know that anything she says is true, as you all point out she is likely telling me what she thinks I want to hear to get me to spend more money, which is fine. I would like to get beyond that.
Q: Millions of people take full and especially part-time jobs that have nothing or very little to do with their personalities simply for monetary reasons.
A: True. However, I believe that the ability to do any job well is a good indication of who a person is or what talents they harbor. I am a lawyer. I have several traits in my personal life that led me to that profession, i.e. I am well read, well educated, smart and analytical. If a person works part time at Jiffy Lube, they probably like and know a lot about cars. A stripper, especially a good one, has an amazing ability to exude sensuality. She also has an ability to shed, for even a moment, her inhibitions and let that part of her shine. I am fascinated in knowing the kind of person who is capable of doing that. I know I am not.
Q: I dance because I love the money and flexibility, not because I love men hitting on me. If I could make the same money without the hitting on, I'd love it even more.
A: I don't believe that all dancers dance simply for the money. Perhaps it is true, I am often wrong, but making money isn't a particularly hard thing to do. Living with yourself for doing what you do to make it is the hard part. I would like to know the type of woman who not only enjoys what she does, but is liberated by it, even if she is not "Dakota super slutty librarian" in real life. OF COURSE SHE ISN'T!!
Q: "When I was in France I wanted to go out with French girls, which was great.
When I am in a strip club I want to go out with a stripper. "
The difference is French girls are French 24/7.
A: I disagree. You may be different in your personal life than your professional life, but a plumber is a plumber even when she is not plumbing. A teacher is a teacher in and out of the classroom. (I am a part time professor) and am entitled to the honorific of Professor even when I am at my other desk. So long as you are practicing a profession that is, in a grammatical sense, what you "are."
So that is it. I apologize for this long and dull post. I never intended to insult. This began as a simple inquiry into what would be the best place to be in the same physical space in order to meet somebody to see if I was compatible with them on a personal level and see what it would be like to spend time with a liberated, sexy woman who has had a whole world of experiences which are completely foreign to me.


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