Thought this might be an interesting question to ask dancers.
Thought this might be an interesting question to ask dancers.
Again 21-40%, i mainly would target an older customer, and not have many problems with them. These guys seemed to know how to respect a dancer, and great tippers!!!!!
Again if a customer was too drunk it was a problem getting him to behave at times, but no big deal, a firm no, "you can't do that," seemed to work pretty good.
The younger guys again in groups were my tough ones to make behave. Alone a younger guy was ok, not great tippers however, because no touchy feely from me.
Pamela



I said 41-60%. I would say about half are a struggle and half are nice and respectful.



Pamela,
I may be making generalizations but I would think a couple of things are at work in making you think the younger guys are not as repectful or tip as well.
First, manners are just not considered as important now as when I was growing up. In a lot of ways, it seems fussy and unimportant to remember to say please and thank you, let a lady walk through a door first, eat with your mouth closed, etc etc etc. But it makes for a nice world to live in and a lot of young guys today are just not being taught those things. It is not their fault it is the fault of their parents.
Also, young guys for the most part, (ignoring rock stars and computer billionaires), just are not making the money that older guys do. So it may seem like a big deal to them to tip a girl $20, I know when I was 18 I would have thought I was the last of the big spenders if I had done that. Someone my age has their house paid for, savings, etc etc and if they want to they can give a pretty girl a whole shiney new quarter for a smile.LOL
Anyone with a memory should be very humble.
Your right xmarx, i really don't give them much of a chance anymore since my crowd seems to be older men now. I dated a guy 10 years my junior, and wow. It went sour, he wanted to play computer games alot, i wanted to exercise. He wanted me to not speak my mind so much (just simple conversation) and i wanted to be heard. We did indeed seem to be on a different level. I work with many many people 5 days a week, he works on a computer in a cube.
I found out recently however. Older guys know what i want. They just pick up on it, it's great. He is the last younger guy i will ever see.
I guess i would never blame his parents though, it's just the way he is. Strippers are fine for him to go see, but i could not do phone sex, or pose nude, i just did not get it.
Although we have a new transporter at the hospital now who looks like the Calvin Klein Guy for the jeans!!!!!!!! Sorry, he's HOT, but too young for me.
Ahhhh males......i do love them all though.




I sorta disagree with this conclusion Xmarx. Yes, you can blame parents for not showing them the manners ropes. However, they are adults now, and there is no way to go through life in this society without knowing what constitutes politeness and respectfullness, even if one doesnt practice it. They know what it is to act like polite adults, they just choose not to, ostensibly because its easier and feeds their sense of self importance. Because their parents didnt teach them manners as children in no way absolves them from personal culpabilty for lack of manners as an adult.
First, manners are just not considered as important now as when I was growing up. In a lot of ways, it seems fussy and unimportant to remember to say please and thank you, let a lady walk through a door first, eat with your mouth closed, etc etc etc. But it makes for a nice world to live in and a lot of young guys today are just not being taught those things. It is not their fault it is the fault of their parents.
Thats my take anyway.



You are right John that everyone who wants to learn and change can if they work hard enough. I just wanted to leave a loophole so I did not tick off all the young guys who read my post. LOL
I have always said, if someone is ignorant I have no problem with that but if someone chooses to remain that way, that ticks me off.![]()
Anyone with a memory should be very humble.
I put 0-20%. Sometimes more than that try something, but if I remind/inform them of the rules one time and they oblige, I don't count them in the molestor category. Only 1-5% I would say will keep trying to grab after I've told them no numerous times. This results in an air dance so they never get any good gropes in on me.


41-60% unfortunatly. When in Rome (contact okay clubs) its fine to touch the "approved" areas. But when not in Rome, you'd better watch yourself buddy.
Trying to kiss me is the worst problem when I'm leaning back to dance. Yuck, thats never okay.





I had to put 61-80%, because even though we have bouncers who keep an eye on us and let the guys know when they need to back off, I still have quite a few guys trying to sneak grabs when the bouncer turns around. They will sit and watch the bouncer rather than me, and make a quick lunge as soon as they see him turn his back to deal with something else. This is a small % of the locals, maybe 25%. But then add to that the overwhelming number of American tourists who come here thinking they're entitled to everything without paying anything, and go on and on about how 'in the states the dances are alot better', and purposely ignore everything I and the bouncers tell them about what is allowed, it makes for alot of obnoxious customers. I have learned to avoid most American travellers here, since most are soooooooo difficult to deal with. I also see how those same men will put up with FAR less in dances if the girl on their lap is local, but treat me like crap because I'm American. Anyway, if all I had to deal with was locals, things would be alot easier for me - and I make most of my money from locals anyway!
I had to put 81-100 due to where I work, alot of girls let the guys go alittle bit further than I do, so much of my 5 min. is finding new ways to keep their hands off my parts..LOL
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