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    Hi,

    Let me first say that I'm not the type the frequents the clubs (at least not SCs) but it was a rare exception last weekend. Especially rare is if I get a dance (in fact this was only my second one - ever). My only 3 visits (ever) have been for business reasons (client wants to go to SC, take client to a SC).

    I was chilling with a buddy when a dancer approached me for a dance (par for the course).

    A bit about me: I like my women a little on the exotic side and you might think in this environment all the gals would qualify but not for me. There is a certain unique look a find extremely attractive and I've found that look where I work, at a coffee shop, on the bus, at a dance club etc -- so no assumptions about falling for random half-naked women please.

    The dancer that approached me definitely fit the bill. I politely declined the dance as I was in mid-conversation with my buddy. She asked if she could return, I said yes (par for the course). At this point I'm thinking I wonder what she is like outside the club.

    About an hour later we about ready to leave when I decided I wanted her to dance for me. From what I've read on this board, at this point, if I was truly interested in her, I pretty much shot myself in the foot. At this point I'm thinking, maybe I can talk to her during the dance - the club was rather busy.

    Anyway we had three dances and from the get go she mentioned she really liked my ears and began to lick them... many times during our dances. I complimented her stage dancing skills (I know, I know, she probably gets that all the time) - but I'm a big time dance club person and considered by many of my friends to be a good dancer. So when I compliment someone's skills - I mean it. Also, we engaged in a little conversation - she volunteered a little information (probably ice breakers): where she was from and what she likes to do in her off time. At this point, I was so flustered as to what was going on, I did nothing besides keep up the chit chat.

    As a big time SC newbie, I'm wondering: Par for the course? A little more than usual but could just be her schtick? Was she testing to see if I was interested? Is this another dumb schmuck question? ... Bueller... Bueller ... Bueller?

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    More than likely she was keeping up the fantasy. You mentioned that you've found that certain, "uniique look" other places. You've got a much better chance at those other places. If you're truly interested in her you could go back, maybe when the club isn't so crowded and spend some more money/time with her. However, be prepared to be disappointed. I'm sorry, I know that wasn't what you wanted to hear. However, I also sense that you are mature enough to realize that it is probably the truth.
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    Any dancer that has been around the scene for some time will know how to keep "the fantasy". Many tricks work. It is nothing personal, we want money, we are working. Most of us have families and loved ones who depend on that extra $.

    Some may go outside the rules, (club) and i personally find that wrong.

    Seriously...It's all a job. And it does not mean we don't actually like customers, more than others actually. But we need to make a living, and this is it.

    Always say to yourself upon entering a strip club that it is fantasy, and you may save your self some heartache in the future.
    Some dancers have been known to really mess with customers heads. Plain old wrong.
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    As soon as she starts licking a strangers ears you can be pretty sure it's not real...

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    Sounds like you had a normal experience. Par for the course, she probly gave the next guy the same treatment. I've nibbled on guys ears/necks. Just part of the fantasy babe.

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    I'm impressed by how many responses were posted in such a short period of time.

    Yeah, I'm not too worried or concerned, just curious to get people's opinions. It's all good.

    Actually, any job that sells an intangible thing like a service has a certain "salesy" element to it. The customer wants to feel like they're getting a good deal, so you throw in a few things to make it seem sweeter. If you were buying a car they'd call in the mud flaps or the fitted car mats with the logos. In my line of work, we call that "an investment for future business". In this work... wait a sec, I suppose you'd call that "an investment for future business" too -- haha.

    I still am a little curious though, but I'm not going to drop serious $$ to find out. I figure one more visit and we'll see what happens but my expectations of anything more than good entertainment is pretty low. If it's more great. If it's not, that's great too.

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    Default Re: Showing interest or keeping up the fantasy?

    if she told you that all she cares is making money and she has a boyfriend ,would you buy than 3 dances from her ?...

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    Quote Originally Posted by monicabi View Post
    if she told you that all she cares is making money and she has a boyfriend ,would you buy than 3 dances from her ?...
    if she's hott

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    How many "is it real?' or "does she really like me?" threads are we gonna have. Why does every guy think his experience is unique pffft.

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    To be fair - this thread is from 2003, when the topic might have been new and exciting. But I'm sure it's been worked out by now, in one direction or another.
    I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    To be fair - this thread is from 2003, when the topic might have been new and exciting. But I'm sure it's been worked out by now, in one direction or another.
    I like to think that he went back, she proposed marriage, he accepted, and now they're living on the beach in Hawaii, and he gets his ears licked every night (after showering the sand off, of course.)

    Or he went back to the club and it turns out she was actually a zombie and she ate his brains through his ear. She is still stripping to this day, rotting flesh and all.

    Either scenario works for me.

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    ^

    I love it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    To be fair - this thread is from 2003, when the topic might have been new and exciting. But I'm sure it's been worked out by now, in one direction or another.
    Oh I didnt notice that. I never saw the point in reviving a thread with a specific question.

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    Sounds like a good SC experience. There are not many that will lick your ear.
    I date strippers, especially if they love to model for me.



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    Default Re: Showing interest or keeping up the fantasy?

    Considering the OP hasn't responded in nearly four years, I'd say it a good bet that his family jewels have been dipped in a fondue pot by now. You know how ear licking is a sure sign that you're dealing with a cannibal stripper.


    Or maybe she married him, I mean what's the difference?
    Former SCJ now in rehab.

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    Well I know whenever I lick a guy's ear it is because I'm considering eating him. Now that we've made this a cautionary tale of clueless PL consumed by strippers, I'm sure we can move on to important topics like what lipgloss you guys like best.

    Cautionary tale, guys. Take strippers too seriously, and you WILL be eaten.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Cautionary tale, guys. Take strippers too seriously, and you WILL be eaten.
    You are such a sweet talker...

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    Quote Originally Posted by 3ozmartini View Post
    -- so no assumptions about falling for random half-naked women please.
    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Now that we've made this a cautionary tale of clueless PL consumed by strippers, I'm sure we can move on to important topics like what lipgloss you guys like best.
    Uh, I'll take "lipgloss worn by random half-naked women" for three dances, please.

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