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    Default Who makes the best customers by ethnicity?

    I saw the new polls and this question popped into my mind. I don't mean to offend anyone, but I am curious. What characteristics do certain groups have? Or are they all basically the same? Is it not so much race, but perhaps age? Do you hesistant to approach certain groups from experience? Do customers act differently when you are in foreign countries? Do you think the same customer would act differently depending on what country he's in? I think I may have seen something like this asked before, but I can't remember.
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    I had to say 'no difference.' i seem to go more with the older crowd, gosh that starts at late 20's for me. But colour, no difference really. I have not danced for many coloured guys, so my biggest clientel was white, then came hispanic.

    I am from Sweden, and going back home i went to a few strip clubs, WAY different over there. Some very classy, burlesque type clubs, others sex clubs on stage. The customers over there seem to look like they tippped well, but expected more than normal, alot. Nothing like the states!

    I love Sweden, but am not with the whole sex in clubs thing, probably because i was raised over here. If i danced in Sweden, it would be a non-sexual club, and they have them. But they are very open to their sexuality in public.

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    Good topic! I voted for caucasian even though i'm african american....
    I think it does actually make a difference even though the way you present yourself also have to do with it....it is indeed the whole package....
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    I chose foreign nationals.
    My best money came from El Paso-the customers were a lot of German Air Force who had very large allowances. They were very consistent as well. Came in often and got many dances.

    This was just my experience though. These days the money simply isn't that great

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    Currently I do best with Puerto Rican locals, foreign travellers, and other immigrants living in the US and travelling down here. I don't do as well with white Americans here, because they want local girls, and I don't fit that bill. I notice that when white Americans talk to me, they have a COMPLETELY different attitude if they think I'm local - as soon as they know I'm from the states they become huge arrogant jerks. And these are the exact same guys I would bank with in the states. Because of that I'm starting to just let them think I'm from here

    In the states I always did well with pretty much anybody. Blacks and hispanics always liked me because I'm a white girl with ass, lol. The only ethnicity I really don't have much luck with is oriental - I do pretty well with other Asians (as in middle east), but oriental guys have never been good customers for me. I don't think I'm blond enough for them!

    Travelling I've always done well with most types of guys. I guess I can say I cater to just about all of them....but of course I make the most money with the older guys - 30s and up, simply because more of them have more to spend. If it's a young crowd I can still make money, but I have to do alot more table hopping and running up and down the stairs for laps.

    I tend to avoid oriental guys and Mexican travellers - I've never had luck with oriental guys and every experience I've had with Mexican travellers (from Mexico) was bad...they aren't into paying for just dances and are always very hard to deal with. I have also learned to avoid most New Yorkers who come to PR because they have horrible attitudes and expect to be treated like royalty and to pay NOTHING, especially the so-called New Yoricans. It's a very rare New Yorker who comes here and actually spends any money - even for one dance.

    ***Disclaimer: None of the labels I have used in reference to people were meant in any sort of negative way. They are only used as generic descriptives.

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    I voted African American ..... odd as it seem's because not many really do the whole stripclub scene and in my area the Black population consist's of only 10% of the total population. The reason I feel this way is that the average African American customer's that come's in are either business men or a trucker's, both earn good money, spend good money and rarely ever cause trouble. The majority white customer's although spending the most overall there are 50 asshole's to every 3 good spender's, they cause more trouble and bitch more about everything. Asian's and Hispanic's that frequent the club tend to spend less and expect more and often need to be watched closer in lap dances for the dancer's benefit

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    That is hard to say. The predominant race of customers is white, but that is due to the fact that the white race is the majority in this country with some regional differences.

    By me being black it is easy to say that many black customers want white girls but that is not always true.I've had nights in Houston where black guys buy 3-4 dances at a time, and spend $150-$200 on me.

    People say Asian men are cheap. I've had Asian men spend and tip well. The same with hispanics. A middle eastern customer in Montana bought 20 $20 dances from me.

    I think all of us as dancers need to not stereotype people by race and approach everyone equally.All customers of a certain race are no more alike than all the dancers on this board are alike.

    Age is a more predictable determinant of customer spending but still is no reason to not approach a customer. Guys from 18-30 are less likely to spend $100 + on a single dancer just because they are too young to have to pay a girl their own age for company.Can you blame them?

    On the other hand guys from 35-65 are more apt to be past their prime in the woman chasing arena, be coming out of a long unhappy marriage, or love their wives but want some sexual variety. Age is a better determinant of our best customers.

    White or blue collar doesn't matter either. Most high volume clubs have a mixture of both. It depends on if they like you or not. Whether a guy buys 2 dances from you or 10, he still chose you and the money all adds up at the end of your night.

    It all boils down to if the guys are attracted to you or not, and not the color of their skin. As soon as a dancer avoids the black or hispanic or asian or middle eastern customer in favor or the white middle aged man who appears to be white collar, they might have avoided one or more guys who would have been the best customers.

    No matter what race a customer is, everyone is not the same and all should be approached. We are salespeople more than we are dancers and cold selling as we are doing is a numbers game. If we avoid all people of a certain race because some have been a waste of time,we are destined to lose out on some good customers.

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    I voted no difference. I've had both success and failure with every race I've come accross and tried to sell a dance to. I think that finding common ground is what builds your chances of selling a customer a dance, not race. I believe that guys already know what type of woman they'd like to dance with, anybody else will have to do some convincing to sell a dance.
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    Tina - I like your answer.
    I have to admit that I do stereotype customers though. I am a blond with a thin to medium build. I do very well with asian guys and white guys and I do so-so with latin guys. Black guys never buy dances from me. In the year that I have been dancing I have only sold a dance to 5 black guys.
    I actually tend to do very well with younger guys. A lot of the older guys (45+) are very disrepectful and not pleasant to deal with at all. They generally tend to want more than a lap dance. I dance in Las Vegas though so most of my customers aren't locals.
    The guys that I do the best with are generally the guys who are from a foreign country.
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    hey Bridgette i resent that crack about the nuyo ricans we drop bucks on the girls and at the bar every place we go.
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    In my neck of the woods we get mostly white so if I had to pick one that would be it. Most of the black guys that come in are young and want to act like they have money but not give it up. I'm not a big fan of mexican guys, they always seem to want sex and don't want to tip.

    It gets hard not to stereotype in this business and I think it just gets easy to lump people by race. But there are those few who throw you off. While most black guys don't like me one of my best customers is black and he comes in every weekend just for me. One of the bar regulars is Mexican and he's very polite, always tips, been at a few private parties I've doen and is very respectful. All it takes is one bed apple and then every one is bad!

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    Old white guys seem to tip best at my club. They have the most money here and buy the most dances.

    It is hard because there are not that many black people here, but the men that do come into the club seem to never buy dances or tip on-stage. I've tried talking to them and the few that I've done this with have spoken to me like a whore and were trying to get laid. They're giving black guys a bad rap in my club.

    We have a lot of East Indian people who live in the area and they don't usually buy dances or tip either.

    Latino men have been very nice and will usually buy dances, as well as tip on stage.

    College age guys don't really like me (36-27-36) 'cause I'm curvy.

    It helps being Iranian because I get the men who like exotic women.

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    I love old white guys they are the best! For the most part they pay me the most and treat me the best.

    From my experience asian men have been some of the nicest and profitable customers I have ever had. It always perplexes me when they want dances from me because I have dark features and am tall and curvy. The exact opposite of the pam anderson barbie look that they tend to like.

    Latino customers have always been liked me alot for the most part. I know everyone says they are grabby and disrespectful but for the most part I have only had run in's with a few latinos like this.

    Indian men are the worst to dance for! I don't think I ever danced for an indian man (mabey one) who didn't try to molest me, bug me constantly to go out with him, or create a hassle when it was time to pay. I have never danced for an american indian though ( mabey one I think) in my whole dancing career. Which is werid because we have a significant population of them in Minnesota but I never see alot of them in the club.

    Black men love me. But I don't waste my time with young thugs I only really approch older black men. They love my butt!

    Collage age white guys never really like me. I am curvy and have dark features. Which is really a good thing because they usually don't have alot of money and they are really obnoxious for the most part.

    Couples love me expecialy the women.

    But I agree with Tina the most. She is so right, always go up to everyone in the club. Just prioritize the stops on the floor to your success in the past but never rule anyone out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by urnemesis link=board=8;threadid=3992;start=msg121206#msg1212 06 date=1087023178
    hey Bridgette i resent that crack about the nuyo ricans we drop bucks on the girls and at the bar every place we go.
    Ever go to Divas in Puerto Rico and drop bucks? I sure didn't see it. That's where I was when I made that post nearly a year ago.

    Anyway it wasn't a crack, just an observation from my experience. In a year and half dancing in PR I had one New Yorican customer spend any money on me, and I saw a WHOLE LOT of them hanging out not buying dances from anybody, but wanting the girls to hang out for hours for free and then "show them around" after work.

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    I would have to say old white men or asian business men. Both are mostly well-behaved and spend serious money (at least in my experience). Asian men especially seem to adore my blond hair....

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    If I had to randomly choose an ethnic group, I would say Vietnamese guys. As a soviet refugee, I grew up with many vietnamese refugees and we always got along. These guys tend to be very funny and tip very well.....but that's pretty random. In my experience, I can think of a good and bad experience with everyone everywhere....

    Also, not an ethnicity, but women tend to be the best customers too. They don't spend lots of $$, but they are really nice if you dance for them like they are a woman, not a man...

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    I can always count on asian men. There are not too many that come into myy club, but when they do i always bank with them. Im not a blond barbie doll, but im very european.

    aside from that i like older men, and they seem to like me pretty well!!
    i try not to approach young white guys. This may sound a bit rude, but they dont have as much money

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    I'd always heard that people who are 1/3 American Indian, 1/3 Chinese and 1/3 Lithuanian were the best tippers.
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    Default Re:Who makes the best customers by ethnicity?

    Kind of an old thread, but I'll contribute my

    Overwhelmingly, the customers that I do best with are White guys from pretty much all age ranges. I hear a lot of "you look really exotic, what's your ethnicity?" comments from them.

    Occasionally Latin guys too. I rarely make money from Blacks or Asians, and not for the whole "they just like big booties/Barbie types" thing. They just don't generally respond to me much.

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    They're all too cheap now, ha ha ha.

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    old white men & nerdy asian guys - best customers. $$$$$$$$

    black guys & indian/pakistani guys - cheap

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    Quote Originally Posted by pooja link=board=8;threadid=3992;start=msg147556#msg1475 56 date=1091389807
    old white men & nerdy asian guys - best customers. $$$$$$$$

    black guys & indian/pakistani guys - cheap
    How about "not quite old white men"

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    I do my absolute best with white men especially foreign (Greek, Italian, Lebonese, and German) followed by Italian men. Don't know why but they all comment on my exotic beauty. I do my worst with black men go figure!

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    UMMM interesting.... Most of my regulars are from various backgrounds being in LA metro area that's everything. However I find that my regulars are basically the same social class.

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