Hi: Their was a post on this board that has been taken off subject please help. For anyone that did read it or
responded to it I am the wife of MUP who is responding to needing more details. Yes my husband gave the dancer his phone number to why he did this I honestly don't know and I don't really know if he does either. I know that some men start thinking with their other head when they start hearing nice words and thinking it is more than what it really is. No I am not the naive wife who thinks that he didn't do anything wrong. To answer some of the questions that were asked here it goes. We live in a smaller city, the dancer's parents live in the same city, she knew this so it is not so hard to find out about things like where we live where we work and so on. The phone calls starting coming from a man who said he was her f*****g partner. They never once called the phone number that my husband gave her. He talked about things like my husband fooling around and having certain lap dances and why was I still with a person like this who had no respect for this wife and that would fool around. Basically all the phone calls were the same, saying the same thing and that the only reason I was getting them was because she didn't want to have anything to do with a guy like that and I should be alot smarter and not be with him. The last two phone calls I got was from a women (they never give their names) I persume it is the dancer saying the same things but the difference is she is either stoned or drunk when she calls because she is slurring alot of her words giggling alot and not making much since about some of the things she says. I asked her if this is her way of wanting to go out with my husband why not just phone him she says "no" thats not want she wants and never did. That I am a stupid bitch for putting up with a man like that. The sending me stuff in the mail was a receipt and a love letter that someone had typed and put my husband's name on the bottom of it. Not saying it wasn't my husband that did it but they could of done it to make it look like he did it. The question that my husband was trying to ask is why would a person do this or any insight as to why a dancer feels she has to do this instead of just saying no to him. I am not saying that this situation is all her fault it takes two to tango . Me and my husband have had many conversations about this (fights) and I don't think anything sexual did take place outside the lap dances. The message board came when my husband posted a post about the dancer to see if he could get any insight as to what people thought about her or what she was really like some of the responses back was she liked her booze and drugs that she had some problems along the way. I got a phone call from the dancers friend saying that my husband was looking for her again and wanted to go out with her because he saw it on the board. I think he was just guessing and didn't tell him either way. I know some of you are probably thinking that I am being naive and not looking at the hole picture but as I said we have had many of fights about this and I do understand that he is as much to blame for this as anyone and so does he. He has admitted to some of the stuff but not to others as he says it never happen that I believe because I know him. Again thinking with the little head and not the big, anything can happen.
Any insight would be appreciated. Thanks


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