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    okay guys... polite, well behaved and respectful?

    What percentage make up the A-holes we always hear about? Can you spot the troublemakers and avoid them?

    I realize all answers are guesstimates and will vary depending on club location, management and clientele.

    My ATF told me about a night she had a couple weeks ago where not only could she not sell a dance, she was propositioned by everyone. Even an older gentleman that looked "Safe." She called it a hooker night.

    Are 30% of the guys out looking for hookers or girlfriends? Or is the percentage even higher than that? Thanks.
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    Default Re: What % of your customers are....

    Some nights are worse than others...sometimes a whole night flies by with out one problem! Then theres the nights whereas it seems they are all out cruisin'....

    Hard to put a percentage on that!
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    Oh, it depends on the night and the club and the city. I've worked in clubs where 99% of the locals were looking for hookers, and I used to pounce on the travelling men. Luckily, they made up about 20% of the clientele.

    But then I've also worked in very upscale, reputable clubs, where no one has propositioned me. In "the" club here, the one that everyone wants to work at and is supposedly the best money, about 80% of the guys that I danced for were either very rude or propositioned me.

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    There's no pattern, but yeah, it's different from one club to another. Tiffany's really tried to position itself at the top of the food chain, and the bouncers were VERY good at spotting trouble. This had two really great effects -- one planned, and the other unplanned. First, it more-or-less kept out the troublemakers. SECOND, though, the really good deep-pocket spenders (businessmen on expense accounts, etc.) DON'T like to go to a bar where they think there's gonna be trouble. Thus, if a bar like Tiffany's gets a rep of being clean and safe, the high-spenders come out of the woodwork. Typically (although not always!!!) these guys are very safe. They like to look at pretty girls and have pleasant conversation. They think nothing of dropping large dollars. (Hey -- 18 holes at Pebble Beach is $400. You think these guys thing ANYTHING about spending hundreds of bucks for lap dances? Not on your life!)

    Then again, on nights after an ASU ball game (particularly baseball, for some reason) we'd get a FLOOD of frat boys. Usually (make that ALWAYS) they wanted to "... book us for a private show back at the dorm..." which was code for a gang-bang. Plus, for them, $20 of tipping in one night was a HUGE expense. Don't get me wrong, those were great party nights at the club, but lousy on the income.

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    Guys with high income have the same desires as middle class guys. Some can be pushy about hooking up with them in the room or give you their room key.

    The higher end guys are used to wining and dining more and have more money to spend but money alone does not make for a respectful guy.

    I had a millionaire attorney come in a club blowing money on dances but of course wanting to fuck. He couldn't ge that from me but paid another less than beautiful dancer $700 for sex and offered me $500 for a private show since I don't offer sex while she pleasured him.

    A guys wealth doesn't always make for a nice guy. Their life experience has a lot to do with it. And guys with lots of money don't make up the majority and some of them are stuffy.

    It's hard to stereotype guys. The way a club is run is the biggest barometer of how guys act and spend. In some clubs guys will sit and chat with you and buy several dances from several girls and tip on stage as well and these are not necessarily wealthy men, and in other clubs guys won't tip the waitress, won't buy a dance and have to be prodded to tip on stage. thjat is the clubs fault for not having the right momentum to make the customers feel confortable and in a fun mood enough to spend money.

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    Yeah. So many rich lawyers are so horrible (not all of them of course).

    There was a rich lawyer who was a regular at a club that I used to work at. As soon as he came in ten girls would drop everything and fawn over him, and he would abuse the hell out of them and enjoy it, and they would endure it for the money. I saw him make soooo many girls cry, but the next week, they were running back to him.

    I absolutely refused, from the first time I saw him, to even acknowledge him (not to the point of being rude though). This bothered him. Finally one day he offered me a $700 tip if I would do a champagne room with him. I said no sex, no abuse, sure. We get up there and he starts some bullshit and I was just like "oh no you don't even go there" and he was like, oh. And he just sat there with his mouth shut. Then at the end he gave me the money and said, "do you know where that came from? I got a child molester and serial rapist off free, that's where that money came from." I donated it to a woman's shelter and had them send something to his office thanking him for the donation :-)

    Anyways, what I meant to say was, lawyers and men with lots of money can still be assholes, like Tina said.

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    Very true, guys that come in casually dressed are sometimes the wealthy ones and you don't expect it too. And rudeness comes in every form, whether a guy is rich or poor makes no difference. But sometimes the richer they are the cheaper they are. That's why they are so rich, being very damned tight with that cash.

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    At my club - 20%. Less, maybe. 10% that don't make me feel uncomfortable in some way. I don't think that a majority are looking for a hooker or girlfriend but they are looking for the opportunity to behave in a way that they couldn't at home or in a regular social setting. Even the nice, intelligent, seemingly respectable guys can be groping assholes or want me to do things I'm not comfortable with, even if they are not explicitly against the rules. A few years ago, I would have answered differently but now I am much more strict on what I consider respectful and well-behaved.

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    About every other guy asks me out and ask for MORE. No lies here. I've learned to smile and say "no thank you, it's against the club's rules" which of course makes them think that the only reason I'm not pouncing on them is because of the club (MEN!) But sometimes I get really nice guys that get more than once dance, tip genrously, and are always polite and curtiuos. I sure love those!

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    Some of my best customers are either self-employed or own small businesses. While they won't spend a huge wad of cash at once, they tend to be respectful and want to avoid trouble. Also, these types are more understanding that you are at work, and don't expect you to sit with them for hours with nothing to show for it like some of the higher income types tend to do.

    They also seem to have an easier supply of cash to spend. While some corporate vice-president may make a $100,000 a year, he probably also has a wife at home keeping track of every penny. A lot self-employed business owner seem to have a way of having cash find its way into their pockets (and hopefully into my g-string) without their SO knowing about it.
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    yeah, I have seen some of us that are truly scum.

    but I will also admit that I am not a saint and have gotten more that just a dance in the VIP room before. but I don't go expecting that, I am happy with just a dance.

    but sometimes when more is offered...... well I am a guy and somtimes I just can't refuse that kind of offer from a beautiful woman that has no cloths on.....

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    I have watched soooo many girls put up with jerks for what amounts to a little bit of money - it just isn't worth it to me. I will not spend time with an asshole no matter how much money he's flashing. If the dollars have to come at the expense of my self-respect, I don't need them! There's always another customer, or another night where I'll make my money on my terms. Show guys you won't put up with the crap, and they're less likely to give it to you. On the other hand, show guys you won't give them a load of crap, and they're more likely to be nicer to you

    It's really hard to put a number on it, but there are always guys who are just incapable of being anything but jerks in a club (or maybe anytime), and there are always those who are absolute delights to be around. I'm better than I used to be at spotting them now, but I still get surprised sometimes.

    One thing I have learned is the guys who spend the REAL money rarely wear suits or come dressed in anything more than jeans/khakis and polos - but they always have nice shoes and nice watches, and generally drink something other than Budweiser or Coors. There is usually something about the WAY they wear their clothes - the clothes may be casual, but they may be pressed, shirts perfectly tucked in, no lint balls or loose threads, 'appropriate' colors, etc. Hair is usually immaculate, not over-slicked but perfectly styled. And they probably don't wear any jewelry, except an expensive, quality watch. Those guys are usually very well-mannered and easy to be around, and rarely if ever proposition me, maybe because they're not going to, maybe because they know how to figure out whether or not I'll accept without asking or hinting. Either way I don't care - the result is the same for me - I got to hang out with a nice gentleman who didn't hound me for more and was able to enjoy my company!

    Anyway, yes assholes come in dead broke, with full pockets and anything in between. It's not the money that makes the man, but I find a higher proportion of those with serious money were taught SERIOUS manners somewhere along the way, and that training doesn't just disappear when they enter a strip club. But my previous statement about how you treat them and the attitude you present still applies - you'll get way more with sugar than with honey, but you don't have to compromise yourself in the process!

    Sorry I might have gotten a tad on a tangent...

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    That's a very subjective question you are asking. I don't know how you can get an objective answer that way. It would be very hard to get people to confess to improprieties even on the internet. Most people who behave inappropriately do not see themselves as such. I just wanted to direct your attention to the validity of your impromptu poll.
    Anyway, I have never asked a stripper on a date or propositioned one. I have no need to. I have an incredible relationship with s.o. and she is all the woman I need. Believe it or not, I go to clubs to see the dancing. To see if there is anything new to the scene. If the dancer seems nice I will tip and converse with her to reward her proficiency.
    What other people are doing and what reasons they come is none of my business. I don't know how many there are and I don't care.

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