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    Hi,
    i am a 18 years old guy. i read a lot of things about being a good customer here! but sometimes during a lapdances i get soooo hot that i really get hungry to kiss or lick or grab the part of body (i dont do this if she seems that dosnt like it)! i read few posts from dancers that said i be granted some touches or ... (not extras) if i remain a gentleman!
    whut should i do?

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    Well, this could definitely go really wrong and create a bad experience for both of you if touching isn't allowed/welcome, obviously. If you don't discuss the rules with her ahead of time, or if she tells you that type of contact isn't allowed and you do it anyway, your dance might be over right there and/or the security might toss ya out on yer ear. She'll definitely let you know, but I'd suggest that you discuss it and get it straight prior to just going ahead and seeing what will happen. Just my humble opinion!

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    Just make sure what are the rules of particular clubs. That way you'll avoid being warned or worst still, being thrown out.



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    you could always cough up a $100 tip and see what happens next!

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    Like Carlos said, first find out the rules of the club, and not from a dancer. But from management. Then you know how far to go. Break a rule with in the club and you may very well find your self with more than you paid for, and not what you wanted.
    pamela

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    and even if you know the rules in the bar - you should ask the girl too! because maybe the bar allows "grabbing" but the girl doesn't like it! all dancers are different
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    ...and stay OUT of the Bermuda Triangle - NO ONE gets out alive.
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    The best general rule is to keep your paws, mouth, etc to yourself. If you're in a high-contact place and the girl is into it, she will initiate the contact. Otherwise, just sit back, relax and enjoy the dance. Most dancers give better dances to guys who behave.

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    ...and stay OUT of the Bermuda Triangle - NO ONE gets out alive.
    I swear I took this literally the first few times I read it. I thought it was so out of place (gee, she must really like mysteries), 'til I realized it was very good advice for our question-poster to follow!

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    heh heh...its a line I use when a customer asks what he can or can't do during a dance. It takes them a sec too and then they smile and laugh...good advice without being cranky about it - humor is a great way to say what you mean without sounding too uptight.
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    paws
    Customers aren't animals in a cage .



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    some *should* be in a cage though hahah! I once was turning around during a dance and a customer leaned forward and bit my ass! HARD! It left red teeth marks! I worried I should get a tetnus (sp?) shot fer crissakes!
    So when we sometimes generalize on men please dont be offended, it just comes to us after doing this for a while and having drama more often than necessary. If you aren't one of these kind, then dont take it to heart. We know there are some super customers out there! ...somewhere. hahaha!
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    There is one here in Puerto Rico .



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    Great! So I haven't been the only one with my nipples bit, only that in my case the dancers have opened my shirt



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    holy sh*t! She BIT you? What the hell?

    I was doing a Marilyn Monroe parody show wig mole lashes the works and for my finale I bathe in a giant glass tub, I splash and spin in the tub and step out and tiptoe around the stage so everyone can get a boo at me all wet....low and behold this guy stands up and puts his thumb over the mouth of his beer bottle gives it a vigerous shake and HOSES me in the face with the foam! WHAT THE HELL...?

    I am not proud of my reaction but....I mosh pitted the bastard, I jumped right off stage naked wig lashes mole and all and grabbed him in a headlock and punched the crap outta the guy!!
    Cops were called no bouncer EVER came to help I might add, too stoned in the kitchen making grilled cheeze sandwiches no doubt (for REAL) and buddy wanted to charge me!
    I was in shock over the whole thing in the first place but as soon as I got my wits about me I asked the cop a theoretical question, if I were to spit or throw a drink at him - the cop I meant would he have grounds to charge ME? He replied hell ya he would charge me....and I said there are 450+ witnesses to attest he hosed me in the face FIRST with his beer, so tell Mr Jerk off I am countercharging him!!!

    The cop left to talk to the guy and he backed down....I never ever worked ThunderBay again....MY choice.

    Rough little town, they drink fight n fuck. LOL!
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    I don't wanna be near you when you lose your temper



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    just don't abuse the peeler, LOL! I dont always react like that but man you keep pokin the bear, baby, and lookout!
    It was a rough week, and this was; lets just say the STRAW ya know what I mean...?
    :-/
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    In Houston, there are MANY dancers who perform all kinds of sexual acts for money, I would say MOST of them do. There are even posts about this on this forum (as well as on some other forums)

    If you want some good information about Houston strip clubs, go to go to "forums" go to "Houston" go to strip clubs. There are many good posts on that board. Keep in mind though that cities across the country are different. However, this is a good way to get an idea of what's going on in strip clubs.

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    is this lover guy just some kind of brain dead doofus? Imean for real. Obviously he tries so hard to stir shit up but gosh does he realize how stupid he appears? For real, none of his posts are relevant, I feel sorry for this retard, its just pathetic to watch.
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    Hey Leigh " I mosh pitted the bastard" I'd luv to go to a SUM 41 concert with you!
    Don't make me spank you!

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    A response to Leigh. I was at this lap dance place one time. The girl was topless and well endowed. When she was leaving she leaned forward so I kissed her on the boob. She immediately hit me with a flashlight and said "Oh, I'm sorry. Did I hit you? " She later returned with a bouncer to have me thrown out.
    I agree excessive groping is inappropriate behavior especially if it leaves marks. In my state even spitting at someone is illegal. Striking someone with a blunt instrument is something else especially if I felt provoked. Groping isn't that serious. I'll been groped before, by men as well as women. As long as it isn't leaving marks you can usually just reprimand the person to stop the behavior. If the offender persists,then call in the bouncer.

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    " ...this guy stands up and puts his thumb over the mouth of his beer bottle gives it a vigerous shake and HOSES me in the face with the foam! WHAT THE HELL...?

    I am not proud of my reaction but....I mosh pitted the bastard, I jumped right off stage naked wig lashes mole and all and grabbed him in a headlock and punched the crap outta the guy!! "


    Well, you may not be proud of this, but I am proud to call you my friend, to the extent you are comfortable with that. I f**king love it--more stories like this, please.

    How in the hell did I miss this classic Tale, the first time? Other than the fact it's in the dangerous area for me to read if I still want to be a DJ.

    I'd love to see a video of this...
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    I think most customers can read the dancers body language and know what is expected. (yes the customer should know the rules too.) Obviously if she brushes her nipple across your face at nose level, she is just teasing. Or she may pass it across your mouth at warp speed. lol. You know that you aren't supposed to chase. What drives me crazy are girls that place their nipple right on your lips. (in violation of the rules) and hold it there. Give me break! Tease me. Don't torture me. There is only one natural reaction to that. I actually warned one girl 3 times she shouldn't do that. The 4th I couldn't take it anymore and I guess she got the reaction she wanted. She went on to something else after that and didn't say anything negative.
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    Rough little town, they drink fight n fuck. LOL!
    Yeah, but do they play pinochle?

    Being a long time Mosh Pit Veteran (I still have pictures of the boot marks on my face from Slayer in '91), your terminology has brought a smile to face. Hell, just seeing you do that to such a troglodyte would have inspired me to fork over a lot of cash your way


    PJ

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    Squirrel - are you a man or woman? I think just about any dancer reaction to a customer who kisses her breast, short of killing him, is acceptable. Especially if you are a man, you have no idea how it feels to be a female dancer and groped constantly and have guys break rules constantly. It's demoralizing. I would definitely try to have you kicked out of my club if you did that to me. No customer should ever determine how much a dancer should put up with before she calls over a bouncer. You should have known the limits beforehand and not pushed it. Some action leaving marks is probably not the dancer's biggest concern. "Groping isn't that serious"?! That is the #1 biggest source of frustration for me at work. Argh! I get so mad when guys think they can test or push the limits with a girl at a SC.

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