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    Default Real friendships with customers?

    I've seen threads that talked about dancers dating their customers. I was wondering, how common is it to have dancers and customers become good enough friends to just see each other outside a stripclub, and that's all? Is anybody (dancer or customer posters) doing that now? Or do people just want to keep things a business and a fantasy?
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    I have a wonderful friend (executive) I met two years ago in my club. He is married, so we never crossed that line. We have monthly lunches, and he helps me with "grown-up" things like financial advice, educational advice, etc...No, he does NOT give me money, and we do NOT have anything but a platonic relationship. I strongly believe in placing yourself in the company of successful people, wherever you first meet them. I think I am the daughter he never had.

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    It's not impossible, but it's probably not as rare as you think. Though personally, I think I've only ever had one freind outside of work who was a customer first. There are customers that I do consider freinds, but they aren't real life freinds, they're work friends or freinds of my stage persona.

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    I have seen it happen, dancer leaves with a customer. Hell before my ex came and went, he went to a local club and a dancer gave her number, he picked her up from work maybe twice (can't remember), and went back to her place...Said he got turned off when the roomies had a bong going! LMAO!

    Good for him....And he comes down on me for my job choices.

    But yes....some do leave with customers. The ones i have talked with don't. And i would not either.

    It's a fantasy...And i think should be kept that way.
    Just my thoughts. Because it can be bad news for both involved when it's over.

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    As a feature much of that stigma is put aside. Many clubs dont let the features tabledance to respect the house girls and many features dont WANT to anyway -
    So, the guard is down, and I have an occasion made some real friends, this was brought up in another thread very much the same as this one...
    Anyway - one in particular is professor at a university with a dry sense of humor and wonderfully intelligent with impeccable manners, we made friends - we meet over lunches, and talk real world stuff, the subject matter of dancing or any conversation about the industry is never discussed or ever brought up neither of us finding it very interesting anyway - its not what we found in common and THAT set him apart. A genuine friendship...no money involved we go dutch for lunch always and that was never discussed either - as it is with real friends you pay your OWN freight...further securing the reality of its validity.

    It can and does happen. Although in my particular realm it is an extreme exception, not terribly common at all.
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    It does happen.

    The first dancer I became good friends with was Chase Morgan, long before I started DJing. I actually got my first lap dance from her, but was perceptive enough to realize that it was merely business to her. We used to hang out in this funky little bottle club where she danced, which has since burnt down, probably by the owner. It was fun to smoke a bit of weed now and then in the office, and I got my first view of the true nature of the Stripclub world from her.

    It was as a result of visiting her at another club she worked in that I was hired as a DJ and got started in the business.

    She had a pole in her house and I used to love to play on it. I haven't seen her for a while, but will always remember her fondly.
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