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    This is a question for the ladies? I was recently in a club and sitting with a dancer, and we were waiting for the next song to start so she could give me a dance from the beginning of the next song. So we started talking and she starts talking nasty! She starts talking about how much she loves sex and how she loves to "suck cock and have balls hanging in my mouth" and would love to have sex with me- I would never even consider whatever she might have been hinting at there! I'm pretty tame about things and kind of on the shy side and I just sat there and listened respectively and nodded with a freaked grin. Would any of you consider going up to a customer and talking that nasty? Or have you? Would you consider it over the line? Thanks.

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    This is a question for the ladies? I was recently in a club and sitting with a dancer, and we were waiting for the next song to start so she could give me a dance from the beginning of the next song. So we started talking and she starts talking nasty! She starts talking about how much she loves sex and how she loves to "suck cock and have balls hanging in my mouth" and would love to have sex with me- I would never even consider whatever she might have been hinting at there! I'm pretty tame about things and kind of on the shy side and I just sat there and listened respectively and nodded with a freaked grin. Would any of you consider going up to a customer and talking that nasty? Or have you? Would you consider it over the line? Thanks.
    Obviously I'm not a lady (despite the long locks LOL), but I have questions. How old are you and how much SC going experience do you have? As far as I know and have experienced, such 'dirty talk" is very common, because it supposedly heightens the customers desires, which usually translates into increased number of dances and more money for them. It’s pretty effective, for the most part. Anyone who is a veteran of SC’s would have experienced this, voluntarily or (in my case) involuntarily numerous times.

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    I would consider it to imply a lack of experience on her part. There are girl's and customer's alike that use or enjoy using " naughty talk " as an act of enticement. Most would only use it in a welcome environment to enhance the experience. There are guy's that absolutely love that kind of talk and other's that would be a bit squeamish about it. The average girl would be able to figure which one you were far before you had purchased a dance from her. Some men are rather nasty in SC's because they fell there cash give's them a right to go over the line and say thing's they wouldn't normally say to a woman he meet in a different environment.


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    I totally agree crazybob!! She should have evaluated the situation a little more and noticed what type of guy you are magnus and went from there.

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    Exactly true, crazybob. Being subtle works very well though. If you are doing a dance, men like to hear the occasional whisper. moaning softly during a lapdance doesn't hurt, or telling them that they have soft hair/ skin....I don't think it very ladylike to to use words like "fuck" or "cock" or even "dick". Besides, your body should be doing most of the talking.

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    I would burst out laughing at a girl saying those things to me - I give you credit that you didnt Magnus! LOL!!!
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    This is a question for the ladies? I was recently in a club and sitting with a dancer, and we were waiting for the next song to start so she could give me a dance from the beginning of the next song. So we started talking and she starts talking nasty! She starts talking about how much she loves sex and how she loves to "suck cock and have balls hanging in my mouth" and would love to have sex with me- I would never even consider whatever she might have been hinting at there! I'm pretty tame about things and kind of on the shy side and I just sat there and listened respectively and nodded with a freaked grin. Would any of you consider going up to a customer and talking that nasty? Or have you? Would you consider it over the line? Thanks.
    honestly if she was hot I would have whipped out the wallet at that point and taken her home-with a condom of course
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    It depends on the customer club and girl. My buddy just started working at a high volume super crowded club and was having trouble getting her footing. One of her coworkers recommended that she talk dirty back to all the guys who were overtly sexual in communication with her while she was making her introduction. So her new line to the guys who say things like ooh I would love to suck on those double Ds is well how about we head to the VIP and while u can't suck on them you can play with them $100 a song to touch the girls and the standard $60 will get my hot wet pussy grinding all over your big cock. She hasn't gotten a no yet from the dirty boys. For all the regular customers she uses her standard hi my name is deal.
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    i agree that its not out of the ordinary...but not very professional/ladylike IMO. lots of girls do this, so its nothing you should really freak out about, but i think there are much better ways to go about getting your money and enhancing the experience while still keeping your dignity in tact.

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    ooh I would love to suck on those double Ds is well how about we head to the VIP and while u can't suck on them you can play with them $100 a song to touch the girls and the standard $60 will get my hot wet pussy grinding all over your big cock.
    she actually says all that? LAME!

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    It's too much information.
    She seems to lack experience.
    Sensual talk that blends with dancing is one thing. She may have crossed a line that will scare customers off, or have them think she is looking for "extra money" inside or out of the club. I have not worked with anyone i heard of talking like that. Save it for the husband/boyfriend....bedroom.
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    I honestly think dirty talk of that caliber hilarious its its utterance!! Just friggen hilarious and I wish I was a guy so I could get some just to laugh my ass off!!!

    BAH HA HA HA!!!!!

    No offense to those that use it and succeed with it - I am just of the mind set that its so damn ludicrous.....
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    I honestly think dirty talk of that caliber hilarious its its utterance!! Just friggen hilarious and I wish I was a guy so I could get some just to laugh my ass off!!!

    BAH HA HA HA!!!!!

    No offense to those that use it and succeed with it - I am just of the mind set that its so damn ludicrous.....
    I agree (and have stated it before). Such "dirty talk" to me, is only sensual and sensuous with someone who I am in a relationship with, because then its real. From someone who I am not in a relationship, its such a turn off. In fact, it can make me laugh and sorta revolt me at the same time. Totally unsolicited "dirty talk" has happened to me alot over the last two years. In every instance it influenced me to not get any sort of dance with the dancer.

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    Default Re: Is this over the line?

    I think that's over the line. Maybe that's because of my own personal boundaries, but I hate it when a customer says anything resembling "dirty talk" to me. It makes me feel nauseous. I never ever indulge it or respond in kind. I have told customers to just be quiet and enjoy the dance a few times. Sometimes I laugh because it does sound hilarious (when I don't find it sickening). Why the hell do customers dirty talk to the dancers? They can't possibly think we'd get turned on by it. Anyway, I agree that the dancer made a judgment call mistake. Either that or it is just her standard approach. I know I could never do that; I can't even hear it without cringing.

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