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    Okee, I have to get in on this one, a little late. The first and only time I ever went to a strip club was in SAN FRANCISCO and the girls were awful! We were in North Beach, the strip club capital of the world. I walked out of there wanting to die! You would think that with all the skeezy mofo's I'm sure they dealt with that me sitting there smiling warmly at them, looking at them appreciatively, not leering would have been a welcome change of pace. Nope. All I could think was "yay for her, she's pretty and happy about it," or "oooh, wonder where she get's her nifty shoes."

    I was with two guys, my buddy and his roommate and you could totally tell we weren't anything other than buddies. It was actually my buddy's birthday. Anyway, I spent the whole night staring at my lap, feet, the wall etc. The girls freegin glared at me!!! What in gawds name did I do to deserve that?

    The only cash I had on me was $20s and I was having a good night and totally willing to part with it, just to tip the girls had they not made me wanna crawl under my chair.

    Oh, but then there was RocketGirl and from that moment on I wanted to be like her! She was sooo cute! Unfortunately I was leary to pull my head out of my lap, but she rocked. Mostly because she was willing to be friendly to me, make me comfortable, and perhaps make me a paying customer. Oh and goodness she wore the cutest clothes! I must have a sort of superhero outfit like her.

    Anyway, the point is, be nice to us girls damnit! I like a pretty girl as much as any guy, if not more. Girls are so socially conditioned to be awful to us. Start a revolution of sorts, be nice to each other!

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    Just sit down and talk to the female customers. Within two minutes you will be able to tell if she's there to have fun or not. Also, if the female is with a man, always, always approach the woman first.
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    I am female and I went to a strip club for the fisrt time Tuesday night. I went with my husband and a bunch of other couples. Before we went i had some stipulation were he had to sit back from the stage and they could not touch him. Well once we got there and we watched for alittle while. I realized that the girls are very decent girls and just doing there job. Its all really in fun. So i let him sit by the stage and I sat with him. I even let the girl rub here chest in his face. and I was not bothered by it at all. I lighted up even more and let her rub on me(which made my husbands day) We had two lap dances and had a great time. It was a very eye opening experince. The girls are not trashy they are very respectable and alot of fun. And it was the most fun i have ever had with a girl. And would definiatly go again.

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    I am a woman and I have been to only one club so far, but plan on visiting more with my husband. I don't judge, and I am anything but uptight. We love going to clubs together! It is really fun, and if we both get to look at beautiful girls, WOW!!

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    The first and only thing I wanted to do on my 21st birthday was go to strip club! So I went, watched all the beautiful ladies, etc. but began noticing that NONE of them would approach me. They would swarm to the table of any guy who sat down, but NONE of the dancers asked me once if I wanted a dance! After that night I decided a.) I wanted to be a dancer and b.) I would always at least approach women. I've yet to be turned down after approaching a couple. I do find it harder, as ya'll have said, to get my guts together and say hi, but it always pays off.

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    The money is the same, so why not? I think its harder to approach them, but I usually get the eye from them anyway, so I figure you have to chance the "you wanna dance tonight" question to the ladies as well. Usually they wouldn't be sitting there unless they had some interest. Ever pass a guy by cause you just couldn't ask, then watch someone else hit em up and get the dance? That's why I ask the ladies when they're there.

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    Hello I am new here. I wanted to say I take my husband whenever he wants to go. I think women are beautiful and no I have never had a experience with another women. I love to see him look at other women. Shit I like to look women's bodies they are a work of god and should be appreciated!! I can not stand a women who will go just to baby sit or try to find something wrong with one of the girls to me they are insucure themselves and just try to find something wrong with another girl just to make themselves feel better. I had one of our friends buy me a table dance I was emmbaressed because it was the first time I loved it and she was very respectfull and asked me if it was ok I said well sure go ahead sat on my hands I did not want to disrepect anyone there. It was great and the Penthouse Pet of the year was there Andi Sue Irwin. She is very nice and not stuck on herself at all. Well I just thought I would share my thoughts with you since I am on the outside looking in.

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    I went into a club in NOLA with my friend the ex stripper, her boyfriend, and this other couple friend of mine. The other couple sat in the corner and looked pissed while the ex stripper, her bf, and I sat at the stage and tipped the dancers like mad. It really annoyed me that none of the dancers approached me or her for dances. We'd both planned on buying each other a lapdance or two (or three!) for the fun of it. But none of the dancers approached us.

    I was really disappointed. Yes, I'm a bisexual female, so I'm there for the same reasons the guys are. Yes, I had cash in hand to buy the dances and give tips. Yes, I was keeping my hands to myself. I felt really excluded and was annoyed.

    Then some asshole customer tried to fucking touch me! I got so mad! You can't touch the dancers (duh), so why should you be able to touch other customers?

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    No problems here. Have danced for and liked dancinng for female custormers.
    When they want to touch, that is when I tell them about the special rooms, with corresponding increased rates. That usually ends it. Sometimes,
    Other times, they are willing. Let's go!, I say, let's go, and we go.

    No, women are not any different to me, the money is the same, they want the same end result like everybody else. LIke its said, a customer is a customer is a customer.

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    But I don't feel uncomfortable dancing for women. As matter of fact I enjoy it lot more than I do for men. Hey, might as well as let it out now. I am bi with it leaning more towards women. Yeah, baby, Le bontemps, Laissez y roulez!

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    I have no idea how that got there. I am balming my son. sorry!
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    prrfektwurld, I know what you mean by cash in hand. I have outright asked for dancers to come by our table and they don't, they seem to go for the younger crowd, and heck, we're only just 40.

    Seldom will dancers approach when my wife is with me, and some that do seem to be only interested in her. However, that rare jewel that does take the chance is usually the type we like anyway, a little bolder, a little crazy, and most importantly the fun ones. I say try again, finding the right dancer is a pleasure.

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    When I danced I would head straight for the couples. I would make small talk, dance for the female, then the male. After seeing me dance for the female, alot of the other customers would ask ME for a dance.

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    For what it si worth, I will periodically go to the club with my wife by my side. She (and I) are always respectful. I'm always amused at how much attention she gets...because she is an enjoyable person, but never intrusive. She just likes to go along at times and have a little innocent fun.
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    I have much better luck when I go to a club alone...the dancers will approach me and I don't have any trouble getting dances. However, when I go to a new club with a male friend the dancers tend to be very wary, since they assume that the male I am with is my husband/BF. So I try to go mostly alone

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    Oh geez.....sorry girls.....! I think I had more fun than I was supposed to when I got my first lap dance. I tried to figure out how far the dancer would go, and she didn;t seem to mind when I touched her (I did ask first). Man, it was totally hot, but then I've always had bi tendencies. Can't wait to go again......

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    Only had two good experiences dancing for women.

    One was a group of lesbians that came in . They were friendly tipped all the girls on stage and treated us repectfully during dances. Dropped a good amount of $$$$$

    The other was when a busioness man brought his secretary in (her first time to a topless club). She was so polite, fun and excited to be there. She had more fun than he did. He dropped $5000.00 between myself and another dancer. They did not touch us inappropriately once during the dances and we were mostly paid for time and having fun with them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brandi004
    The other was when a busioness man brought his secretary in (her first time to a topless club). She was so polite, fun and excited to be there. She had more fun than he did. He dropped $5000.00 between myself and another dancer. They did not touch us inappropriately once during the dances and we were mostly paid for time and having fun with them.
    Glad fun was had by all (and that you banked big time) but this guy has to be a total moron. Talk about setting up yourself and/or your employer for a sexual harrassment suit

    Off topic I know but it blows my mind that someone could be so stupid.

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    Um, I'm thinking that was their cover story, FBR . . .

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    Um, I'm thinking that was their cover story, FBR . . .
    Susan, LOL

    I bow to your craftiness I cant believe I didnt think of that

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    I have read through most of the thread and am amazed at the differences in preferences that dancers have of female customers. My hubby and I are from San Antonio and love to go out to the clubs. No he doesn't have to drag me there. And I love to watch him, but it isn't because I am babysitting him.

    How can I show you girls that I want you to come over - that I won't bite (unless, of course - you want me to! ) Like if we sit close to the stage, does that make you think we are being cheap? I would rather a girl that is comfortable with a couple approach us then ask for a dance from someone who isn't into a girl.

    I am truly there to have a good time, but because I am shy at first, you may not know that just by looking at me - so don't be afraid to come over and chat. We will probably make it worth your while!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sunshine828
    I have read through most of the thread and am amazed at the differences in preferences that dancers have of female customers. My hubby and I are from San Antonio and love to go out to the clubs. No he doesn't have to drag me there. And I love to watch him, but it isn't because I am babysitting him.

    How can I show you girls that I want you to come over - that I won't bite (unless, of course - you want me to! ) Like if we sit close to the stage, does that make you think we are being cheap? I would rather a girl that is comfortable with a couple approach us then ask for a dance from someone who isn't into a girl.

    I am truly there to have a good time, but because I am shy at first, you may not know that just by looking at me - so don't be afraid to come over and chat. We will probably make it worth your while!
    If you tip well and smile a lot at the dancers you are interested in you probably won't have any problem with not being approached... surely you are not too shy to tip or smile?

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR
    Susan, LOL

    I bow to your craftiness I cant believe I didnt think of that

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    Yeah,It probabably was his mistress. Hey, he can come back and bring her in anytime. I'll buy any bull shit story and smile if he's willing to spend the $$$$. Who knows they may have been married and were acting out some fantasy!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot
    If you tip well and smile a lot at the dancers you are interested in you probably won't have any problem with not being approached... surely you are not too shy to tip or smile?
    If you tell her you will make it worth her while , invite her over,and your friendly and fun , the dancer is comfortable with you and knows you are there just like the guys to have fun and spend money. I would not feel uncomfortable on that note because you invited me over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tori
    I am so thankful that females are not allowed at the club I work without a male escort. This makes it so much easier to approach a couple versues a female alone. Most of the time the male buys the female a dance and then she in turns repays the favor. Also, from what I have witnessed the female thinks that the no touching rules don't apply to her. Why is that??????????

    Tori ???

    What about lesbians? We have a HUGE amount of female couples that come in together (which I love cos they are both into it, rather than the girls that are dragged along to blow their guy in a private dance while I dance - long story- and then get kicked out)

    The no touching? Yeah when we get SS (smirking sl#ts) in with their friends they are ALWAYS being jerky like this! I had one guy ( another girls regular) butt in and say "girls if you cant behave get out and leave the REAL women for us good customers"

    Very rarely I find alone women. Mostly they are either curious,gay or thinking of working here, not "real" customers. Is this common in other places?

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexy_celeste
    Very rarely I find alone women. Mostly they are either curious,gay or thinking of working here, not "real" customers. Is this common in other places?
    What do you consider a "real" customer? A regular? Someone who buys dances? I go to clubs alone all the time...I prefer it that way. The dancers approach me alot more when I am not with a guy, and I figure it's probably because they assume that I'm gay (which I am), and that I want to spend $$$ and get dances. Works for me!!

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