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    Default Dining with a dancer

    The other thread went a little south but I have an amusing little story of my first real "date" with a dancer I thought I would share.

    OK. Here’s my first experience ever “dating” one of these ladies.

    I frequented a San Antonio club called Baby Dolls. I hang out there a lot after I closed my club because it was nearby and some of the people working for me liked it. I met “Sasha”, a young blonde dancer, one night and after talking to her off and on for weeks came to get to know her fairly well.

    Or so I thought.

    We went to breakfast a few times at a nearby IHOP,she wearing the typical TShirt and Jeans, me always in a suit. Strange couple but look at any Jims, Denny’s or IHOP around 3AM near stripclubs and you’ll see similar pairings.

    After a month or so she started bugging me to take her out to a nice dinner. She knew I went to some of the city’s finer restaurants and claimed to never get to go out nice.

    Yeah. Sure I thought. Beautiful young lady any guy would give his left nut for and no one taking her out? Sure.

    So I told her to dress up nice and I would take her out to a very nice place one evening.

    She was excited.

    The day comes and I make reservations at La Camelia at the Wyndahm which is convenient to my club as well as where she lives. Upscale European fine dining. One of those places that took pictures of regular or well known clients and put them on the walls in fancy frames. (I’ll never forget the night my 1st wife noticed my picture on the wall in 3 different locations with 3 different ladies. She’s the “Ex” wife now. But that’s another story)


    So I drop by her place on the evening we agreed on. As I get out of the car to go to her door this bronze gal comes bouncing out the front door of her apartment wearing a gold lame miniskirt, black corset, gold jacket buttoned at waist, black fishnet hose and a large brim pink floppy hat.!

    Her idea of “nice”!

    Pretty ugly picture? That’s not the worse of it. Sasha was infatuated with being tan.

    Sasha was also incredibly lazy and seldom crawled out of bed before 3-4 in the afternoon missing all the sun.

    This was 1986 and “tanning pills” were on the market. Advertised to turn the skin a nice bronze “natural” look. Once again . This was 1986…… All kinds of novelty items back then. Although the “burnt orange ”hue on the surface of her skin was tolerable in low light, the pills had tuned all the naturally white parts on her (palms, soles, ) a “glow in the dark orange!

    What the hell had I got myself into? A glow in the dark hooker from hell!

    So as I’m seating her in the car I’m thinking to myself “maybe the drive thru of McDonalds”.

    But daddy raised a true gentleman and I had gotten myself into this mess. So I sucked it up.

    We arrived at the restaurant and Zeke, the maitre’d, summed up the situation quite rapidly.

    “Mr K. So good to see you this evening” he said. “I’m so sorry your regular table is not available tonight but if you follow me I have a wonderful location for you and your lady”

    Off to the back…… and into a corner…… we went. He disappeared for a few minutes and the lights dimmed.

    A lot.

    A few minutes later he arrived at the table with vase of flowers that appeared “picked” from the lobby arrangements. He placed them in the center of the table in front of Sasha and stated that the flowers I had ordered for the lady had arrived earlier.


    Now Sasha is in heaven. This place carried one of the highest ratings for service and here she was all dressed up being waited on and fussed over by the finest. With Flowers even!

    In reality….. She’s in the back, in a corner, in the dark, and behind a tree!

    At the end of the evening I excused myself telling her I would bring the car around closer to the entrance.

    Reality? I was getting out of there so no one would see me with her. Zeke walked her to the door for me.

    Zeke got slipped a Franklin at the end of the night for the creativity he displayed. The next time I went in he commented that she was not “my normal type of companion”.

    Sasha and I became good friends over the years and eventually she learned to dress appropriately. I only experienced one other serious scare as she planned to attend a fund raiser at the Dominion with me and I overheard her talking to a friend about whether to wear the "Lime Green nini dress or the Blue shimmer mini-gown" I all of a sudden developed a need to go out of town on business that day.

    She did have the ability to make me laugh at times no others could. Sweet gal.

    I learned also after that to offer to take a lady shopping for a new outfit sometimes if I had a special place in mind for dinner. I avoided embarrassment and she had an extra special night in a new outfit.



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    Default Re: Dining with a dancer

    The fact is, many dancers are very young and have never been on 'proper' outings, so when the oppoturnity arises, they wind up looking silly due to their vast inexperience. Also, in the case of some, maybe the phrase 'You can take the girl out of the strip club, but you can't take the strip club out of the girl' would be appropriate. I also find it amusing that many strippers can afford to spend thousands of dollars on work outfits and flashy club attire, but don't think of buying a few outfits of a more classic quality.

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    ................ I also find it amusing that many strippers can afford to spend thousands of dollars on work outfits and flashy club attire, but don't think of buying a few outfits of a more classic quality.

    When I met my wife that was the case with her. I used to call her a "3 bagger" because she carried a bag of dresses an T-Backs, a Bag of shoes and a Bag for her makeup.

    But when she finally accepted a dinner date with me she tried to beg off at the last minute when one of the other girls told her how she would need to dress for the resteraunt we were going to. She ended up letting me take her shopping for a new outfit earlier in the day and things were different afterwards.

    In defense of the situation she WAS taking care of her mom at the time.

    But her entire wardrobe consisted of jeans and shorts, Tshirts and halter tops. The only thing she ever spent money on was stage attire.

    Along that same line though is the truly amazing amount of money that comes through some of the ladies hands yet they are always broke and scrambling for rent.


    Over the years I've bought many a lady a new outfit so they could go out with me. I had a standing account at a 5-7-9 in a mall in San Antonio for a while and I would just have ladies stop by there after their shift, change into something new and we would go out from there.



    I will say that I've bought some stage attire as well but the greatest appreciation has come for the $59 dress at the mall vs the $200 outfit at the club.


    BTW Bridgette....Here in Key West we refer to Lobster as "crawfish"... want some of those?
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    Default Re: Dining with a dancer

    Not all dancers are like that some actually have class.. You gota watch who you chose.. and were you choose them. some of girls start dancing young and arent exactly shown the "finer things". Which isnt exactly their fault..



    As for the scrambling for rent deal.. with money comes responsibilities.. Some that people just arent ready for... or just dont WANT to be ready for.


    Maybe if its a companion your looking for.. a strip club isnt exactly the best of places to start looking.

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    Maybe if its a companion your looking for.. a strip club isnt exactly the best of places to start looking.

    nahhhh..... I've looked in all thre regular places many times through the years,,,,,


    I'll take a dancer over a gal I meet at Bingo any day!
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    No kidding! I've seen countless girls wheeling in those great big suitcases and wondered what on earth they could possibly need so much stuff for - and they're ALWAYS asking to borrow eyeliner, deodorant, body spray, mint, razors, baby wipes, brush, hairdryer, etc. I only carry a regular backpack and I manage to keep all those things plus my makeup, shoes and clothes for the night in there.

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    Default The wife was one of the "Loaners"

    She could never say "No" so I would buy her big bottles of CheapPerfume and stuff just to "loan" and she could keep the expensive stuff to herself.
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    Default Re: Dining with a dancer

    I agree with the other girls strip clubs are not a good place to meet girls cause the girls that are serious about making money and that have class are focused on making the money not dates.

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    Bridgette, it always boggles me as to the amount of crap some girls bring in! I leave most of my clothes in my locker, taking a few home to wash. GIrls come in wheeling suitcases- really, don't they realize folded costumes and thongs organized by color all end up dumped out onto the locker room floor by the end of the night anyway? They bring shoes to match almost every outfit. One girl at my club doesn't even strip but rather changes costumes in between songs. Weird stuff.....
    "Just 'cause she dances go-go, that don't make her a 'ho, no.....called up my Mama, said 'I'm in love with this stripper yo.'"
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