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    My thoughts: If I was interested in a guy outside of the club, I would let him know. I have made friends through the club (though VERY few) and in my eight years I have also formed romantic relationships with guys I have met (though never danced for). I always initiate the outside contact usually by getting his phone number. I would think if she is interested, SHE will let you know.

    Ever though we are dancers too, our guess is really just about as good as yours. I see this has really got you thinking. It can't hurt to ask her. Then again, if she is playing a game to get you interested to make more money, she can say things to lead you on as well.... Just ask her and see what she says.

    A woman in my old club (she's married and has "relationships" with customers for monies outside of work) had one guy so worked up and she had messed with him so bad that he ended up committing suicide. Naturally he must have other problems but she NOW has a guy who is thinking of leaving his OWN WIFE for HER when she has not intentions on leaving HER HUSBAND! She is just after their money.

    I don't think women should play these games with men, whether they are entertainers or not. I HATE boys (Notice:NOT MEN!) who play games and therefor try to stay away from it myself even if it is to make a buck.

    I have had some good paying regulars in the past, but they always knew that nothing was to come out of our dancer/customer relationship, other than an actual friendship of sorts.

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    There's an unhealthy manipulative side of dancer kissing, but there's a healthy side as well. Check out



    I knew a contact dancer who used her face and eyes up close in every dance. She'd come close to "touch and go" kissing. Then when she knew you well and felt comfortable, she'd actually do it, but you could never be certain it really happened. Very erotic and captivating.

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    I'm not too sure if this girl would tell you the truth. If it was me and I kissed almost everyone of my customers while giving them a dance and you asked me bluntly if you were "special" and you were the only one getting this type of treatment I would tell you exactly what you want to hear - YES! Remember, I am your fantasy girl and I'll be anything you want me to be for your money!
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    Thanks again for all the replies, it has been really helpful.

    I would gather I will be making a return visit sooner rather than later, so I guess I will go and see what happens. Just be observant, but mostly just enjoy it and try not to over-analyze! Like many of you said, if there was an interest, I am sure I will know. But again, I should just go and have fun!

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    SuzyRea, I read your post, and it's pretty intriguing, to say the least. I think it would be really cool to come to your club and talk to you. You definitely interest me. I guess you are based in Minneapolis, would you mind if I asked what club you work at? I think I would like to be a regular of yours...:-)

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    I've been kissed by married women. In fact, i think I get kissed by more married women and women in committed relationships than I do single women. Most times it is a matter of familiarity. But we both understand each other and I don't recognize it as a "pass".
    It may just be a technique this girl uses but simply do not let your imagination get away with you. If you are really curious ,try taking it to a different level (ask her out) and see how she responds. Eventually you will call her bluff if that's what it is.

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    LIVE LONG & PROSPER!
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    A good customer I will kiss on the cheek. A very good customer I will kiss on the lips. A great customer I will French kiss. A Fantastic customer... (I won't post it on the board).

    But I would not read anything into it. The more sexual we make it for the customers, the more they are willing to spend. That's not to say she doesn't like you. She may find you attractive, but not want any relationship outside the club.
    How could you! That is so sick!What if those men you were kissing had some STD.Girls that will do anything for $$$$$ make me so [shameful] [shameful] [grr] [grr] [grr] [grr] [grr] [grr] [flaming] [flaming] [flaming] [flaming] [flaming] [flaming]mad.If you wanna act like a ho ,go find a corner.
    Symmy

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    Symone - are you a dancer?

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