My thoughts: If I was interested in a guy outside of the club, I would let him know. I have made friends through the club (though VERY few) and in my eight years I have also formed romantic relationships with guys I have met (though never danced for). I always initiate the outside contact usually by getting his phone number. I would think if she is interested, SHE will let you know.
Ever though we are dancers too, our guess is really just about as good as yours. I see this has really got you thinking. It can't hurt to ask her. Then again, if she is playing a game to get you interested to make more money, she can say things to lead you on as well.... Just ask her and see what she says.
A woman in my old club (she's married and has "relationships" with customers for monies outside of work) had one guy so worked up and she had messed with him so bad that he ended up committing suicide. Naturally he must have other problems but she NOW has a guy who is thinking of leaving his OWN WIFE for HER when she has not intentions on leaving HER HUSBAND! She is just after their money.
I don't think women should play these games with men, whether they are entertainers or not. I HATE boys (Notice:NOT MEN!) who play games and therefor try to stay away from it myself even if it is to make a buck.
I have had some good paying regulars in the past, but they always knew that nothing was to come out of our dancer/customer relationship, other than an actual friendship of sorts.



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How could you! That is so sick!What if those men you were kissing had some STD.Girls that will do anything for $$$$$ make me so [shameful] [shameful] [grr] [grr] [grr] [grr] [grr] [grr] [flaming] [flaming] [flaming] [flaming] [flaming] [flaming]mad.If you wanna act like a ho ,go find a corner.

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