I can't stop thinking of Bridgette. She has been dancing away at her club while I've been at another!! But I can't get her off my mind! Oh God, help me.





I can't stop thinking of Bridgette. She has been dancing away at her club while I've been at another!! But I can't get her off my mind! Oh God, help me.
Same here. My ATF, very good friends (no sex) is on vacation and all I do is think of her. She's gone on vacation before, but this time....scary
Carlos why are you at a different club in San Juan, when you can go to Divas in San Juan and see her?
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Can't say, Pamela, it's personal.
OK Carlos, Hope someone comes along who will be your ATF. Give it time it will happen.![]()
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Well, Pamela, I'm giving myself some time to cool off. I'll be back at her club soon. This is something that will pass and it will be back to business as usual.





Ahh yes, absence makes the heart grow fonder.I can't stop thinking of Bridgette. She has been dancing away at Divas is San Juan while I've been at Deja Vu, also in San Juan. Even had a FS!! But I can't get her off my mind! Oh God, help me.
I haven't seen my ATF in almost a month and its driving me a tad nuts too. And I have to go see the doctor for some pain in my lower back tomorrow so until he gives me the okay, no lap dances for me.
In case anyone was wondering, that's NOT how I got injured.![]()
Former SCJ now in rehab.




Yes Carlos, I feel your pain. I haven't seen my ATF in seven weeks. Going to see her Tuesday. I'm like a little kid waiting for Christmas![]()
"when it comes to staying young, a mind-lift beats a face-lift any day" ~ Marty Bucella

It sounds it's not normal to remain friends with a lady once she leaves her club? I gave my lady friend a call the other day after not talking to her for nearly a year and we picked up right where we left off. Nothing is going to happen but we enjoy sharing each other's time and where either of us is working at makes no difference.





Wonder how I'll feel when I return to her clubYes Carlos, I feel your pain. I haven't seen my ATF in seven weeks. Going to see her Tuesday. I'm like a little kid waiting for Christmas![]()
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i had a ATF in a club i used to go to weekly. one day i go there ready to party and the place has been closed. i saw her once after that and never saw her again. went through a withdrawl period for alittle while. i started going to another club and met and became friends with the most beautiful dancer i have ever seen. now i see her weekly and she is my new ATF. so you dont know what you got till its gone, so enjoy while you can





Carlos, you sound like a decent guy so please don't take offense, but do you think that perhaps your feelings for this girl are starting to become unhealthy for you.





Unhealthy? How? :-/. Try being a bit more specific. But then again, don't. I get the idea and quite honestly, it's nothing to worry about.
The threads you've started are a sign Carlos. Three words... or better yet, one acronym... RIL. Be cool and avoid her ASAP.Unhealthy? How? .





I don't think it's a RIL thing when I've decided to cool off and not visit her club till late this month at least, then waiting till her return from her implants operation (I think it's in June), which would be another two months. It would be a RIL thing if I kept visiting the club every week, even in detriment of my finances. So, "guest", I dissagree with you.The threads you've started are a sign Carlos. Three words... or better yet, one acronym... RIL. Be cool and avoid her ASAP.




Wow isn't that the truth. The hardest thing for me to do is walk out of the club at the end of the night after saying goodbye to my ATF knowing it will be a month or so before I can see her again. For the next few days I can't stop thinking of her. Then it begins to wane as I return to my real life, until a couple of days before I am to return. Then the longing begins to come back. It’s definitely a crush, but it makes me feel like a kid again, and I love the feeling.I have crushes, too, on dancers and on other ladies, that will never come to anything. I miss the ladies when they're not around, I look forward to seeing them, I enjoy them when we're together, and if we part ways permanently, I'm sad. But I enjoy my crushes. They remind me that I'm alive.
Do any of you guys feel the same ?
"when it comes to staying young, a mind-lift beats a face-lift any day" ~ Marty Bucella





Yeah, Chuck, when one is with his ATF it feels like it's forever and when you say and kiss goodnight one feels distraught then after a couple of days one goes about with his life but cannot get her off his mind. Most people may think this is unhealthy but quite frankly it's a reminder that we're alive, we have feelings and we ENJOY life to the fullest.




Oh yeah and when you get that gleam in your eye or a little smile on your face during the day when you think of her and only you know why!
Don't make me spank you!





Oh, BELIEVE ME, that's what I've been doing these past few weeks I haven't been to her club! A really hot looking brunette had me in a trance at a New Orleans-style restaurant-bar in MayagĂĽez, PR last night but I inevitably ended up in a strip club in nearby Hormigueros, where I found a dancer I've seen at another club in Isabela and was happy to see her againI would try to mix it up with other dancers and if you are single, keep pursuing women in the real world so as to not get lazy or fixated on a fantasy. Buenos suerte..




Geeze that happened to me todayOh yeah and when you get that gleam in your eye or a little smile on your face during the day when you think of her and only you know why!My wife asked me what I was smiling about. Told I was just thinking about her.
She didn't buy itI guess I've been with her toooo long.
"when it comes to staying young, a mind-lift beats a face-lift any day" ~ Marty Bucella




Hey Chuck,
When I get caught at home I tell her I have gas:o
Don't make me spank you!
I need some help. I just the most incredible woman at a SC in Vegas a couple of days ago and can't stop thinking about her. i live on the East Coast and won't be going back to Vegas for another year. How do you guys forget about your favorite entertainers, especially when you know you won't be seeing her for a long period of time? Thanks!
ahhhh well I saw both my favs this week,, (quite unusual), one I mostly see at the club only, while the other one I took out to dinner. When I finally get in the club after a while of not making it, I am always so amazed at how I feel, I said to one of them "I dont know if u realize what little willpower I have when in ur presence,,,, ahhh its really a beautiful thing,,,,,,,,,,





Yup, that's the problem with me, only that it's now with two Divas dancers, not just one. Thinking of them, within the dancer-client boundaries, of course.
I know how your feeling, man. One of my ATF maybe works 1 night a month if I'm lucky I'd catch her. I like my club. Everybody is roommates with each other. The other one I'm there sometimes twice a week because I like hanging with her. It's actually quite funny. Fridays she hangs with me half the night just chilling. She doesn't hussle anybody unless bills to pay or she knows the guy has money.
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