Hi,
I am relatively new to these boards and to strip clubs in general. I find the topics and honest conversations here a true treasure to understanding what dancers go through and the respect they deserve.
One dancer in particular caught my attention for the entire evening. We talked for a while and I soon asked for a dance from her.
Now I know a dancer has to make a living, and money is a priority and I want to be a good and pleasant customer. After reading through some threads here, I was just wondering how much of my experience was part of the whole "fantasy act" versus unusual practice for dancers.
First off, she kept pointing out a girl in plain clothes across the bar who was staring at her. Telling me that the other girl recently got in a fight with her friend and wanted to beat her up too. Was this part of an "adventure fantasy" she was providing for me, or is this kind of rivalry common among dancers?
Second, at particular times during conversation and dancing she would stop and almost out of character say "You are so nice." Girls say this to everyone right?
She also asked if I had a girlfriend. I would think most dancers wouldn't want to know either way. I said yes.
I bought 12 dances from her in succession. Although she wasn't even keeping count - when I asked her how many that was, she said, "You tell me."
Is 12 in a row too many? Should I have let her rest or something? I certainly would have liked to talk more but girls have to make money, I know.
During the dances, she was grinding pretty hard after awhile. Honestly, if I was 18 I would have came in my pants, but I know that isn't considered polite, and I didn't.
Then she asked for my email and she gave me hers and said she'll email me so I know it is her.
As the club was closing and the other dancers were already dressed and leaving, she came and sat next to me still nude and talked some more.
As we left, she put out her cheek for me to kiss and I did, gladly.
Is this a typical experience? I'm sorry if this is a stupid question, but out of 4 clubs I've been to, this seemed all very unusual. Perhaps, I am overanalyzying it, but either way it was a very satisfying experience, so I guess it worked.



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