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    Default How YMMV are you?

    I was just curious to know how different can your dances be. They always say good boys get better dances. Do you tell someone to stop touching your boobs cuz they didn't ask and let the patient one caress them? Also if your having a bad day do you give less contact and more if your in a good mood?
    whats a PL to do?

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    Default Re: How YMMV are you?

    YMMV= Your Mileage May Vary (Basically, when guys talk about dancers in terms letting other customers know that a girl may react more positively to certain customers than others)
    Personally, the only one who will be caressing my breasts is ME Hehehe.. I have open holes in my nips (piercings) and no way is my shit getting infected to simply lighten up someone else's day

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    I am 100% YMMV! The way I dance, how flirty I am, and whether or not I'm playful depends on how I get along with that particular client. While I have favorite clients and their dances are always better, I don't offer extras to anyone.

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    I am totally YMMV. Physically, my dances don't change that much, I use the same moves. But the intensity and the err.. stimulation is much better for men who appreciate what they're getting. I'll even let them touch my back or play with my hair in a champagne room (which normal customers are never allowed to do).

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    Basically, my dances are the same for everyone as in,,,if you are nicer you don't get to touch anymore than the last guy. The only time this is not the case is when the guy is almost too drunk/rude to dance for,,,then I rell him he has to sit on his hands completly. If I am not worried about the guy grabbing things he isn't supposed to, then the dance will be much more seductive, and natural,,,as opposed to cautious and mechanical. No matter how nice you are,,,you cannot break my "golden rules" contrary to what alot of guys seem to think.
    There is no question I hate more than "what can I get for "X" amount of cash?" and "but I'm a nice/cute guy aren't I?"
    I don't care what you look like or how much cash you say you have...rules are rules.
    If you are friendly and respectful, then you will have a good experience, simple as that.

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    While I try not to let it show when I'm in a bad mood, I'm sure it does. As far as YMMV, sure. If a guy has been polite and fun to be around, it's only natural that you will be more relaxed with him and he'll get a better dance.
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    Vary? Most definitely! The regular, who comes in a few times a week, spends lots of money and tips well at the end of the dance, is probably going to get a more enthusiastic dance than the guy spending 20 bucks for one song and leaves. That's not to say the guy spending 20 bucks isn't going to get a good dance. I pride myself on giving good dances to all my customers. That's the way to get repeat/regular cusomers. Know matter what though, they all have to abide by the rules. Just because you may be spending more money than the other guy, doesn't mean you get to break more rules. If I can't control you.(I usually can!) I'll get up and leave.

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    I feel sorry for any dancer who is not YMMV, and I belive she is missing out on what makes our job different from liling documents in a office. When a great guy is spending time and money with you, the time just flies right by. 99% of the guys in our club are not molesting us, nor are they pushing any unwanted advances THAT WE CAN'T HANDLE. If a guy starts going somewhere I don't want him to, I have NEVER had to do anything ut tell him no once or twice. It doesn't cause me to get upset, lose sleep, etc... When the SPECIAL guys are in, there is no better job on the planet. They are kind, polite, and have a greater appreciation for dancers than any other customer and any other trade.

    Not YMMV? Try it, you'll like it.

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    Thats the thing though, I'm more of a causual SC patron who goes maybe once a month and tries as many girls I can. I cap my spending to around 150 per dancer and then move on to a new one. I don't have an ATF cuz that defeats the purpose for me.Its kinda unnerving and fun trying a new girl out, will we click and start a new series of wonderful laps together or will it be a 20 waste of time? I like to try so and so but I hear she's YMMV, word is shes really cool if she likes you but shes mediocre if she doesn't.If word is that your moody and YMMV chances are I'm not going to try you out. I tend to go for dancers that are highly recommended by everyone else and treat everyone "special" when you're with her.
    whats a PL to do?

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    you make a good point. i feel like i do give everyone a good dance regardless if it's one or 20, BUT a guy that gets more than one will definatley make me a little more motivated to preform better.
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    I think i treated every guy pretty much the same, i looked at it like the "asshole" in the club was insecure, so i gave a little extra punch to him, and sometimes it backfires in his face, before he knows it he likes you, and wants more. A few guys i have turned down. The ones who want to grab. The ones with big mouths don't bother me, and it was a challenge, i just wanted to see if i can get him.
    Funny how you turn the tables on some (not all) guys and it works.
    So that being said i was not that type of dancer normally.
    Pamela

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    Default Re: How YMMV are you?

    From my perspective if the customer plays by the rules, the dancer may be more willing to bend them for you (though still within the rules of the club). I once knew a dancer in a no-touch club who would bring her nipples almost right up to my mouth in a very sensual tease...if one time I ever tried to get a nibble in she'd never do it again. But because I was a good boy she would keep teasing me, and we'd keep having a good time. One time she got visibly giddy and said "You are such a good boy!" to me :-)
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    Default Re: How YMMV are you?

    I only worked in "low milage" clubs. However, guys who were very nice would get a lot more attention, if you know what I mean. However, attention usually led to more tips, etc. etc. etc. If I liked a guy, I'd sit and chat with him for a song and then he'd almost always pay for a lap dance. If I liked him, I'd sit and chat a bit afterwards, too. Often, he'd want another lap dance after THAT.

    Also, even though these were "low milage" clubs, I could allow a little light touch (nipples on the face, etc.) for the "right" clients, if you know what I mean.

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    Yes, I'd have to say I'm a YMMV. Usually, if we're enjoying ourselves while talking out on the floor, I'll usually be a lil more enthusiastic, unless he gets out of hand. When I was working at the one club, they'd do 2 for 1s and tho it was a nude club, I'd keep my bottoms on for the first song to test them. If they behaved and didn't touch where they weren't supposed to, I'd take off the bottoms for the second. If not, the bottoms stayed on. But yes, if you're being polite and treating me like I'm a person and not a piece of meat, I'm generally nicer.

    But, nice or not, I do agree with Kennedy. Where I'm working now has totally changed and is clean now. The problem is I still get ppl that seem to think that for the right amount of money, they can do anything. (I actually had someone on yahoo say that dancers and whore were the same thing for the right amount of money.) I'm simple- no means no the first time around. I'll let you touch my breasts, but no sucking and certainly no touching the kitty. Why is it so hard for men to realize this? Ah well, that's why my lil motto is this:
    There are two types of men- boys and gentlemen. Boys think everything is a right; gentlemen understand everything is a priviledge.
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    Default Re:How YMMV are you?

    No offense meant to the ladies who posted above, but YMMV doesn't really apply to the degree of (near) airdances you all apparently give. Reading the responses so far is like saying YMMV between a Hummer2 and a Chevy Suburban. Either way, it ain't much.

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    I'm the naughty dancer who will give you a little cock-scrape mini-grind when the bouncer aint looking in all air-dance club. My hope is that you will buy 5 dances not 1.

    But...if your gut hangs out over your thing then I won't bother. If you smell (diabetes smell makes me ill) I won't touch you. Ditto if your tongue is sticking out, if your breath smells, if you are too drunk, or if you are blowing on me.

    Say ONE rude comment to me and your mileage will be 0. Get the bouncer upset and looking at me and again mileage be 0. Say anything to other dancers about how I did this or that...boom! Mileage down to 0.
    You get what you put up with

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    As a customer it's been my experience that YMMV is the norm with most girls. Buy multiple dances and they get better. Become someone's regular and they get better still. Plus I'm always clean and courseous, I'm sure that helps too. And I tip well.
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    Well if i was having a bad day, sometimes i would call in. I knew i could not be productive if i felt like staying home reading or walking my dog's.

    Other times i gave it a shot, and found the shitty personality works! Rare, but do-able at times. Also i worked low to no contact clubs, so never tits or ass grabbing.

    Pamela

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    This may sound strange coming from a guy but I actually think "no contact" clubs end up being way more fun than the full contact clubs. Not sure I can put my finger on why exactly. Perhaps I sense more of a "game" or more of a focus on a "show" in the non-contact clubs that I find entertaining. In many of the full contact clubs I sense a much more aggressive, business like approach between dancer and patron. Maybe that is too harsh or expansive generalization, but it is my general experience.

    Having said that, does that mean that there is not any contact happening in the "non-contact" clubs? No. I have been in non-contact clubs where there has been contact - from both sides of the booth! I certainly have never entered a club thinking "here is how I am going to get some contact tonight", but I can list a few things that I think have made for some great times in the clubs:

    1. Don't go in expecting contact
    2. Don't ask "Can I..."
    3. Don't expect contact the first time a woman dances for you
    4. Respect the dancers boundaries
    5. Treat the dancers with the respect they deserve. They are real people.
    6. Take time to talk with the dancers.
    7. Buy drinks
    8. I have a rule that if a dancer stops to talk, she deserves to be paid for her investment of time in me. So buy a dance or two even if you have your eyes on some other dancer.
    9. Don't just pay the "minimum price" for a dance. Tip.
    10. Make sure you both have a good time. It isn't all about you!

    I find the dances are way more fun if both parties are having a good time. And if that good time leads to contact, so be it. But if it doesn't, you probably just experienced a heck of a good dance anyway.
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    I'm a strictly medium-contact, one-way touch dancer. Of course, this is where YMMV comes in. Asshats who can't abide by this see their contact go lower... and lower... Gentlemen get the optimum mc/owt dances and gentlemen who spend serious money (5+ dances or regulars) additionally get minimal two-way contact.
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    It's often very hard for a customer to know what the rules are, especially in high-hustle clubs. I've had girls grab me by the arm and say "quick, lets go in back now while nobody's watching the monitors and we can do anything we want," (once that even turned out to be true - lol.) And it's pretty common in places where the girls circulate for tips after their stage dance for them to squeeze your hand and tip between the boobs while asking if you want a private dance. I've had one girl tell me that she wished all her customers were as polite as me, and another get pissed at me for the exact same behavior. That's one of the reasons I prefer seeing the same girl all the time, it avoids all these hassles. I try to find one I like and stick with her. And my choice usually has very little to do with how much touching she allows. Looks and personality are much more important to me.
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    Well, Chili, if you'd read all the posts, you'd know we're not talking about YMMV in the typical sense. We're meaning something totally different...and, FYI, I do erotic, full contact, lap dances, not air dances, so please try and get your information straight. Besides, as I stated earlier, dancers are there for basically one thing only- to dance. To assume that we MUST do something more is nothing more than an insult- at least to me. What do ya'll think? Also to Mini for his comments about how to get "farther", as it were, in a club.
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