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    on the blue site, there is a thread about if guys go alone or in a group and most responded by saying that they go alone most of the time including myself. My question for the ladies is whether you prefer to approach guys in a group or ones that fly solo?
    whats a PL to do?

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    I prefer to approach the guys that are alone. That's partly me, I'm more comfortable with just one guy, rather than a whole group. The other reason I go after the guys there are there alone is that I think they spend more money faster than a group of guys.
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    One guy or two is ok, but when bachelor party type groups come in......I stay far away. Mostly cause they are way to obnoxious. Seems like when you put too many guys together as a group in a strip club the more immature and annoying they get. I prefer the ones who are looking for some conversation and some hot dances. Not shouting "WHOO" at the top of their lungs.

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    I prefer the guys who come in solo but I do go up to groups. Like Lynn said, the groups tend to be more obnoxious. Plus I know the solo guys are there for the girls. Often groups tend to talk amongst themselves, concentrating on the beer and shots and don't get as many dances.

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    Same here. Solo guys are much more cool to deal with than those in groups, with rare exception. I'm not impressed in the least by a bunch of guys sitting around yelling, which is what most guys do when with a group. Once in a while you can do well with a group if everyone in the group is really into you because they will all want a dance from you and they tend not to stay long so they will get the dances one after the other.

    Also, most of the times when I'm with a guy who's with a friend or a group, the guy I'm with will be totally hot for dances but feels obligated to stay downstairs with his friend(s) who is/are either too cheap to get dances or can't find a girl to go with. Or maybe we get upstairs and he wants to renew in vip but the friend doesn't, so I lose out because of the friend, and/or because the girl who's with the friend isn't good at the game or is just plain boring. This is why I prefer to either go for the single guys or approach pairs with a friend that I know is fun and good at the game.

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    A guy alone will usually spend more time with you. And in the long run pay, and you make a regular.
    Guys in groups can be loads of fun!!! They buy each other dances, to see how their friend will act.
    I prefer both. Guys in groups have been known to like a certain lady, and come back alone if you give him fair attention.
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    Default Re: going after groups or solo guys

    Ya solo is the first approach but I will approach groups even though it does require caution, sometimes they get that wolfpack mentality and can be a difficult task especially if they are drinking to excess, sometimes with the younger ones its the frat boy syndrome where they all try to be THE MAN! LOL!

    But ya can persuade them to get dances, if ya can get just ONE, you can come back to the group with him in tow, saying "alright he loved it, just ask him, now who's NEXT?"

    Then ya can usually squirm a couple more into it but what a task.

    So solo or groups of two are usually main "targets" if you will.
    They usually know what they are there for, and welcome the company and more often than not buy the most dances.

    Just my experience, anyway.
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    I understand why groups of guys can be a waste of time , but i would asume that most clubs have lots of groups coming in on a regular basis.It would be a shame not think of them as potential money. I would think that the best way to approach these guys is with a group of dancer friends (if you have other dancers you get along with), this way the dancers and the customers don't feel intimidated and there is more control one on one.

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    well i always go for the solo guy first, but like leigh said sometimes the group pays off. i say who wants to go next he can give me a good refrence! they always think that is funny. last week i got the ENTIRE group than multibile dances from the boss everyone treated. as far as bachlor parties go... i really dont do to much with them as it's usually all for the bachlor and the other guys just stand around. i try to get the bachlor but if i dont get him pretty much stear clear of the rest of them.
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    Also, it depends on the reason for the group being there. If its a guys birthday or batchelor party, they tend to buy less and spend way too much time hanging out, talking, and drinking. However, if the guys are there for a convention or its a business related trip, the guys are there usually to spend and have a good time...not hang out too much with the guys they came in with!

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    in my opinion, sometimes guys will come into clubs in groups so they have their boys to stop them from spending too much. If there is a group of guys, me and some of my dancer friends will approach them and 'break them up' so we can chat individually

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    Default Re: going after groups or solo guys

    How about mixed groups? One time I went to a club with two friends (male/female couple). When the girlfriend was at our table with us we were left alone; as soon as she got up to use the ladies' room, her boyfriend and I got the bum rush from about half a dozen girls. It was too bad...the girlfriend would've gladly gotten dances if someone had just come over.

    Have to agree about the pack mentality not being financially beneficial. One would think if you have a bunch of guys trying to one-up each other they may try to out-spend each other. However, my experience has been that in a group, we don't want to seem like we're *too* into the strip clubbing thing, so we're less open than we would be on our own.
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