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    Ladies, if you notice that a customer is already aroused do you avoid or try to avoid him or giving him a lap dance? This happened to me once and I was a little perplexed. There was this very attractive woman who had just finished her set. I must admit that she was very stimulating and a good dancer as well. When she finished her set she visited several of the tables. When she got to mine I tipped her again and asked if I could get a lap dance. She looked at my crotch and said laughingly .."I'm not sitting on that" she winked and walked away. I was confused about this to be honest. I was neatly dressed and I have been told I was a nice looking guy on more than one occasion. However,I was quite a bit aroused and I have what some women may feel is a large penis. Obviously you can't expect a healthy male to not get an erection if he's getting a lap dance but if he already has one before you start do you shy away from this or prefer not to do it ? also is there a preference to giving a lap dance to guy with a small or average penis to a guy with a large penis ? sorry for the intimate questioning but these are questions only someone who is in the business can accurately answer...thanx

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    While this has never happened to me, I really don't think that I would avoid giving a guy a dance who was aroused by my stage performance. I would actually be pretty flattered about that, and guess that if I turn him on THAT much he would probably want more than one dance. At the club I work at (it is pretty high contact) the majority of the guys become visibly aroused DURING the dances, so we all have to "sit on that" eventually.

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    she missed her chance didnt she, maybe she doesntlike the feel, or the large penises..hehehehehhe
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    BB,
    That's odd. Maybe she was a stuck up biotch who had already made her money for the evening and felt like being a princess or something. She obviously missed out on lucritive money-making dance(s) with you.

    "also is there a preference to giving a lap dance to guy with a small or average penis to a guy with a large penis ?"

    I, for one, have no preference. I'm not there to have sex with you, I'm there to dance! Seeing that you are aroused means I'm doing a good job...

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    She was probably afraid you were all ready to cum. No girl likes nut on their leg. :o


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    Quite frankly, if a guy gets aroused, I feel like I did my job well! I do not determine who I will give dances to by penis size. A large penis may even arouse me , thus you would probably get a better dance! Maybe she was just trying to say it's proper etiquette not to walk around the club with a woody! Our table dance rooms are right by the men's bathroom, and a lot of guys use it to compose themselves (not to jack off!) after a dance, because they would feel embarassed if the other guys in the club saw their erection.

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    Or maybe she's had the dubious privilege of having been put in this situation several hundred times more than she had anticipated, when she decided to try stripping, to make a buck.

    Some of these women got into the business because they actually want to dance. As opposed to being motivated to seek out what they may pretend is the very large honor of rubbing their butt on a stranger's dick, whatever the size. This honor could actually be very small, and they are just trying to impress someone.

    That's supposed to be funny. Maybe it's a bad joke, and not funny at all, and a very poor satire of that tiresome male desire to make known that which not many care about, and may or may not be true.

    The word "honor" should not here be taken as pertaining to any kind of moralistic judgement. Rather as to a great privilege, or as in it's being regarded as a favorite part of the job. And I mean no discourtesy to those dancers who find it to be a stimulating experience.

    It's interesting, I knew dancers had a much more difficult job than everyone thinks (having worked with them), but topics like this make me realize that it is even tougher than I had thought. This would be especially true in areas such as Houston or Detroit, where there are few, if any, low-contact clubs.

    Obviously the whole point of a strip club is to provide pleasure of a sensual nature. Maybe I've been in the business too long, but my sympathy is with that "bitchy" dancer, as long as the wink was made in a friendly fashion, and she smiled when she made her "sitting on that" joke.

    She may have a job to do, and it may entail guys getting erections in VIP, but I would sure as hell not expect her to leap joyously on every hard-on that she had produced with her stage performance.



    Shouldn't this question be in Customer Conversation, or better yet StripclubJunkie?



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    If this dancer got so bitchy over the size of the poster's penis, she should switch to no contact clubs or just do air dances. Well, duh, it's no surprise many if not most clients get aroused by the sight of a scantily and provocatively clothed (if clothed) exotic dancer! I must admit, though, that I've been left waiting for an offstage lap dance several times, in those clubs here in PR where it's allowed. Never ventured to ask why, so I don't know if my member had something to do with it.



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    When i see a customer with a hard on, i say something. I need to cool it with him for a few moments too.
    It's normal. Guys get turned on by us prancing around half nude, or nude. But i really don't want him to make a mistake!
    Or get off while i am giving him a dance. However i only do air dances and tables while on the floor, so i would imagine it's harder for a guy to get stimulated with out me sitting on his lap.
    But i do see it now, and i mention it, and stop. They don't mind. Yet anyway. If a guy wants to get off, i think a strip club is really "NOT" the place to blow!
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    that was a cute post though, Poor guy got confused
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    I love it when guys get visibly turned on by me. The more turned on the better, and if he is masturbating, it means I'm doing a great job!

    If a guy watches my show and doesn't finish, I actually feel disappointed.

    Kaiya (at the Lusty Lady SF)

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    I love it when guys get visibly turned on by me. The more turned on the better, and if he is masturbating, it means I'm doing a great job!

    If a guy watches my show and doesn't finish, I actually feel disappointed.

    Kaiya (at the Lusty Lady SF)
    You mention he "watches your show" which leads me to believe you dance at least a slight distance away.

    BB, I don't think the issue was your big hard cock. I think she thought you were too aroused already and either 1)might come ON her or 2) might come prematurely thereby wasting her time for finding a more lucrative prospect.


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    I wouldn't be bothered by this, and like already said by many girls, then I feel I am doing my job well........ That's what we are there for to entertain, and hard ons are part of the job.......
    Even if she looked at it like you might bust a nut quick, (granted I don't think any of us like it to get on us at all) its still a quick 10 to 20 dollars, and maybe a customer who will be coming back to see her in the future.......
    I would look at it as maybe gaining a new customer, if he enjoyed my stage show, I would enjoy dancing for him!!!!
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    i believe it had nothing to do with the size of your *ahem* member... at least if it were me that would not be the case. the only reason i would turn down a dance for an obviously aroused man would be if the fabric of his pants did not seem thick enough... for i typically dont enjoy dances if the lap im dancing on happens to become slightly wet...

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    I love it when guys get visibly turned on by me. The more turned on the better, and if he is masturbating, it means I'm doing a great job!

    If a guy watches my show and doesn't finish, I actually feel disappointed.
    Oh, you mean guys are allowed to jack off while watching the show???Damn... :-/



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    This post is stupid.
    Who gives a crap what a customer thinks about his weiner.

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    Oh, you mean guys are allowed to jack off while watching the show???Damn... :-/
    The Lusty lady in SF, CA is a peep show club. Not really your typical strip club.

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    Carlos: yes, guys come to the Lusty Lady to jack off to us. Actually, interacting with them from behind the glass is one of my fetishes.

    There is a thick glass separating me from the customer. If I were in a regular club and the customer had a hard on, I would wouldn't have a problem as long as his pants were on. Come to think of it, it depends on what kind of pants he has on. I have seen some guys come in with really sheer looking pants that look like they could rip open with just a little friction.

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    Carlos: yes, guys come to the Lusty Lady to jack off to us. Actually, interacting with them from behind the glass is one of my fetishes.
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    Hey Kaiya, what other fetishes do you have? You've got me curious. :-)
    (and by the way, that was a very, um, arousing post....lol.)

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    All points are well taken...thank you. Now, I'm sure I will be going back soon. Should I not ask her again ? Or should I see if her perspective has changed ? If someone had asked one of you ladies for a lap dance and you cordially declined for whatever reason. Would you be offended if asked a second time, if a substantial time period of several days or more had elapsed but you did remember the customer ?

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    If I were you, and she still "floats your boat", I would definately ask her again. Maybe she was just having a bad night, maybe someone(s) tried to get too frisky with her! Just don't make the same mistake twice! Don't let your large....interest in her...scare her off this time!

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    BB You should go ahead and ask her again. Just make sure you are wearing jeans or pants with thick enough material that your junk isn't jumping out at her. If I can see a boner bulging through some sweat pants I'm am going to skip that table too.

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    BB, either she was just having a bad nite, or she is a bitch! Ask her again! The odds are she wont even remember that nite. The key BB, is to find a really cool dancer. 3 weeks ago, this dancer was sorta giving me a little massage at the bar. We went to the back for dances. Now mind you, I was already turned on before we got there. So she gets on my lap and goes "damn, we didnt even start yet! You must be good!" My reply was "I dont know if I am good, it just means I dont need viagra!" Anyhow, we both had a really good laugh about it and it was one of the better times I have had in a long time. Just dont get a dance cuz she is hot! Make sure that she has a personality too! It does make a difference!

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    Waterfetishguy: Another fetish of mine is watching another couple have sex or at least watch them get aroused. Tonight I got lucky and had a couple engage in the hottest sex I have ever seen. Everything was so natural unlike porno sex. It was so good that I kept giving them free time and afterwards I couldn't get my mind off it.

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