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    What do u girls feel when there is only one guy left in the club....would u rather him leave or stay?

    What about you guys? One time i entered a club and i was the only one there...i was about to turn around and leave, but the bouncer guy sat me up on pervert's row.

    I bring this up because recently, I went to a club ( on a tuesday about 10pm) and it was pretty dead, maybe about 5-7 guys. I started getting LD's from a dancer and we were getting along pretty good...eventually the club was down to me and like 2 other guys. When it was time for the dancer i was getting along with to go on stage, the other two guys left, and she was like "now you're the only left...you gotta stay". and then we talked for awhile...but then i noticed I was keeping the other people in the club, like the DJ and bouncers and management...so i decided to leave even though we were having a good conversation and i was planning on getting a few more LD's.

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    If you want to stay, stay. if you want to leave, leave! They will all still be there if you're not there in case other people come in. They just can't close shop!

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    Okay, if it was a guy who was planning on getting more dances from me then I would definitely rather them stay. But if there were a few guys in the club (enough where the girls would have to go on stage) and they weren't tipping too much and not getting dances I would rather them leave so I wouldn't have to go on stage for a while.

    Believe me, if it is towards the end of the night and the club is about to close, the manager will tell the dj to announce that the club is about to close, pretty much letting the customers know it is time to go. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it.

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    If your spending money, stay! We all have to pay our bills weather the club is slow or busy... I really would much rather be on stage with four or five generous well mannered gentlemen in the club that a zillion cheap ass college kids.

    Has anyone else noticed the relationship between the number of guys in the club and the individual men's brains? It's like there's a certain amount of male IQ available in the room, and the more men there are, the less they get. (No offense to you guys. I love you all, I just love you more individually!)

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    Lena- totally! there's something about the club being packed that makes it more frustrating. And they aren't just dumber, they are nastier. The number of grabby hands grows exponentially like mold in a Petrie dish!

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    LMAO, I love the IQ thing, seem's to be true.
    I do agree with Mike there though. It suck's to be the only or one of the only customer's in the club. You have to sit and watch the girl's go up and down, some guy's tipping more out of a sence of obligation then admiration. No one like to watch you work for free, no one like's pity either. I guess you would have to be in the position of the guy who paid to get in. Find he's like the only one there and as the girl's come on stage they sort of scowl and you take it personally although it's not necessarily you personally but because your there they have to preform instead of sit in the dressing room bitchin about how crappy a night there having. OH and they're having a crappy night if your the only one there.

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    Bob,

    Scowling on stage is very unprofessional. I would just disregard the reactions of unprofessional or unpleasant dancers and give all your money to the girl with the smile on her face (that would be me, btw LOL).

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    Oh, I didn't mean to imply that, really I was generalizing, it's like the " Did I shave my leg's for this", attitude that "some" girl's have, when they have to look enthusiastic for a customer or few customer's that feel they're in the right place at the wrong time. Some girl's do a great job of hiding it when, to there disappointment, only a few guy's are out there but those girl's are usually the one's the dominate the club.

    He did say 10pm, that should be prime time.

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    I can only answer this question with another question:

    Is the guy in question spending money on the girls?

    McCain

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    Mike:

    I think you are looking at it from the wrong perspective. You are the customer.

    If I still have money for dances, I don't care if I have to tip the DJ to play music a half hour after the club closes. I'm getting my dances. I've been last one out of the club on many occasions. In fact, I often don't come out till they start flashing the lights and come in the VIP to get me out. lol.

    I never leave till I run out of money. If I run out of dance money but have some for the rail, I stay. When I run out of dance money and rail money, I leave. No point in taking up space if you can't have fun. Use your wallet as a gauge busy or slow.

    If the club wants to close, they will let you know. The only time I was in a club that closed early, was Valentines's Day 1 year ago. And then they told me they were closing in 1/2 hour when I went in at 10:00.

    In your case, you found a dancer you liked, you should have stayed and got dances. You would have gotten waaayyy more one on one time per $$$ spent and you would not have felt as if she were losing money talking with you. It was an opportunity for her to turn you into a regular as well. With the right entertainer, the conversation can be as much fun as the dances.
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    In your case, you found a dancer you liked, you should have stayed and got dances. You would have gotten waaayyy more one on one time per $$$ spent and you would not have felt as if she were losing money talking with you. It was an opportunity for her to turn you into a regular as well. With the right entertainer, the conversation can be as much fun as the dances.

    It never bothers me if I am one of only a few guys around for this reason. I love going to clubs when its slow. My favorite night to go is sunday,you always get more for your $

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    Sure, as long as you don't have work the following day and the dancers are really into it. Last Easter Sunday in El Alcázar in Isabela at least three dancers bypassed me and did not lap dance me offstage and it was a very slow night. If it weren't for one girl who sat with me and chatted two of them wouldn't have made amends with me, lapdancing for tips.



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