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    Default Re:i know costomers cant touch certian areas.. but..

    I never touch. Hands off is my motto. If she puts my hand somewhere I'll try to not jerk it away (My first impulse), but I'd prefer that she didn't. I don't see what the big deal is about touching, anyway. I'd rather touch someone who really wants me to rather than someone doing it for a few bucks.

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    yes, I alway ask. for me I just like likely caressing her hips, and when she ls doing the old but rub, I will give her a back rub.

    some dancer hate being touched, most don't care one way or the other as long as they are getting tipped. and the very few LIKE it. but with this last group, it is importaint to carress, NOT grope.

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    I explain the rules after it is established that I will be giving a dance. Basically I remove my top and tell them that they can't touch my breasts or in between my legs. Some dancers do allow it, and I am not going to let them have ALL my business. When they find I give a killer dance they often want more.

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    Default Re:i know costomers cant touch certian areas.. but..

    Wow, i cant believe this thread is still here.. feb 03 guys


    suddenly i feel like a n00b LOL

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    Default Re:i know costomers cant touch certian areas.. but..

    Consult a local attorney well-versed in your area's adult entertainer laws. An hour's worth of his time (two hours for really strict areas) should be a sufficient investment to keep you from being arrested. After that, just watch your fellow dancers and decide for yourself which rules you feel comfortable bending. IME, the club is a decent place to find out the club's personal policy, but not the actual local ordinances.
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    Default Re:i know costomers cant touch certian areas.. but..

    Speaking from experience in clubs both in the Florida and the Alabama areas, most if not all clubs state there is a touch & go policy! If you touch our dancers you will go! Now what management doesn't see or catch is totally up to them. Dancers from the areas that I speak of usually have their own rules when it comes to touching, but then so does management. If she's caught, your busted! I feel that it all depends on the dancer. Alot of them here feel that if they allow a customer to touch then they will pay more. It all comes down to what you feel is safe. Best of luck, Q-Ball

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    Default Re:i know costomers cant touch certian areas.. but..

    I don't get this...
    Sometimes a customer will try to touch..then when you tell them it's against the rules and you will get in trouble (blame it on the club)..they will tell you it's okay, for either one or two reasons:
    1) they know the management
    2) all the other girls do it
    obviously, if a dancer has told them not to, they should respect that, and not try or argue. Why do some customers seem to think that this is part of our job and we owe them that?
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    Default Re:i know costomers cant touch certian areas.. but..

    I have been to 2 different clubs that allow touching. One was just the arms, back and legs of the dancer and it was great to me. It made if feel kinda real for the moment. It was nice to get to touch her while she touched you. The other was a free for all as long as the dancer said it was ok . Im a boob man and for that part it was great but when she wanted me to touch her kitty I did not. As you know thats no where to touch with dirty hands and we all know a strip club like this is not going to be very clean. Besides you never know whats "cooking" down there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by wanna_be_rode link=board=8;threadid=4046;start=msg48157#msg48157 date=1046987190

    i progress on my friendliness scale till she says ok hold there
    It's interesting that you call it a "friendliness scale." While I recognize that it's a euphemism, the implications of that euphemism are that you are being nice and that the dancer will appreciate it.

    Another guy talked about dancers "enjoying the dance" as much as he did. I highly doubt that the dancer is enjoying the dance as much as you. Yes, there are more and less pleasant dance experiences, but I, for one, don't derive pleasure or enjoyment out of private dances past the pleasure I get from thinking about how I'll spend the $20 I have just been given.

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    I once had a dance with a lovely lady wearing a sexy blue G-string and top. She simply told me "just don't touch anything blue"
    Chuck - thanks for this fantastic line! I have been using it every night I work, whether or not a guy even asks, and they seem to find it funny & they take it very seriously....

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    Your manager should tell you what the club rules are. Every place is different. At my club when a new girl is hired she is told that the customer are allowed to touch her. Having your breast rubbed is part of a regular lap dance at my club.

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    My club has a sign that says no contact [and no refunds] but when I started they said "top off, bottoms on, you decide the level of contact - bottoms off and you have to outside the booth." In our rules booklet it says absolutely no touching of breasts, crotch and buttocks. I follow by that, outside thighs, hips, around the waist is cool with me. if a customer says "can I touch [that]?" about any of the off-limits parts, I say something like "nope, sorry, but I'll touch it for you" as we're allowed to caress ourselves as much as we want. Yeah, I know, not the same thing, but I think it sounds better than a flat "no."
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    Rules Booklet??

    wow, your club must be pretty organized...any rules I've ever seen have been taped to the wall, and are peeling off from all the loogies and cigarette burns in the paper...hahahaha!

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    Default Re:i know costomers cant touch certian areas.. but..

    Houston has a 3 ft rule; I honestly don't know a club here that follows it, lol.

    I just leave it up to the dancer, let them initiate all contact. I do know that the best dances I have gotten have all been when the dancer felt safe with me and we were having a fun time.

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    Default Re:i know costomers cant touch certian areas.. but..

    yall gave some good tips / advice, thx....

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    That Houston 3 ft rule is about as useful and followed as the sodomy laws...at least THOSE have been overturned....

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    And I thought the 3 foot rule was only for customers with an extra foot!

    Sorry....too silly
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    I work in Houston now and I used to think Vegas was high contact. Ha!!!

    It's a constant battle. You all who work in NO contact clubs have no idea how good you have it. You complain so badly when someone's hands wander places they shouldn't and you have to keep them in line.

    I don't mind high contact, in fact I prefer it, but I have to admit I thoroughly enjoy the rare out-of-town customer who doesn't realize Houston plays by different rules than the rest of the country, and is respectful. During Super Bowl and other events that have drawn tourists to Houston, I practically had to command my customers to touch me - they would barely even want to touch my leg for fear of being thrown out!

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    You need to bring a lawer now when you go into a club.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Butchee link=board=8;threadid=4046;start=msg83853#msg83853 date=1079165173
    You need to bring a lawer now when you go into a club.....
    or you could do something much more simple and RESPECT THE DANCERS PERSONAL LIMIT and/or CLUB RULES.

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    I got repremanded for boob touching, I feel if you have a bunch of drunk males, and half naked girls, there will be boob touching. What I don't understand is by law any contact is an illegal lap dance, so why so I can rub my ass on a guys lap, but God forbid a little touch on the breast. In France the girls can walk around topless, so what is the big deal with the breasts. I think girls are total low-life cunts if they tell management about a guy touching a girls breasts. If the standard is no breast touching then politely tell the girl about the standard and say, oh at this club we all agreed on a no breast touching rule, even though it's ok to rub and grind your ass all over a guys lap. Maybe I'm more liberal then most, cause I grew up seeing my European Mom topless a lot. Thanks for reading, sorry if I sounded mean.

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    There are plenty of areas across the USA that breast groping is legal some serve alcohol and some don't. As a rule of them though, breast groping is more inclined to be legal in the "juice bars"

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    The "dont touch the blue area" is a good one. Lately when I am asked what the rules are or they go for the" forbidden area" I have replied by calling the customer a cookie moster and telling them to stay out of the cookie jar. Most of the time they laugh and get the point.

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    Default Re: i know costomers cant touch certian areas.. but..

    My problem with lap dancing is that lap dancers dont like my dead cold hands. They keep taking them away from their warm bodies. I tell them if I can warm them between their legs but they dont like it either, so thats what is keeping me away from strip clubs nowadays, besides the price of oil......
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    Wanna be rode-
    Why would you make her have to tell you when it's too much and she has to tell you to hold up? You aren't paying for a sex service (that would cost you far more than a VIP room dance). You are paying for a female to dance in your lap.
    I have never been to a club that had a "touching allowed" rule. Even at a strip club there are certain social boundaries you are expected to respect. Appropriate touch is one of those commonly known rules that you learn in pre-school, or hopefully before then at home. When you touch someone intimately, such as above the mid thigh, butt, genetalia, or breasts that signafies that you and the other person share an intimate connection. When a dancer is dancing for you she is providing a FANTASY of having an intimate connection with you. Your "friendliness scale" has tipped the wrong way, if you want to be friendly ask the dancer how much touch she is comfortable with, she will let you know and it will more than likely lead to a more intimate feel in her dance because she won't feel like she has to be a b*tch and tell you no. Thats what makes so many dancers emotionally hard and distant after so many times of having to be the "bad guy" and tell overanxious customers no.
    Geez man... help a b*tch out.

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