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    Ok as you all know by now I am fighting down my wieght... well, in the last month or so I have toned up and shed enough for everyone (co-workers and regulars) to start noticing, well my problem is.... the regulars who were too good to even acknowledge my exsistance before..... suddenly wanna be a nicey nicey and complimentary and give me money( ok i'll take it) and want me to sit and talk ect ect... well... I SOOOOOOO want to just go off!!! I mean, I wasn't good enough before... but now that i'm suddenly starting to live up to your standards i'm good enough to spend a buck on?!?!?! omg it burns me and i want to just thrown thier money back in thier faces but i dont i just smile sweetly and take the " WOW whatever your doing is working, your looking so much better keep it up" comments in stride while inside I'm seething.... my face and personality has not changed one bit!!! just my body GRRRRRRRR i know... I am a stripper and its a shallow business but i figured if there were anywhere i could vent it would be here and hopefully one or two of you can feel me here!!!!! sorry for the ramble but i just had to get it off my chest, i had one of the best nights money wise last night and i heard the same shit over and over... lol
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    I understand what you mean by wanting to respond to their remarks but, remember PRIDE don't pay NO bills. If they are not disrespecting you just go with the flow. It is a great idea to just smile and keep your remarks to yourself. Stay focused on your goals which I hope you have, because if you don't know where you are going how the heck will you know when you get the

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    I agree with Tori mija. Hey Angelina great job on loosing that weight gurl. I was reading ur posts and want to know how u did it and how much u lost. Im trying to shed some pounds myself, as always. jejeje.

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    in total probably about 12 pounds not a whole lot i need to lose more as I am only 5'3 or so (taller if i stick my hair up in old 80's fashion LOL) and started at about 175ish and barley fit into a 14 eeeek!!!!!! its been 4 weeks im down to an 11/12 my measurments have gone from 42DD to 38DD 38 inches in the waist is now 35 and hips are now 38 and they were 40 I just ate healthy more green stuff, and i am going to the gym everyday doing cardio everyday and wieght trainig every other day its slow but finally starting to pay off a little i figure another 4 to6 weeks and maybe i'll be happy LOL yeah right!!!
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    Hey Angelina! Glo here. First off AWESOME job loosing the weight!! CONGRATS! I went thru the same situation when I first started dancing. It took me a while to motivate myself to loose weight, but once I did it all went. I understand your frustration, but try to keep a level head. Try to change your mindset instead of thinking the clients were "SNOBS" just think of them as strangers who have not yet had the wonderful opportunity of getting to know you. It is their loss that they did not try before, because remember you can not buy back time. As for now Pay your bills girl! Remember customers are not in control, you are and you will only allow them to frustrate you if YOU LET THEM! You take care of you. I know how it feels to need to vent! HAVE AN AWESOME DAY/NIGHT! GLO

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    Dancing is all about the look. Coming from a guy's perspective, size doesn't matter as long as the woman seems to take care of her self. Why are you trying to loose weight? To look and feel better I'll bet.
    Ya, you are going to get more attention if you take care of yourself.
    Also, it seems like you treat the customer too personally. Dancing is a fantasy for the guy. Don't think too deep about it, just do what you can to get his dollar!

    Keep your chin up

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    Another thing to keep in mind - each guy likes something different. Although I wear about an 11/12 comfortably, I am (so far as I know) the heaviest girl in my club. But there are a LOT of guys who dig me because I don't look like I will break in half if the wind blows hard. I'm not fat either - sure I wouldn't mind knocking off another few pounds, but the hting I am happy with is that I have got some kicking muscle tone started.

    I would worry more about that than I would about the weight itself. It isn't the poundage that counts - it's how much of that poundage is actual fat versus lean muscle mass.

    So rock on, have fun, and know that there are customers out there who totally dig on the chick with dangerous curves.

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    While some guys do like chubby girls, I think that most guys do not. Why would a guy want to waste money of a girl that doesn't turn him on? I know I've turned down dances from chubby women or girls I didn't find attractive. I don't go to the clubs to make the dancers feel good about themselves. I go to the clubs to get turned-on and have a good time. You shouldn't be surprised that a lot of these guys pay more attention to a slimmer you.

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    Huh ? You are in a looks/fantasy providing business and you are surprised that you are making better money when you look better ? I'm not saying this in a mean way . You are simply improving the product you are offering and making the product closer to what the masses will buy. Take " yourself"out of the equation and try to look at it how a customer would.

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    Uh, do you guys realize that you are replying to a posting that was made about 6 years old.

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    I felt the exact same way when i got my boobs done!! I just ignored them though, b/c thats what they did to me before i fixed my boobs!!

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    I understand how you feel that guys should have noticed you before you got the weight off(good job by the way!) But it might not just be the weight they notice, you might possibly carry yourself with more confidence and feel sexier about yourself, that is what is appealing to most guys. A girl doesn't have to have a perfect body, but she has that sex appeal guys will notice

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    I think the OP has probably long since resolved her dilemma, it being from 2002.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BohemianSiren View Post
    Agreed. However, I'm still wondering what sort of club would hire a girl who's 5'3" and tipping the scale at 175 lbs.
    lol, I'm afraid I can name at least two in Providence. It's era of the "house fee as income" in a lot of places. Any girl willing to show up with her house fee and tip-outs can dance.
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    There was a girl at my club who was probably somewhere around that (5'3 175pounds) but she made a lot of money. She had HUGE boobs and HUGE hips/bum. She had a bit of a belly but she was definiely thinner in the middle. She also had long blonde hair and wore dark eye makeup looking straight out of a porn movie.

    It's all how the weight is carried.

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    Dancing is all about looks. Customers could care less about what we think or feel or do. All the customers care about is themselves and getting good value for their money.

    Lots of customers love a non-traditional look, be it a bigger girl or a girl with lots of piercings and tattoos or a girl with a shaved head. But the gym body, playboy/maxim look is the most popular, and therefore will appeal to a larger segment of the customer base. I'm not saying a niche market dancer can't make a lot of money, but she does have to work a little harder to find her clientèle.


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    This is an old old thread, but ah yea...

    In a big population, there are always exceptions, people looking for various body types, even those who truly are buying personality-only, looks no-factor, but the majority are buying looks (often plus personality, if the looks are there).

    It may be nice to imagine a world where looks are meaningless, but then we need to be careful what we wish for.... While guys experience it to a lesser degree, they too find that women measure them up in part based on their looks. And you have to wonder, if they didn't, how many guys would spend a lot less time in the SC?

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    If you were so happy with the way you were, why did you lose the weight to begin with? Obviously YOU also find yourself more attractive and in shape, so why do you get angry at customers who give you compliments and appreciate your new body? I'm confused.

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    If someone compliments you on how you look and notices the work you have put in to better yourself "wow you look terrific". Isn't that better than people not noticing at all?

    I really am not understanding the point of this thread.
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    are you serious?

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    Bumping threads this old should be a bannable offense. It's seriously annoying.
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